The Bridges of Madison County talks about photographers.

Has your friend seen the movie The Bridges of Madison County? Let's talk together.

Why do you think women and men fall in love?

For the sake of family and children, the woman quit her job as a teacher, confined to day and night, kitchen and love, and lacked independent living space. As a housewife, she can only revolve around her husband and children all day, and her heart is full of longing and yearning for the outside world. At this time, a bohemian and cosmopolitan photographer came into her world with his wonderful story, which aroused her deep desire for freedom, so she became very interested in the man's life.

For example, the positive description: first, the story he told is very interesting, lively and dancing with his own experience. He once ran into a gorilla, or a female gorilla with eye shadow, and probably kissed him defenseless. He called this action a promise. Second, the hostess took him to the covered bridge. He picked some wild flowers everywhere and gave them to his hostess to express his gratitude for her kindness in leading the way. Side contrast: The female host can be the truest self in front of her, making unbridled jokes and saying that "flowers are poisonous". The male host subconsciously throws away the bouquet in his hand, with a surprised and even a little frightened expression, which is in perfect harmony with her humor.

I have to say that two people have a lot in common, and each other's words can easily touch the soft corner of their hearts. The hostess remembered her lost girlhood and felt sad for a time. The man's understatement eased the sorrow of the fleeting time. He said: "I wrote something on the road: all my dreams are beautiful dreams." Although they have not been realized, I am glad that I have them. "

Yes, although youth is so short, we should all be glad that we had a girlhood as gorgeous as fireworks.

On the way home from the covered bridge, the man and the woman drove, and they both loved the same song wholeheartedly. Men have been to a small town in Italy, which is the hometown where women lived as children, so they hit it off better.

Perhaps both of them love literature, so when the male host recited "The Silver Apple of the Moon and the Golden Apple of the Sun", the female host said without thinking that the author of this poem was Ye Zhi, and then they had a simple discussion on the artistic style.

Hormones induced by physical contact and the picture of the man undressing and taking a shower also provide motivation for two people to attract each other. (I won't say much about this)

It may be that the sincerity and restraint of the male host also touched the female host. Originally, the two had an appointment to meet after six o'clock in the afternoon, but when the man happened to meet the legendary cheating woman and witnessed how the woman was criticized and discriminated against, he resolutely called the woman and asked her again if she really thought it over and was afraid of being accused.

When the woman put on her newly bought skirt and danced with the man, the man couldn't help kissing her, but he restrained himself in advance and asked, "If you shout stop now, I can stop at once."

It can be seen that the man is not irresponsibly dominated by lust. His heart is full of pity and respect for her, and everything needs her consent.

I don't know if you believe in the fate of past lives, but I always feel that there is really such a person in this world who is destined to meet you and fit in with your soul. Maybe when a woman meets a man for the first time, when he leans in the car and chats with her, his every move of asking her for directions is deeply imprinted in her eyes and heart.

I even think that he wandered around the world, probably to find her.