In Family with Children, is Xiaoxue's rebellion after failing the college entrance examination common in real life?

As for Xiaoxue's character, let's take a look at her past performance first. There was no change of actors at that time, but Andy played Xiaoxue.

One day, Xiaoxue said that I would go on a hunger strike for three days, which was a punishment for winning the first prize because of my carelessness. Liu Xing said that in that case, I won't have to eat for the rest of my life.

Xiaoxue was too confident when she entered the college entrance examination of "Family with Children", so Xiaoxue only filled in Tsinghua when she volunteered. Xiaoxue overturned this time, and it was completely overturned. Originally, she was confident that she could be admitted to Tsinghua, so she didn't give herself a backward way.

People who often do this will turn themselves into an extreme. Take the exam as an example, the full score is 100. Set yourself a goal of 80 points, and you will be happy to get 90 points.

Knowing that you got almost 90 points in the exam, and then setting your goal at 90 or even 95 points, you will not be happy if you get 89 points.

Of course, people need to strive to surpass themselves again and again, but you can't surpass yourself every time, and you can't reach your goals every time.

A person who makes himself particularly nervous every day, like winding a spring, is easily in a state of mental tension. Once broken, he will become the opposite of himself in the past. Just like Xiaoxue after failing the college entrance examination.

In reality, after the failure of the college entrance examination, is every child in such a rebellion? Not necessarily, but most will.

In real life, these people are so strict with themselves because the surrounding environment makes them particularly strict with themselves.

Our society requires all children, including adults, to succeed, not fail. People often can't accept failure, but can only accept success. Such people's psychological endurance to setbacks is very fragile. No wonder many people have high academic qualifications but low psychological quality.

I once saw a speech by a very famous person. He said that people can relax, but they must never give up. Like Xiaoxue, although she failed in the college entrance examination, she can adjust her state at a certain time or even a certain year, but she must never give up and be opposed to her past.

Learn to accept your imperfect self, because no one is perfect.