How similar are the lonely people who came to A Mu from the sea and the rain butterfly?

From a woman's point of view, the best gifts are simple gifts, not flashy and exaggerated gifts. A man collects Valentine's cards and gives them to his girlfriend at any time. Whenever she is in a bad mood, he puts a card where she may find it, which makes her very happy. Although with the rich social experience, there have been many exchanges between men and women. However, sometimes men don't understand women's minds, just as they don't understand the darkness at night during the day. Li and I are busy all day. He is a photographer, while she takes care of two young children. A few years ago, their busy life affected their intimate relationship. When they sleep at night, they are actually like two strangers.

Keeping in touch during the day has changed some things. Li said, "We talked on the phone. Although sometimes it was only for a while, I think we spent some time together. I just want to hear his voice. " Without the initial conversation, wives may feel stressed and alienated, and they will resist intimate relationships.

She doesn't want sexy underwear and kitchenware.

Why do gifts that don't seem to be a big problem cause big trouble between husband and wife? Women think about the meaning of gifts. Husband often gives his wife a new book by her favorite author. The message in the book is: "I am listening when you are talking, and I want to make you happy." But the oven or sexy underwear makes her feel like a cow. The husband seems to say, "I don't know or care what you like, so I just want to make myself happy."

The men complained, "If she wanted me to give her something special as a birthday present, why didn't she tell me?" At the same time, the woman is thinking, "If I have to tell you, I don't feel like a woman, because it means you haven't considered me at all."

Num endured it for several years, and her husband gave her a knife as a gift. Later, he finally understood how important the gift was to her. "Now, if he sees what I appreciate, he will remember to surprise me on my birthday six months later. This makes me feel how much he loves me. "

When a woman asks, "Do I look fat in these jeans?" Asking such a question is actually saying that you feel lack of self-confidence. The correct answer is not a simple yes or no, no matter what you say, just make her feel love and safe.