When taking wedding photos, the man thought the woman was embarrassed because of her second marriage, and was in disgrace throughout the whole process. What happened to the woman next?

In fact, women have many opportunities to regret it before getting married.

I once interviewed a photographer who took wedding photos. He said that when taking wedding photos, if you look at how two people get along, you can think about whether they will be happy after getting married.

He told me that people who are truly in love cannot hold back their smiles when taking wedding photos. They have their own sense of happiness. The two people are considerate of each other, and even in the end, the man will come up with many good ideas, hoping that the camera will capture their most loving scene.

But sometimes, when you take wedding photos, you feel embarrassed. Because you really want to take a better picture of them, but unfortunately the other party doesn't cooperate at all. Some people even kept their faces dark throughout.

He said that at this time, the most unlucky people were those taking pictures. Because the other party doesn't cooperate, let it go. In the end, they may even quarrel, which is a waste of time. The angry person sometimes even scolds the person taking the photo.

He wondered why the person taking the photo was so busy, so he could just take a few photos.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu said in "The Besieged City" that men and women must travel once before getting married. When you come back from the trip and you still feel like you want to live together, then get married.

In fact, it doesn’t have to be so troublesome to travel once. Sometimes, just take a wedding photo and you’ll know.

The photographer I interviewed told me about the most embarrassing experience he had in his career. That morning, they took three couples to shoot the location. The first two couples were very normal, talking and laughing along the way. There was only one couple, the man was sleeping the whole way, and the woman was looking at her phone the whole way.

After getting off the bus, have 30 minutes of free time. The other two couples went to eat and buy water, but this pair went to two different stores one after the other. After the meal, the woman bought the man a bottle of water. She handed it to the man, who pretended not to see it and hid.

The woman was a little embarrassed and didn’t say anything. The first two pairs were very active in taking pictures, and they were finished in a short time. This pair was taken last. The makeup artist put makeup on the man, but the man was not willing to do it. When he was asked to change his clothes, he did it with a dark face.

When the photo was taken, the man couldn't smile. No matter what the photographer asked and how many nice things he said, the man just didn't want to lift the corners of his mouth. The photographer asked him to do a pose, but he was unwilling to do it. He wanted to be as perfunctory as possible. Not to mention that woman, she already wanted to cry. Even the people who followed felt that the man was a bit too much.

I couldn’t take pictures halfway through. The photographer said to the man: "Smile, it's such a good thing. Look how cooperative the bride is. You should be happy to get married."

As a result, the man also completely exploded: "I am the first to get married. , Marrying her for the second time, you still make me laugh, but I can’t laugh. If you can take a picture, then give me a refund.”

The photographer said that he didn’t say that. If so, no one would know that a woman is getting married for the second time. When he said such words, everyone looked at the woman and pointed. The man still felt that his grievances had finally been expressed: "She is not getting married for the first time, and she also wants to take wedding photos. Does she like to take wedding photos with different men so much? The more worthless a woman is, the more pretentious she is. I don't think so. I don’t know who I showed this to, but I couldn’t handle it.”

That woman must have suffered a lot before. She also felt that it was embarrassing for her to be married for the second time. The man had already talked to this point, but she just cried and did not quarrel with the man.

The woman cried for a while, stood up and said to the photographer very calmly: "I'm sorry, we won't take the photo."

She turned around and said to the man again : "If you don't want to marry me, forget it."

That day, the woman just left by herself. The man didn’t chase her, but just urged the photographer to return the money.

The photographer took this group of people on their way back.

The woman left by herself and did not take the car back. The man felt that he had paid the fare and still followed the car back. He was saying two things along the way. The first thing is, I didn’t take a few pictures, so I have to give him a refund. The second thing is that it would be a great disgrace to marry a woman like this for a second marriage.

At first he kept talking alone and no one spoke to him. At the end, a girl taking wedding photos suddenly said: "I don't like it, don't marry me, no one is forcing you."

The man suddenly exploded: "It's not you now. When a woman gets married, she wants a house, a car, and a bride price. If you hadn’t been so demanding, how could I have married a second-married woman?”

At this time, there was no one in the car. Don't talk to him again.

After the man got out of the car, the people in the car started talking. No one blamed the woman, everyone blamed the man. A woman said: "This man is really interesting. He doesn't blame himself for not having the ability, but blames women for asking for too much. If you don't think of anything when you get married, why should someone marry you? This kind of man will probably marry even a second-married woman in the future." No. That girl has such a good temper. If it were me, I would have started a fight with him.”

A man said: “If you want to marry, just treat her well.” It's this kind of thing. If he can't marry someone better, he won't be willing to marry him for the second time. It's a good thing that the woman doesn't marry him. How will he live this life if he really gets married.

It can be done like this when taking wedding photos. ”

The more a woman gets married for the second time, the more she should look at the man’s intentions. Those who dislike your second marriage would rather stay single for the rest of their lives than get married.

I heard this photographer say this After the incident, I always felt that this woman was too humble.

What happened to the second marriage?

The more a woman is married, the more she should look at the man’s material concerns. A little inferior, but his desire to marry you must be sincere.

Just like the man in the car said, if you wrong yourself and marry such a man, this kind of grievance is just. From the beginning, there will be more grievances in the future. Because this man looks down on you in his heart.

Women must learn to noble themselves. If you look down on me, there is no need for me to ask for marriage. No one is forced to do this, and no one has to suffer.

You can predict whether he loves you or not before getting married. I know. What you are most afraid of is that you would rather lie to yourself.

One of my former roommates married a man who didn’t love me. I asked her why she married her when she knew he didn’t love her. Give it to him.

She said, maybe he will love me after I get married.

Women really shouldn’t make fun of a man who doesn’t love you before marriage. Does he love you very much?

You are not filming a TV series, this is reality.

Before you got married, he didn’t love you when you were still in love. Do you expect that after you get married and have children, he will love you because of all the trivial things in life?

Really, don’t lie to yourself

In marriage. Those difficulties really require a lot of love to support you. A lot of love may not be able to withstand too many storms. What's more, if his love for you is so weak, how can it withstand the test?

If you know before you get married that he doesn’t love you enough, then don’t foolishly fly into the flame.

Flying into the flame is never suitable for marriage.