What procedures are needed to get married?

Marriage is the highlight of life, but it is rarely rehearsed. Many people often find out that getting married is not an "easy" thing only after they decide to get married. From deciding on the wedding day and banquet day to what ceremony to use to get married? Where can I have a wedding banquet? The mere act of inviting a guest list is enough to turn in-laws into enemies.

There are other complicated issues such as printing wedding invitations, ordering wedding cakes and wedding cakes, selecting wedding rings and wedding photography dress companies, honeymoon itinerary arrangements, and settling in new homes, which are enough to make some people afraid. The trouble is so great that men and women just run away.

Is that why you don’t get married? ——Of course not. Although "marriage is a sweet disaster", as long as you are prepared, getting married will be the perfect first time.

Marriage is one of the major events in life, and it is inevitable to be trivial and complicated. But no matter what, in order to move towards a happy life, you still have to take the steps of getting married step by step, and let perfection quietly come to you and him ( her) heart.

The first step: registration

Although there are more and more young people trying to get married and living together without being married, if you want to obtain stable and protected happiness, marriage registration is a must Less.

Marriage registration procedures

Marriage registration place: the marriage registration authority where one of the men and women has their household registration. (See the list of marriage registration offices for details) Proof of carrying:

1. Resident ID card.

2. Household registration book (or collective household registration certificate).

3. Marital status certificate

① For permanent workers and retired employees, it shall be issued by the unit where they work ② For unemployed and self-employed persons, it shall be issued by the neighborhood (village) committee ③ For unemployed persons and self-employed persons, it shall be issued by the neighborhood (village) committee A labor manual (or license) should be provided.

4. 3 2-inch color photos. 3 recent 2-inch color photos of the person in front of you without a hat. The photos of both parties are in the same color. The marriage registration office has a Polaroid snapshot service.

Pre-marital physical examination

1. With the above certificate, the district or county civil affairs bureau will issue a letter of introduction for the pre-marital physical examination.

2. Bring a letter of introduction to the maternal and child health hospital in your district or county for a physical examination.

3. Those who have passed the physical examination and are certified to meet the conditions shall return to the Civil Affairs Bureau for registration with the physical examination certificate. Others need to pay the marriage certificate production fee and service fee.

Receive a marriage certificate

After receiving the application, the marriage registration agency will review the parties in accordance with the provisions of the "Marriage Law". After being approved for registration, both men and women must be present at the same time. Then you can get a bright red marriage certificate.

Step 2: Prepare for the wedding

Is it okay to have a wedding without a wedding banquet? This is the most annoying problem for young people in cities when they get married. In fact, it is not impossible. It can be replaced by a travel marriage or a simple ceremony or other methods. But as more and more young people adopt the "simple" way of getting married, we are more concerned about those young people who cannot "avoid the vulgarity" but are troubled by it.

Wedding preparation plan

Eight to six months ago

Select the wedding date, decorate the new house, decide on the wedding format and budget, estimate the guest list and book banquets, Choose a photography dress company, order a dress, consult parents of both parties, actively participate in and understand the family life of both parties, and conduct a pre-marital health check-up.

Three months ago

Understand the etiquette and customs of marriage, find a ceremony venue, estimate the cost, purchase wedding rings and jewelry, carry out hairdressing, beauty, overall and body care and plan Future financial management and family planning, honeymoon travel arrangements.

Two months ago

Purchase new house furniture, take wedding photos, design hair and makeup, design wedding invitations, confirm the list of best man and bridesmaid, and apply for a passport (such as honeymoon trip abroad).

One and a half months ago, I purchased furniture and home appliances, invited the officiant and introducer, confirmed the honeymoon details, booked a limo, and applied for wedding leave from the company.

One month ago

Decided on the details of the wedding, decided on the photographers and videographers, purchased items for the honeymoon, printed wedding invitations, and decorated the new house.

A week ago

Send the wedding invitations, confirm the guests by phone, book the honeymoon itinerary and hotel, and finalize various matters with the hotel, including the dishes, number of tables, and banquet area decisions Wedding staff list, ordering bridal bouquets, bridesmaid bouquets, various corsages and car fireworks. Clean your new home.

Two days ago

Order the cigarettes, wine, soda, candies, and melon seeds needed for the day of the banquet. Deliver wedding items to the wedding venue, go to the beauty salon for various maintenance, deliver wedding invitations to designated guests, reconfirm details and time with the wedding staff, check the clothes you should bring for honeymoon travel, decorate and arrange the wedding venue, and communicate with the wedding staff again The wedding venue finalizes everything.

