Parents love Anjie (Anjie, the original Xu Niang is old and charming)

Xu Niang is over 500 years old, but her charm still exists.

It is Jiang's evaluation of mother An Jie in the original work "Parents' Love".

The original text reads:

My impression of my mother is very complicated, so it's hard to say. As long as I can remember, my mother is over forty years old, but there are almost no traces of time on her face in her forties. Her skin color is very white and thin, which greatly reduces her age. When I was in junior high school, a text mentioned that Xu Niang was always charming. At that time, I didn't know whether it was positive or negative. When the teacher tried to explain Xu Niang and charm on the platform, my mother's white and delicate face suddenly appeared in my mind. I believe that among the forty students in my class, I am the first to understand and deeply appreciate the appearance of a woman of that age expressed by this idiom.

The TV series also greatly exaggerated Anjie's beauty, especially the scene where she sat on a rickshaw, which was so youthful and beautiful. When she became the mother of several children and walked on the island in middle age, the female soldiers shouted "12 1" because of her beauty.

In this TV series, the love between Anjie and Jiang Defu is greatly beautified. Angie in TV series likes Jiang Defu. She is willing to go back to her hometown to farm, give birth to Jiang Defu, and accompany Jiang Defu to her hometown to visit relatives. Even Angie is very kind to Jiang Defu's sister Jiang Dehua.

But in the original work, this is not the case.

Annoying children? Son. In the original book, Angie gave birth to eight children and lived seven. Jiang is her youngest daughter.

Jiang described her mother Angie like this:

Our mother lives in seclusion in Haiyang, Rainbow, but my mother's face is white and looks excellent, but her beautiful eyes are not the sick mother of Haiyang, Rainbow. She always caresses her thin face like a monkey in Wang Haiyang. Our mother has never been like this. Her big bright eyes always pass over the heads of our seven brothers and sisters and land in an imaginary place, as if it were another group of her children and another home.

Angie in the original is too impatient with her children to even listen to them finish one thing. And she is extremely dissatisfied and even desperate to have so many children like a sow.

In the TV series, Anjie said that she just wants to live this life. Drinking water is a cup for drinking water, tea is a cup for drinking tea, and coffee is a cup for drinking coffee. She is satisfied with her life with Andrew.

Whether she married Andrew or gave him so many children, Angie had her own happiness.

However, in the original work, Angie did not have this kind of happiness. In the original, Angie hid the man's photo. In the face of questioning, Angie shouted "Miss Ann", feeling sad and sobbing.

In the original "Jiang", wrote:

When my mother called Miss An, I obviously felt that my mother was calling herself, calling the young self who walked on the streets of Qingdao in a floral cheongsam twenty years ago. Miss Ann, Miss Ann. Mother's voice broke through for twenty years, calling back the distant Miss An. She smiled brightly at her tearful and aging mother. The smile was clear and vague, kind and sad, which made her heartache.

Angie in the original never lived the life she wanted. She hated Jiang Defu in her heart, even the children born with Jiang Defu.

She has no patience or even love for them. She passively accepted her life as a fertility tool and hated it.

Never been back to the river? Telford's hometown. The original text reads:

My mother has been married to my father for decades, but she has never been back to my father's hometown once. Although my father's parents and in-laws both died before they got married, my father still has a living eldest brother and a group of nephews and granddaughters from A, B, C and D, not to mention those messy aunts. Mom should have gone back to show her face to dad, but she said she would never go back after her death.

As for the reason why Angie didn't go back after her death, there were lice there.

Even when Jiang Defu's eldest brother died, Angie still didn't go back. Not only did she not go back, but she was extremely cold and contemptuous in the face of her husband who came back from the funeral. She leaned against the door frame with one shoulder and her hands on her chest, and said to her long-lost husband:

Wait, take a shower outside and get dressed before you come in.

Angie doesn't like Andrew from a peasant background. This aversion started from the moment she met Jiang Defu. In the original book, when Angie and Jiang Defu first met, Angie saw a lot of dirt hidden under his fingernails. She even said that Jiang Defu was a hillbilly and didn't even know a hundred words.

Angie in the original has no affection for Jiang Defu in the TV series, and she doesn't even have any decision in this marriage. Her brother and sister-in-law warmly welcomed Jiang Defu's arrival, but Jiang Defu, like him, felt that he could shoot down many difficult strongholds, so he couldn't handle a bourgeois bitch.

Both sides took the initiative, Angie was single-handedly, and finally she could only declare failure.

She is not reconciled to this marriage.

In the original work, there is even a word to describe Angie's feeling of marrying Jiang Defu: extreme grievance.

