Photographer Tang Lei

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When the north wind blows,

After watching TV, Lao Wang didn't sleep well all night I called Wuhan in a hurry when I went to work the next day. It was not until 9 o'clock that my son's voice sounded: "Dad, what's the matter?" He quickly asked, "Did you watch the weather forecast last night? The cold current is coming to Wuhan. Are the thick clothes ready? Otherwise, let your mother send it to you ... "

The son just casually said, "It doesn't matter, it's still warm. Wait until it's really cold. " He kept talking, and his son was impatient: "I know, I know." Put the phone down.

He was about to dial again when the bell rang. That's his old mother who lives in Harbin, and her voice is trembling: "The weather forecast says that the weather in Beijing will change today. Have you added clothes? " A gust of wind blew through the window he forgot to close, and he sneezed before he answered.

The old mother was anxious: "Did you catch a cold? Why are you so disobedient? I didn't like adding clothes since I was a child ... "Speaking of his" bad behavior "when he was 7 years old, he quickly stopped:" Mom, what's the weather like there? " The old man replied, "The snow is still falling."

He froze involuntarily.

In the early morning when the cold wave began, he was deeply concerned about Wuhan, where the north wind had not yet arrived, but forgot his hometown where the north wind began and his mother who was over 70 years old.

The warmest affection in the world, why is the competition like this? Lao Wang himself was a little dumbfounded.

Excerpted from Ye Qingcheng of China Youth Daily.

Cui qi's tears

At the third anniversary party of Phoenix Satellite TV, the host Yang Lan told a touching story for the audience, and there was a surprising ending in her interview career.

Last year, Yang Lan went to the United States to interview Cui Qi, an American Chinese who won the 1998 Nobel Prize in Chemistry. Cui Qi said that he was born in rural Henan, and his parents were illiterate, but his mother was far-sighted, gritting her teeth and saving money. When Cui Qi 12 years old, she sent him out of the village to study. This move led Cui Qi to say goodbye to his parents. Later, he went to Hong Kong and the United States and became a world celebrity.

Speaking of which, Yang Jian asked Cui Qi, "What will happen if you 12 years old don't go out to study?" Seeing this, I guess: Cui Qi will definitely answer like this: "I will never be famous, maybe I will still farm in rural Henan."

But wrong! Cui Qi's answer was greatly unexpected: "If I don't come out, my parents won't die during the three-year difficult period." Cui Qi cried regretfully.

Yang Lan also shed tears. At this time, she wished that the two American photographers hired at that time could launch a close-up and take a close-up. To Yang Lan's surprise, this special photo appeared at the time of film criticism. Yang Lan asked two photographers, "You don't know Chinese. How can you take this touching scene?" The photographer replied, "Aren't you talking about mom?" In this world, the word mother is related. "

On the one hand, it is a world celebrity, and on the other hand, it is love; On the one hand, it is the supreme honor, on the other hand, it is the deep affection between mother and son. Cui Qi chose the latter. This is the answer of the descendants of the dragon to hundreds of millions of viewers! My heart was shocked, this night. I can't sleep for a long time.

The ancients said, "Those who touch people's hearts should not be sentimental first." Kindness is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation, which is manifested incisively and vividly in Cui Qi.

Excerpt from "Deep Training Business Daily" Li Hong

There is no need to choose a day.

A woman began to be widowed at the age of 29 and lived with a son and a daughter, but she refused to remarry. Finally, one day, my son grew up, went to the Kanto and settled in another city. He always hoped that his situation would be better before taking his mother and sister with him. To this end, he prepared a brand-new suit and a pair of mother's favorite soft-soled shoes for his mother early, just waiting for a happy reunion moment, but missed the opportunity again and again for various reasons.

Suddenly one day, he received a telegram from his sister, and his mother died suddenly because of a cerebral hemorrhage. When he dressed his mother in clothes and shoes in a hurry, that regret stung him all over.

After my 67-year-old uncle told me this story on the phone, I took my sister and my mother to Shenzhen as quickly as possible from the far north. Although my present situation is far from what I want to give my mother, I deeply understand that some things are too late when you want to do or have the ability to complete them perfectly.

Be filial, today is a good day.

Respondent: Hao boo- Senior Manager Grade 7 2-26 13:23

An article dedicated to mother! ! !

I remember reading an article before. A mother and son were buried in the ruins by a sudden earthquake in their sleep. The mother groped for the child with her only movable hand in the dark, but she couldn't breast-feed him any more. In desperation, she bit her finger and put it in the child's mouth, and the child was saved. Motherly love can create miracles, which is proof.

Motherly love is like water, boundless, and voluminous words express praise for mother. Mother is not only the creator of life, but also the creator of life. When a child comes into this world, the first person he sees when he opens his eyes is his mother, and the one who has the most contact is his mother. Through his mother, he learned about the world. "The hand that drives the world is the hand that shakes the cradle. A good mother must be armed with the best culture in the world. Mother's job is to cultivate people, is the most creative and imaginative job, and is a noble job that other jobs can't match. " Mom is not only a role, but also a profession, which will never be out of date, always need to learn and update, and will never be eliminated by society.

