What should we pay attention to and avoid in wedding planning?

Just relax。 For us newlyweds, before the wedding, it is the most tense moment. The long-awaited wedding is about to begin, and at this moment, it seems that everything in my heart is blank. Some people are running around anxiously, sweating like rain without preparation. Some people walk around empty-handed and don't know what to do. Have a plenty of hard pumping, don't say a word. Some will say loudly, I don't remember anything now, anyway, I went in as soon as I closed my eyes. What's more, I'm too nervous for Lian Xiao to take a photo with the guests. When the couple laugh, the muscles on their faces are shaking ... relax: in a word, when the wedding begins, forget everything and go to the wedding hall. Be polite to the guests. Newcomers should pay attention to their appearance from the moment they appear in front of guests. The groom should smile, stride forward, and show handsome and generous demeanor. Especially when coming out of the float, he must pay attention to look around the guests, wave or greet them with his fist, and then walk to the bride. This is very important, it can improve the groom's spirit, and it is also beneficial for friends to shoot. When the bride appears in front of the guests, she should appear as a gentle and reserved person. Keeping quiet is the most important feature of the bride. The bride's exaggeration and publicity should be carried out through makeup and groom. The bride's eyes can't be as left and right as the groom's eyes, so it doesn't look like a "good family." The bride's smile, serenity, gentleness and modesty should be the theme of this day. The cooperation of three couples is very important. The wedding is a matter for two people. At the wedding, the couple will communicate with each other, say something and do some actions under the prompt of the host. These actions should not only consider yourself, but also consider how the other party will reply to these words and how to cooperate with these actions. 1 The coordination of postures on the stage has not been noticed by many newcomers. Their hands are hanging on the stage, and they stand in different places. They pulled away and looked at the people in the audience, as if listening to someone else's meeting. Of course, some newcomers are embarrassed to get too close, which is not the best posture. The best posture of newcomers on the stage can be divided into the following categories: standing hand in hand; Stand with the groom's hand on the bride's waist; Two people stand very close. It can be seen from the above standing posture that the couple are very close, integrated with the background of the wedding, and natural and generous. Another practical advantage of the couple standing close to each other is that they can make use of the gap in the wedding process to have a short and quiet communication. (Must not be too much) 2 Bow and cooperate with the newcomers to stand on the stage. In order to thank the guests for coming, it is inevitable to bow to them. The most taboo of bowing is the wavy bow. Specifically, one person's waist has bent down, another person has just started, one person has stood up, one person's waist is still bent, and several bows are at this frequency, forming a pattern of breaking waves. In order to avoid bowing like waves, the best way is for the couple to preset a signal before bowing, such as shaking hands or shouting one, two, three by themselves. One person signals, and then two people bow together. With the contact signal, the actions can be consistent. No matter what the contact signal is, as long as two people stand close, it is easy to act in unison. Talk as little as possible between lovers. Many couples are completely unaware of the importance of their performance on the stage. Some couples kept whispering on the stage, some couples kept waving to the guests under the stage, some couples kept cooperating with their friends who took pictures on the stage, posing alone and throwing each other aside, and some couples kept flirting on the stage and even answered the phone. Once, while the wedding was in progress, the groom on the stage suddenly rushed over. The host pays attention to the stage etiquette, and the newcomer should pay more attention to his own stage etiquette, because this is the most important moment in his life after all. The groom should help the bride lift the wedding dress and walk. In order to highlight the most beautiful moment in her life, the bride usually chooses a slender wedding dress as her wedding dress. Nowadays, more and more brides choose to mop their wedding dresses. Because the bride has never walked in a wedding dress, she often steps on the wedding dress when walking. I have seen many brides enter the venue with flowers in one hand and the wedding dress in front of them in the other. It looks funny. How to solve this problem? The best solution is this. Ask your groom for help. Ask the bride to help the groom's arm when the couple comes in and out. The groom's arm hung down. Bend down slightly and grab the bride's skirt and wedding dress with your hands. The groom stands up straight, raises the wedding dress 10 cm, and the bride can spread her legs. The groom's posture is so hidden that most people won't notice it. When the bride's legs take a step, the newcomers will go in and out smoothly. Fourth, move slowly and have a sense of lens. In a general wedding, the couple's movements are done according to the usual frequency. As everyone knows, the frequency of such actions is too fast. Because at the wedding, there will be photographers and cameramen waiting to shoot wonderful scenes. If the couple's action frequency is fast, the photographer and cameraman may not have time to reflect. When wonderful pictures pass by, there is no chance to repeat them. Without this wonderful picture, photography and the meaning of photography will be lost. So once again remind the new people that if they want to take wonderful photos in this link, they must think about the camera shooting and taking pictures when doing actions at the wedding, and they must keep their posture and slow down the frequency of actions, so as to record the most beautiful moments in life. Couples with a lot of feelings, especially brides, are afraid that crying at the wedding will affect the effect of makeup. This is just a symptom of the problem. The deeper problem is that marriage means a kind of responsibility. Marriage means that the new couple leave their parents and start their own family. Parents raised us and paid countless hardships and tiredness, from small to large for decades! What would they think if we just left and didn't see them every day? Have we thought about these feelings of our parents? In this sense, crying is necessary, desirable and inevitable. It is not normal not to cry. But there is a limit to crying. Try not to cry. When expressing and venting their feelings, the couple can feel their responsibilities and the hardships of their parents from crying, which is just right. In the execution of the wedding, according to the specific situation of the couple, we should also prepare for the couple who love to cry. For example, we can prepare facial tissues in advance, or arrange the crying process at the back of the whole ceremony. Even after the couple cried, the wedding will be over soon, and the bride's makeup will not be greatly affected.