If you had a strong mother-in-law, what would you do?

In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is definitely related to her son. If the son is strong, then the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be polite and more likely to unite; If the son is weak, the mother will be eager to protect him. At this time, the daughter-in-law will be wronged, and then complain to her husband that her husband is unable to solve it, which will only make her headache worse. When a mother sees her son depressed, she will hate her daughter-in-law even more, which becomes an endless cycle.

When Tong Tong and her husband were still in love, her mother-in-law disliked her because of her height. My husband broke up with her once for this reason. Later, my husband felt that the two still had feelings and asked for a reunion. On the wedding day, two families, relatives and friends get together to bless. At that time, Tong Tong had been pregnant for two months.

Under the arrangement of the master of ceremonies, the wedding went on in an orderly way. Later, there was a photo session. As a result, the mother-in-law pushed the young couple off the stage and took one side for herself. She kept fiddling with the styling and asked for more photos. After all, getting married is a happy event, and her husband didn't say anything, and Tong Tong didn't say anything, so she entertained the guests with her husband. And my mother-in-law has been taking pictures on the stage.

. After the noise, the Tong Tong family had a delicious meal and were ready to go back. After a group of them confessed something about Tong Tong, they came to say goodbye to her mother-in-law. I don't know if her mother-in-law really didn't hear it or not. She not only ignored it, but also directed the photographer. The family didn't want to cause unhappiness on the big day. Although they were not satisfied with their mother-in-law's practice, they put up with it and left the hotel quietly. Mother-in-law didn't come out to see them off until they got on the bus.

When all the guests left, her mother-in-law delayed her dinner because of taking pictures. She blamed Tong Tong for not greeting her at dinner. Tong Tong looked at her husband silently at that time, but he chose to ignore and didn't speak. So the more her mother-in-law said, the more reasonable she became: "You just entered the door and didn't ask me to eat. After a long time, do you understand? " Will I have food when I am old? "

Tong Tong was angered by her mother-in-law's sophistry: "You wanted to take pictures yourself. How can you blame me?" Besides, I am the protagonist today. This is the most important day of my life. I haven't said anything about not taking pictures to commemorate it. "When her mother-in-law saw Tong Tong's retort, she pointed the finger at her son:" Look, you can't control her now, so how can you live in the future? At this moment, the husband said, "Tong Tong, after all, my mother is an elder, so please let her go." . "

Tong Tong is very wronged: "I can't pass her, or she can't pass me?" ? In addition, she is also the host today. Shouldn't she be entertaining guests? Why do you want me to entertain her? "My mother-in-law refused to admit defeat, and also mentioned something that had been wrong before. After a while, Tong Tong fainted and was taken to the hospital on the wedding day. Fortunately, the child is fine. However, this incident has become the gossip of neighbors after dinner. Slowly, Tong Tong had a little prenatal depression, and she didn't know how to live in the future.

As a middleman and mediator in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sons should have an absolute position. When there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the son can't protect his daughter-in-law too much, because the more the relationship is like this, the more rigid it will be, but he can't indulge his mother-in-law without principle and think that she is the eldest daughter-in-law and must accept it all. Personally, I think that when dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we must hold a big stick in one hand and lubricate it in the other: we can neither indulge our daughter-in-law nor spoil our mother. Then, Bian Xiao would like to ask everyone, what would you do if you had a strong mother-in-law? What does your husband do when you and your mother-in-law are unhappy?