How to choose your own life path

Different ages will have different choices. At every crossroads in life, we must make irreversible choices until the end of our lives. So how should we make a good choice in the face of the crossroads of life?

I like to brush videos and see such an educational video: At the first intersection, when we were young, we had two choices: interest classes and amusement parks. When the child wanted to go to the amusement park, his father appeared and said, study hard now, and I signed you up for piano lessons, so there will be plenty of time to play in the future. With his father leading the way hand in hand, he reluctantly walked to the intersection of the interest class;

He majored in photography and accounting when he graduated from high school. He wants to choose his favorite photography major. His mother showed up and said, what's your photography major? Select an accountant. Take my class and listen to me in the future. There is no doubt that I once again went to the accounting major according to my mother's wishes;

After graduating from college, I talked about my girlfriend, and there were two options, Tibet and marriage. He said: Let's go to Tibet first. That's the distance I've been pursuing. The girl said, I don't want to delay any longer. I'm 30 years old this year, so I don't have much time left. My mother said that as long as we bought a house, we could get married. Let's go to Tibet again sometime. He chose to buy a house and get married again;

Once, his friend came and wanted to invite him out to play ball and have dinner. We haven't seen each other for a long time. Let's get together. There are two choices: dinner and going home. We were just about to choose dinner when his wife appeared: Husband, the children haven't picked up after school, and I have something to do. I have to go home for dinner after work. You pick up the children first, and friends can get together when they are free. He looked back for a long time this time and chose to go home.

The road of life will have different intersections at different stages, and the key to giving different options lies in how we choose. When we were young, we didn't go to the playground, so we would lack a lot of fun in our childhood. In the absence of joy, we gain knowledge and cultivate our extracurricular interests, such as piano and dance. After the college entrance examination, we are in a confused period. If we choose photography and choose our own interests, then our work may lack some stability and there will be more work to be done in the future.

What do parents think? Is stability, is to have a good job, a smooth life. At every crossroads in our lives, others will appear and influence our choices. Those choices in our hearts are either ignored or abandoned, and those we have no choice will become a regret. Every time I recall, I feel a sense of loss. Even if we get happiness from it and give us another chance, we will still choose this road now, but we will still regret the one we didn't choose.

Of all people, only a few will stick to their personal goals and work hard for them. Most of us are ordinary people. In the process of pursuing our goals, some people give up because of the hardships in the process. Some people lose their qualifications because they encounter novel things on the road of pursuit. Some people stop halfway because they encounter some small goals within reach, thinking that they have reached the end; Only a few of them, firm and clear about their goals, finally achieved the fruits of victory.

Except for a few people who finally won the fruits of victory, most of us still need someone to help us make a choice at the crossroads of life, and we need to follow some suggestions from our parents and teachers to make the right choice in case we lose ourselves on the road. There is still an essential difference between what schools and society contact, and it is not an exaggeration to call it a world of difference. How many campus figures disappear in the torrent of society and rush about for life; There are also many people who are very low-key on campus, but in society, they are mixed. Therefore, when we make life choices, we need parents and teachers to give us valuable advice. These opinions may not be the best, but they are the safest way in their hearts.