Motherhood is the innate instinct of every woman, no matter how gentle and virtuous she is, how arrogant she is. Regardless of that book, I can't read it; Whether everyone is a good family or a small jasper; As long as you come into contact with the profession of mother, you will unconsciously adjust everything about yourself, change everything about yourself, learn everything that is beneficial to children, and discard all the harm that may be caused to children. No matter what kind of woman, as long as she is a mother, when facing her children, her heart will be filled with endless tenderness, gentle and sincere eyes, gentle and meticulous actions, quiet and peaceful language, just like a pure angel trying to give her children the best side.

Whenever I think of my mother, I think of my home. Every wanderer who left China in 2000 will come back to his home from all directions. Homesickness is actually thinking about mom. No matter where I think of my mother, I feel warm, wronged and lost. You can talk to your mother at any time. She will never be bored or laugh. Her gentle silence is the best medicine for healing.

For the sake of children's education, the mother tried her best and broke her heart. Meng Mu moved three times. In order to provide a good environment for the children to grow up, he did not hesitate to move his family, which was well-intentioned. Today's mothers are even worse at educating their children. Since kindergarten, they have taken their children to various interest classes, learning piano, calligraphy, nursery rhymes, Olympiad, English, swimming and painting ... No matter what they learn, they must be accompanied by adults, and their mothers are the main force of this accompanying reading group. At this time, both the senior intellectuals in the city and the peasant women facing the loess in the countryside showed considerable courage and perseverance, and some gave up their high salaries and became full-time mothers; Some live in rented houses near the school district; Some sell real estate just to make up tuition fees; Some teach themselves all kinds of parenting knowledge ... Mother's efforts continue to bear fruit. Young college students, young writers, champions of international Olympic mathematics, physics and chemistry competitions, challengers of young Guinness records ... more and more auras cover younger and younger children.

Compared with the mothers' painstaking efforts, it is the silence and resistance of children in the face of their mothers' higher and higher requirements. According to a survey, more than 60% children list the people they least like as their parents. When children have something to communicate, parents are only the fourth person to tell their partners. At a loss, the children chose many extreme ways to express their dissatisfaction: Wei Yongkang chose to run away from home, Ningbo chose to become a monk, some chose to commit suicide, and even raised a butcher's knife against their hard-working mother. ...

I believe that every mother loves her children, and every mother hopes that her children can grow up healthily and become useful talents for the country. No mother will train her children for the purpose of destroying them, and no mother will foresee that she will be killed by her children one day. A mother loves her children without hesitation. They scrimp and save, leave the best for their children, give him the best nutrition and give him the best education. They have tried their best to urge their children to study. Their children's success greatly satisfied their hearts, and they selflessly dedicated themselves to their children's growth. It is precisely because of this blind love that they ignore the normal physical and mental development of children and mistakenly believe that children can live up to their pains only if they are famous, successful and attractive, while their hobbies and interests are all killed on the grounds of unfavorable learning.

Loving children is a simple matter, but educating children cannot be treated simply. The earliest contact with children is the mother, whose quality determines the development direction of children. "A country with underdeveloped science, technology and culture must have problems with school education. The social atmosphere is not good, and there must be problems with their family education! " The subject of family education is the mother. A mother, while loving and educating her children, does not forget to respect their psychology, discover their specialties, teach them in accordance with their aptitude and guide them according to the situation. You can't force them to be what you need, but help them to be what they want to be. This is not only a conceptual problem, but also a social problem. Mother's education should be based on the actual situation of children, not what is popular in society. "People-oriented education" refers to a child whose personality, ability, quality, potential, physique and psychological state determine what kind of person he will become. If he pays attention to knowledge education blindly, as long as he studies well, everything else can make do, even if he doesn't even have the basic ability to take care of himself. Once he is out of his mother's protection, what should he do to adapt to this complex society?

Mother's company is temporary, and you can only take care of the baby all your life; Mother's education is lifelong, which determines the development of a child's life, affects his life's joys and sorrows, and also affects his own character. Every mother does not lack love for her children, but don't let maternal love become a heavy burden for her children's life. Motherly love should be a child's wings to fly, a harbor to rest, and a beacon to navigate the sea of desire ... Motherly love seems simple, but it is difficult to do well. The child is growing up day by day, but the mother is stagnant; The child's knowledge is constantly enriched, and the mother still holds the previous textbook; All the advantages and disadvantages of a mother are teaching materials for her children to learn, but she didn't realize her shortcomings and didn't correct them in time. In the face of children's constantly improving knowledge structure and self-awareness, mothers are increasingly left behind. To be a good mother, we must constantly learn and improve ourselves, not only knowledge, but also all aspects of life, because knowledge is only a small part of many human virtues. Mother's rigorous thinking, profound knowledge structure, elegant speech, kind attitude, humorous personality, psychological endurance in the face of emergencies, friendliness and wisdom in communicating with others, gratitude for life, love for nature ... Everything you do is an education for children, which is essentially an education for children to be human. The more successful and perfect a mother is, the more secure her education will be, and the smoother and more successful her children will grow up.

Mothers love their children, and at the same time, they should constantly educate themselves and improve themselves. "If there are levels of self-education, then the self-education for children is the highest level. At this time, children are not only educated, but also educators. In fact, we are facing our own conscience and facing the conscience of mankind. "