What is the motivation for children to grow up happily?

The growth of children, like a seedling, needs the nourishment of sunshine and rain, the baptism of storms and the power of nature. In the process of growing up, they can experience the happiness of life and feel the power of being tall and straight. As parents and teachers, they provide their children with not only learning resources, but also the power of their progress, so that they can feel safe, tired, have a place to rely on, and have a warm harbor when they are tired.

Children need a kind of strength to grow up, so that they can be strong and enrich themselves. But in real life, children lack the power to move forward. Children are eager for understanding and support. They are eager for adults to read the world with them. They need the power of love to help them realize their dreams.

The power of appreciation. Appreciation is a recognition of children's advantages. Our parents and teachers always see their children's shortcomings and think that this will promote their better growth. Our educational habit is to change children's shortcomings to realize their growth. When you focus on shortcomings, we often ignore the advantages, which also makes children lose self-confidence, feel inferior in your negation and have no sense of accomplishment. When they want to try to challenge themselves, they lose their courage and strength, so their brilliance is slowly buried. Appreciation is more than praise. Appreciation is to discover children's advantages scientifically and enlarge them constantly, which will become children's wealth and capital for their future success. Give children the power to appreciate, let them discover their own potential, let their hearts be full of sunshine, and confidently accumulate wealth in life.

The power of trust. Trusting children is a kind of respect for children. Adults always treat children as children and ignore their feelings. They think their ideas are naive and their practices are simple. But in children's world, their ideas are as important as adults' decisions, and they should have the right to be respected in their world. Trust them and make them feel important. Don't ignore children's feelings, make them feel that they are a very important member of the family and an indispensable member of the class, find themselves in trust, discover their own values, and cultivate their sense of mission and responsibility. The power of trust makes children feel safe. Why do children nowadays hate home and classrooms? Because they are afraid to move in such a space, lack the support of trust, fear of parents' accusations and teachers' criticism. We and our children are constantly struggling, creating a tense air in the original happy place, making communication rigid and difficult to flow. Trust can make the air of love flow. The power of trust can make children find happiness.

The power of discovery. Finding a child at any time is a miracle, your happiness and your luck. In a word, it is really happy to have a daughter, and it is really good to have a son, which makes them feel that they are the gospel that brings us happiness, the unique miracle in this world, and he is also the unique individual in this world. Don't imitate others, be yourself, let him find his own advantages, know his own shortcomings, and tap his own bright spots. And enlarge yourself infinitely, so that children will succeed in the future. Today's children are particularly confused, lost themselves, don't know who they are, and discovery is to help children find themselves.