The day before

Full body skin care, finalize the beauty and hairdressing time for the next day with the beautician, provide the necessary gifts and red envelopes for the wedding day, and confirm the wedding dress and wedding banquet accessories. All jewelry, accessories, and shoes needed for the next day must be put away properly, and get enough sleep (don’t drink too much water before going to bed).

Time schedule for the wedding day

Have a hearty breakfast, ask one or two friends to help with the groceries, and help change the dress. The man prepares gifts and goes to the woman’s house to welcome the bride and entertain guests. , heading towards a happy and sweet newlywed life.

Step 3: Take wedding photos

Who doesn’t want to freeze the glorious moment once in a lifetime and make that happy moment permanent. Then, go to the photo studio to take wedding photos. Maybe this is your only choice.

Wedding Photo Studio Guide

Taking wedding photos has become an indispensable part of the wedding, and bridal shops large and small on the market have launched a wide range of wedding photography service packages, with prices ranging from The fees range from a few hundred yuan to several thousand yuan, depending on the quality of the service, the number of styles selected, the size of the photo, the material of the photo frame, the background of the photo, the number of times of makeup and hair styling, etc.

Modern people value value for money. For wedding photos, what determines the price? What services are there? What preferential policies can I enjoy? These are issues that consumers are concerned about.

Generally speaking, every photo studio will have a recommended main package. This is the most popular and average package of a photo studio. The services and value included in it are more popular among customers. accept.

Such a set that meets a certain standard generally includes: interior and exterior scenes during the shooting, more than two or three sets of clothing styles, a large photo album, and several large framed photos of various sizes. , Photography films and negatives are given, ceremonial services on the wedding day, and maybe gifts.

What are the differences in prices among the various packages?

Those with low prices, those below 800 yuan, generally only take wedding photos (some bridal shops do not provide outdoor shooting), and do not give away raw photos or negatives or give them away in small quantities, and there is no wedding service or only The most basic content, such as bridal makeup and dress rental, ranges from more than 900 yuan to 2,000 to 3,000 yuan, while those with 4,500 to 10,000 yuan include shooting environment, staff, number of photo albums, wedding services, and various gifts. More perfect. The main differences among various price ranges are the number of styles, the number of photos taken, the special production of photos, and the number of photo albums.

Include the number of photos in the album and the content of the wedding banquet service. The number of photos and styling sets in the shoot depends on the price. If the photo is taken in one roll, it can be taken in four or five rolls at most. The production of photos is classified according to each store's unique craftsmanship, modern fashion trends and prices. The number of photo albums and the number of photos included in the album are the lower the price, the less, and the higher the price, the more. Generally, there will be one large, one small or more photo albums for more than four or five thousand, and the size of the album and the degree of exquisite decoration , the amount of income photos changes with the price.

The higher the price of the pornographic photos, the more gifts will be given. In addition, related to this are the special production and number of large photos. The number of wedding services also fluctuates with the price. The most basic one is bridal makeup, and then the dress. The lower price only provides one set, and the higher price can provide more than two sets of wedding dress and evening dress. Then there’s the matching jewelry. Details such as bridal flowers, wedding invitations, and even bridesmaid makeup, dresses, wedding photography, and videography all depend on the price.

Details you should pay attention to before taking pictures

1. The day before taking pictures, relax and go to bed early. Drink less water before going to bed to avoid swollen eyes the next day. Get enough sleep before taking pictures. When the photos came, I felt more energetic and energetic.

2. The jewelry, stockings, and shoes needed for taking pictures must be prepared and put away. Do not wear too much jewelry when taking pictures.

3. The bride should wear clothes with an open front to avoid damaging the makeup and hairstyle on her face when she changes into a wedding dress.

4. The groom’s suit should fit well, so as not to make it inconvenient to move around.

5. It is best to complete the hair care, hair cutting and perming of the newlyweds one month before the photo is taken, and skin care should also be carried out one week before the photo is taken.

6. When wearing a wedding dress, wear strapless underwear. If you are wearing a Chinese evening dress, it is best to wear padded or wire underwear to beautify the chest line.

Tips for Preserving Wedding Dresses

When you buy a wedding dress and bring it home, after the wedding, you should carefully hide it at the bottom of the box and keep it for a lifetime. However, if you easily entrust it to a small laundry on the street, you may regret it for the rest of your life - because the maintenance of a wedding dress is very different from other valuable clothing.

But as long as you master a few tips, it is not difficult to clean and preserve your wedding dress yourself.

First of all, when purchasing, you can ask what the material of this wedding dress is and what the attached small beads and small glitters are. Under normal circumstances, the shop owner will tell you everything. When washing a wedding dress, wet cleaning is key, because small decorations on the wedding dress, such as beaded trim, cannot withstand the erosion of dry cleaning chemicals. The best way is to put the wedding dress in water mixed with a mild, neutral detergent. Soak for a while, which can clean away the stains left by red wine, meat oil, etc. on the banquet. Soak for a while, and even invisible stains such as sweat stains and white wine stains can be removed.