In the original work, Angie married Jiang Defu with great pains, followed Jiang Defu to guard the border, and gave birth to many children for Jiang Defu. She has suffered so much injustice, how can she follow Jiang Defu back to her hometown in the countryside?

In the original book, Angie didn't even smile when people came to Jiang Defu from Jiang Defu's hometown. Jiang Defu questioned her, unable to laugh. An Jie's answer is: No.

No one in Jiang Defu's hometown says Angie is good, but this is the limit that Angie can accept Jiang Defu. In her own mind, she can't accept Jiang Defu's relatives at all.

Love me, love my dog

For Anjie, she doesn't even love Jiang Defu. She hates it. How can she love her relatives in Jiang Defu?

The right family? That's right. In the original book, Anjie once forced Arjun to commit suicide because of her daughter's marriage.

An Jie in the original book introduced Yaqiong to a promising young man in the countryside, just like the young Jiang Defu. That young man, whose Mandarin is not standard, eats and talks, and his front teeth are yellow.

Even Jiang Defu despises such people, but Angie thinks such people are very good. She stubbornly refused to let go of her daughter Arjun's hand, just as she had been trying to fix her and Comrade Kou, and she was determined to promote this marriage.

Like her brothers and sisters, she doesn't care whether she likes it or not, but only thinks about the benefits that following that man will bring to her daughter and the whole family.

However, her daughter Arjun was not her, and Arjun chose a more decisive way to resist marriage.

In the face of her daughter's refusal, Anjie quickly aged, and almost overnight, her hair was messy and her eyes were scattered.

When Jiang Defu said:

You are crazy, too. Arjun and that man are not family. How can they be a couple?

Overnight, old Angie suddenly broke out. She screamed at the top of her lungs like a country bitch:

Jiang Defu, you deserve the right one, right? Thirty years ago, you were my family, right? What were you then? Aren't you a countryman like that man? What's wrong with rural people? Rural people are not people? Shouldn't rural people marry women in cities?

She and Jiang Defu are strangers and stubborn. Why should she accept her fate all her life, while her daughter, even her husband, despises this man who looks like a young Jiang Defu?

Angie's rant contains too many things, including the accusation that she had no choice but to marry Jiang Defu. Everyone despises the injustice of someone like Jiang Defu, but she married such a person, and there is a kind of despair. She actually began to think that people like Jiang Defu were good candidates for son-in-law.

She is no longer that high-flying Miss An, she has completely become a rural woman.

The kind of people she once resisted, even those who hated and hated, finally became the kind of people she recognized. She slowly approached Jiang Defu. Instead of meeting her, she missed it and went to a country road that was completely opposite to her original intention.

There is no love between her and Jiang Defu, but decades of marriage, those struggles, those quiet times, and the arrogant Anjie have been honed beyond recognition.

? Born in happiness? I don't know the joy. When I watched the TV series "Parents' Love", my deepest impression of Anjie was that he was born without knowing how to be blessed.

Without Jiang Defu, there would be no such comfortable life for her, especially compared with her sister An Xin. Her sister An Xin looks no worse than her and is gentler and more virtuous than her, but she has suffered so much because she married a different husband.

However, Angie enjoyed the comfort brought by Jiang Defu, but always resented that she didn't live the beautiful life she wanted.

The character Anxin was also mentioned in the original work, and Jiang wrote:

My period is really good. She is only two years older than my mother, but she knows everything. The sweaters, trousers, vests, trousers and shoes of our seven brothers and sisters are all made by menstruation. If it weren't for this menstruation, I'm afraid we would freeze to bones on the way. Sometimes, I wonder, menstruation is only two years older than my mother and much more beautiful than my mother, but why is my mother more delicate than menstruation? Our sisters have discussed this problem many times, which is very helpful for our menstruation. I think it's my second sister's opinion: our mother is purely self-indulgent.

In the marriage between Angie and Jiang Defu, Angie didn't love Jiang Defu, because she didn't love him, so she was stingy with her own efforts, so she loved herself more and used herself more. In the TV series, Angie realized that she was born in happiness after seeing Mr. Ge who picked up dung. There is no teacher Ge in the original work, and there is no such awakening of Anjie.

In the original work, Angie is more like a woman who has to accept her fate because she didn't marry love. She enjoys the rich material conditions brought to her by Jiang Defu, and also enjoys the spiritual enjoyment of "official wife". She disliked, suffered, wronged and struggled, and also gave birth to many children in this kind of dislike, pain, wronged and struggle, and finally became the kind of person she once hated and despised the most.

In the end, you will feel that you have completely become an angel of rural women, saturated with a kind of sadness.

The sadness that a woman is old, resigned, and degenerates when she is not really happy in the whole marriage process.

But in fact, she is lucky. ?