Why parents are mediocre, but they want their children to become talents and give them all the pressure?

In modern society, parents have higher and higher expectations for their children. Many parents pin their unfulfilled dreams and expectations on their children, which puts great pressure on them. There are many reasons behind this phenomenon.

First of all, parents have their own life pressures. With the accelerated pace of life in modern society, parents are faced with multiple pressures such as work, family and social interaction. In this case, they hope that their children can succeed and become a continuation of their unfulfilled dreams and hopes. So they will put a lot of pressure on their children and hope that they can become what they expect.

Secondly, educational resources are unequal. In modern society, the distribution of educational resources is unequal, and high-quality educational resources are monopolized by a few people, while most people can only get better educational opportunities through high tuition fees or other channels. Therefore, many parents hope that by putting pressure on their children, they can make use of limited educational opportunities and get better opportunities for growth and development.

Finally, social competition is becoming increasingly fierce. In modern society, the competition is more and more fierce, and all walks of life need high-quality talents. Therefore, many parents believe that only by putting pressure on their children to become talents can they be invincible in the fierce social competition.

In short, in modern society, parents want their children to succeed and become what they expect. However, while putting pressure on children, parents also need to clarify their responsibilities and roles. Instead of giving all expectations and pressures to children, we should pay attention to their physical and mental health and provide them with a good growth environment and conditions.