After the wedding dress is washed and dried, it can be stored in a cool and dry place, such as a closet or even under the bed. Remember, don't hang your wedding dress up, because over time, a wedding dress with a little weight will produce drooping force, stretching the skirt or even tearing it.

There are two small issues that cannot be ignored: First, you must wash your hands before collecting the wedding dress, and do not stick makeup on it, otherwise, over time, there will be small yellow spots on the wedding dress; The large skirt hoop inside can be twisted and stored, but when drying the clothes every year, the skirt hoop should be restored to its original shape to prevent it from losing its elasticity.

Step 4: The Eve of Passion

The wedding is about to be held, but everyone is scratching their heads. What should we do now? After all, this is not the specialty of young people, because this is something they have never experienced. Read the article below and you will suddenly understand.

Choose a date to get married

Choose a date to get married is something that a newlywed couple and their parents attach great importance to. In today's society, it is popular to choose even-numbered days as auspicious days, such as February 2, August 8, etc. It is believed that they have the meaning of pairing, which indicates that the couple will love each other and grow old together after marriage, and the homonym of "eight" is "fa". ” is also an expectation for future life. When choosing an "auspicious day", the opinions of both parents should be sought, and arrangements should be made from a scientific perspective. There are two points to note:

First, the wedding date should avoid the woman’s menstrual period, and the woman should not be shy about speaking out. When choosing an "auspicious day", the man should pay special attention to listen to the woman's opinions.

2. Consider the arrangements of all parties. It may be a wise move if the wedding date coincides with a holiday. The advantages of this are: it is commemorative; the newlyweds are dressed in festive attire, adding interest; relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, the atmosphere is warm, and the family and friends can be entertained and celebrated as one at home, which is both economical and festive.

Choose where to hold your wedding

How to choose a suitable banquet venue among these many places? In addition to considering the location and price, the quality of food and services provided by the venue, as well as the environment and spacing of the venue are all factors that newcomers consider.

Region selection. Newlyweds can consider whether the location they choose is close to their new home, the groom's family, the bride's family, and the residences of relatives and friends. At the same time, you need to pay attention to whether the location has convenient transportation, such as being close to a subway station, a bus stop, and whether there is parking nearby.

The reservation details should be clear. The amount involved in entertaining guests at a large banquet can reach more than 10,000 yuan, so do not take it lightly when booking a banquet. In particular, all charges and service scope should be clearly stated in black and white, and no verbal promises should be made. The following are things you should pay attention to when booking a banquet and writing a menu:

The dishes on the menu should be listed in detail, and do not accept some ambiguous words, such as "steamed sea food" or "dragon and phoenix spreading wings" etc. Wait, the content must be specified. Whether sea cucumbers, shark fins, or suckling pigs are whole bodies or parts must be listed one by one.

When booking a place, you must list the name of the room where the wine is served on the order, so as to avoid being unable to complain if the place is too crowded or the seats are scattered in the future.

When booking a table, you should reserve a rest room for the newlyweds, and ensure that the bride's room is not too far away, too narrow, and difficult to be peeped by. Because the newlyweds need to change their clothes and touch up their makeup, it would be a bad idea to have a happy couple. Clearly list each charge, such as tea, corkage, beer, soda, pre-dinner snacks and service charges.

Before paying the deposit, you should ask how the deposit will be handled if the wedding banquet is canceled due to bad weather or unexpected events, and whether you need to compensate for the loss. Of course, don't forget to ask for the deposit receipt. Be clear about the amount by which the number of seats can be increased or decreased and how the remaining banquets will be handled. The number of budgeted tables should take into account the guest attendance to avoid embarrassing situations due to insufficient or excessive guests.

When making a reservation for a banquet, there must be certain arrangements for the host's seat. There are usually no special restrictions for other guests. Most are on a first-come, first-served basis. If you choose to get married during a busy wedding period, you must make a reservation in advance, especially in some popular places. Nowadays, many wedding hosts will arrange seats for guests in advance to avoid offending relatives and friends due to the rush. Therefore, a more systematic approach is to pre-arrange seats and assign table numbers so that guests can take their seats and everyone is happy.

Wedding Eve

1. Lock the target. I am married. For the sake of my sisters, I will choose the best sister and take aim when I throw the bouquet tomorrow

2. Smooth and flawless. Check the latest status of hair growth on all parts of your body, and pay attention to the fine hairs on your lips too!

3. Check the records. It refers to the time and place of every detail such as acquaintance, electric shock, engagement, first kiss, proposal, etc. with your husband, and you can cope with being played with or played with tomorrow.

