Photo taken by the seaside in the early morning.

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A few days ago, at 2 o'clock in the morning, my girlfriend Qin Xiao sent such a circle of friends: "Fate is deliberately entangled. Accompany you, give you warmth, give you forever, all yours; Not yours. I will say goodbye to you. Say good night to the whole world except me. "

The picture is of her standing on the beach with her back to the camera in a red skirt. The location is Bali.

A week ago, she and her boyfriend just embarked on a warm and romantic pre-marriage trip. Seeing this circle of friends, I secretly sweated for their feelings.

Sure enough, as soon as she came back, she told me that she had completely broken up with her boyfriend who had been in love for three years. It was on the night that she sent that circle of friends that she made this decision.

She said that she stayed up all night that night, and it took a long time to find a truth: to see three views on a trip. A selfish, irresponsible man who only thinks about himself during the journey is not worth entrusting for life.

Because this is a long-awaited trip, Qin Xiao wanted to take more photos of different styles, so she brought several sets of clothes, cosmetics, SLR and favorite snacks.

When cleaning up, my boyfriend said, "The luggage is basically yours. You are responsible for taking it, and I don't care." Qin Xiao thought it was a joke, but she didn't take it seriously.

But when she went out, her boyfriend went out with a small bag on his back, so she had to drag a heavy suitcase around alone.

On the second day after arriving in Bali, Qin Xiao suddenly had a terrible stomachache. Instead of taking care of her, her boyfriend complained that she had too many things to do. It was really disappointing to go out with her. Then she left Qin Xiao, who was lying in the hotel, and went out to play alone.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu once said in Fortress Besieged: "The way to know someone is to travel with him." Travel is the most direct way to get to know a person. See people's hearts for a long time, and see people's character in deeds.

The travel photo of your circle of friends is a magnifying glass, which also hides the truest look inside you.

Your circle of friends knows whether he loves you or not.

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College classmate komori likes traveling very much. No matter how busy he is, he takes special travel time every year to free himself from the bondage of nine to five and concentrate on experiencing a quiet and slow time.

Komori also likes photography. Every time he travels, he will record the scenery along the way and the mood of watching the scenery in his circle of friends. Classmates joked in his circle of friends that they had traveled more than half of China.

A few days ago, the monitor suddenly said in the class, "Komori is in love." And with a "witty" expression.

But as far as I know, Komori has been single for many years, and even his signature has always been a "carefree teenager". I've never heard that he took off the bill!

The monitor said that the photo of Komori's circle of friends was exposed. He announced to the world in his own way: "I am in love"!

Looking through Komori's circle of friends, on the surface, he has recently sent a lot of travel scenery photos, but if you carefully observe the shooting angle and composition of these photos, you will find that there are subtle differences from before.

It turned out that Komori sent a group of photos of his trip in Xiamen: Xiamen University, Nanputuo Temple, beaches, the sea and Gulangyu's specialty shops. Nine pictures are arranged in a neat nine-square grid, but the middle one is not a landscape photo, but two cups of Zhang Sanfeng milk tea placed side by side.

Not only that, but the text he matched for this group of travel photos was: "Fortunately, I know Peach Blossom Face, and it has been warmer since then."

Sure enough, on the last day of the trip, Komori's circle of friends appeared a graceful figure walking on the beach in a long white dress. Her face tilted slightly to the camera, as if looking for someone to take a picture.

A writer once said that when you really like someone, you will want to share all the beautiful scenery in the world with him, leave your mark in every romantic place, and you can't help telling the world.

Whether you love Ta or not, your circle of friends knows it.

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Last night, my cousin suddenly called and asked me if I knew a lawyer. She's getting a divorce.

I was startled. In my impression, my cousin is a gentle and family-oriented good man. They have been married for 5 years and have a daughter like a jade carving, which is a "model couple" in the eyes of relatives and friends.

In fact, cousins have very different hobbies.

Cousin is lively and active, likes fitness, dancing and traveling, and also likes to try all kinds of new things; Cousin is very homesick, and prefers to hide at home and play chicken eating games on weekends and holidays. After having a daughter, my cousin also criticized her for "running around the world like crazy and not being a mother."

Every time my cousin goes out to travel, she has to find her husband to accompany her, which is very troublesome. Even at the destination, most of the time her husband is hiding in the hotel to play games. Later, my cousin was no longer reluctant to travel alone. However, every time she excitedly sent the beautiful scenery taken all over the country to her circle of friends, her cousin would leave a message and be cynical.

Two days ago, during the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday, my cousin took her daughter to Fant Happy World alone. The 5-year-old daughter suddenly asked her, "Mom, why are all the other children playing with their parents, and I am the only one who is with my mother?" Dad obviously has a holiday, too "

Cousin said that at that moment, her heart suddenly hurt and tears almost flowed down. Facing her daughter's innocence, she didn't know how to answer.

I felt very sad when my cousin told me this on the phone. Although she has been a wife and mother, she still has the same dream as a little girl-to travel with her beloved.

Among her friends, even the most beautiful scenery can only be accompanied by lonely selfies and slightly sad words. Perhaps, she also hopes that she is the kind of man and woman who travel hand in hand in pairs.

Whether you like traveling or not is just a hobby on the surface, but in fact it embodies completely different values:

People who like to travel are often curious, brave in exploration and like challenges; Such people are always full of positive energy.

People who don't like to travel tend to be conservative, like to enjoy a sense of order and stability, and immerse themselves in their own world. They are very satisfied and don't want to find the meaning of life elsewhere.

There is no difference between these two values, but if you want to live together, you will inevitably experience a painful and long run-in.

When a person's enthusiasm for traveling is blocked by the closest person, it shows that your outlook on life is not understood and recognized; Your hobbies and interests have not received enough tolerance and respect. What is precious in your eyes is contempt in his eyes.

Of course, a person's journey is beautiful, but who doesn't want the most beautiful scenery to be experienced with the person he loves most?

Those who are absent from the travel photos of your circle of friends must also be absent from your spiritual home. If Ta is absent for too long, and your whole heart is cold, there is no need to appear again.

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There is such a Weibo with a forwarding volume of millions:

"When you write PPT, Alaska cod is jumping out of the water. When reading the report, the golden monkey in Meili Snow Mountain had just climbed to the top of the tree. When you squeeze into the subway, Shan Ying in Tibet has been hovering in the clouds. When you quarreled in the meeting, Nepalese backpackers picked up their glasses together and sat by the fire.

There are some roads you can't walk in high heels, some air you can't smell with perfume, and some people you will never meet in an office building. "

How can I devote all my time to the work for the rest of my life?

If you haven't even seen the world, where will you go?

The surprise in life comes from your unswerving love for it and your understanding of it after you integrate it. Real travel is never punching in the tourist attractions of online celebrities, but a time to see the world, all beings and their own practice.

Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting companions are one in a million.

All the good women and men in the world have to go through the fatigue of traveling by boat, the crowded sea of people, the difficult situation of acclimatization and all kinds of trivial things in the journey, and come back dusty. Both sides didn't see through each other and didn't like each other. They were willing to hold each other's hands all the time. This kind of love will never break up.

The sureness and peace of mind of two people traveling together, I think, couples who have traveled together will understand.

People who love each other will definitely travel together.