4. Practice your oath. "I ××× is willing to marry" to avoid being so nervous and speechless when reading the oath tomorrow, practice more!

5. Lubricate the ring finger. To avoid physical and mental stress tomorrow, fingers tightening and swelling, and the wedding ring being unable to fit on, please apply more hand cream.

6. Ice tea bag. I'm so tired from getting ready to get married that I have dark circles under my eyes. Isn't it because I accidentally suffered from insomnia tonight that only added fuel to the fire? Find a yellow chrysanthemum tea bag (it doesn’t hurt to have a few more) and put it in the refrigerator, and use it to apply ice to remove eye swelling tomorrow! Remember to take a short rest after applying it, or you can just close your eyes and rest for a while.

7. Find the right angle. Look in the mirror and see which angle looks best? Three-seven side or front side? Don’t forget, the flashlights will be pointed at you tomorrow!

8. Finally check whether the tights and sexy underwear are in good condition?

9. Relax, don’t be nervous, take it easy, play some soft music, take an aromatherapy bubble bath, and prepare for a great day tomorrow!

Step 5: Wedding

Although it is the first time to get married, and it is also the first time to play the leading role in a wedding, after all, I have attended many weddings, and young people all know the general outline of the wedding. situation, here are just some tips to help the newlyweds who play the leading role feel more comfortable "participating" in their own wedding.

Social skills of the hero and heroine

Wedding banquets are usually held after the wedding. Modern banquets are gradually held in the evening and the location is gradually changed to restaurants.

Most wedding banquets have certain procedures. The bride usually has to change into 3-5 different evening dresses. She can perform the costumes as much as she likes and is the only heroine. In addition to toasting, thanking guests, and seeing off guests, Most of the newlyweds don't leave their seats; however, they have to pay attention to their formal attire and the people coming and going, so most of them won't get anything to eat.

So, it is important to eat more before the wedding banquet. Also know the background of your guests beforehand.

It is very important to have a general understanding of the guests before the wedding banquet, because there are both friends of the man and the woman, and some of them may have never been in contact with the other party before, so it is important to know beforehand Getting to know each other over the invitation list and photo album can go a long way in avoiding awkward situations at the wedding reception.

Coping with drinking parties

In the wedding banquet, the bride and groom will inevitably be toasted by relatives and friends, but they must give it half a try. At the beginning, they must not show the generosity of drinking every cup, otherwise Whether you are an old friend or a new acquaintance, they will have a toast with you. Getting drunk will not only affect the entire wedding banquet, but also ruin the "good things" in the bridal chamber! Therefore, you must be prepared before the wedding banquet and choose two groomsmen and bridesmaids who can drink and speak well as shields. This is a must!

Coping with entertainment programs

At the end of the wedding banquet, there must be some mini-games as an interlude to tease the newlyweds. This is the most difficult period to cope with. At this time, the newlyweds should try their best to be open and aboveboard and try their best to cater (even if there are some more open programs, such as kissing in public, feeding grapes orally, etc.), otherwise the more coquettish you are, the more people will make noises, and you will completely fall into the trap you have set. . During this period, one program after another should be completed as quickly as possible. As long as the couple works together and overcomes the first "difficulty" in life, the historical mission of the wedding banquet will be completed.

How to add to the atmosphere of a wedding

It is not easy for guests to remember you at a wedding banquet. Here are some tips to make the wedding banquet impressive.

1 Put a message card inside the invitation and ask the guests to write down their wishes or feelings for the newlyweds on the card. Then put it into the collection box at the banquet, and the newlyweds will read out these blessings from relatives and friends at the wedding banquet. I believe the atmosphere will be very touching.

2. Place a disposable camera or the popular Polaroid on each table so that guests can take photos of themselves to increase the atmosphere of the scene. You can even ask guests to take a Polaroid selfie and write a thank you message on the photo for attending.

3. Ask the photographer to ask the guests to say a few words of blessing to the camera. You can ask your photographer to edit these valuable moments into your wedding video after the wedding.

4. Use a small photo frame as a placecard and souvenir. I once attended a wedding banquet and saw my name placed in a beautiful silver photo frame. And I can keep this photo frame as my own. That feeling of excitement is definitely what guests want.

5. Place a bottle of liquid soap on each table so guests can blow bubbles to bless you. You can even write your and his name on the bubble liquid bottle to make this gadget even more interesting.

Step Six: Bridal Night

One of the four great joyous events in life, it’s up to you to do whatever you want, but remember, this is just the completion of your wedding march.

How to make the march of pots and pans play so perfectly, it must be maintained by sincerity, true feelings, sincerity, and true love!