Maybe it's a good thing to slow down?

Everyone wants to have a keen sense, but Japanese writer Junichi Watanabe said that people who are insensitive are more likely to succeed in their careers, be happy in love and live a happy life.

So what is the blunt force in his mouth? Literally, it means slow reaction. In the book Passivity, he expounded the benefits of being passive from all aspects of life, work and health.

In his work article, he gave an example, which was also criticized by his boss. Sensitive people will wonder if it is not good for them, or if they have no advantage, so they are not in the state all day, or simply resign. People who are slow to respond, like nothing, go to work the next day, no matter what your leader said (maybe they didn't even hear it).

Many years later, that sensitive person changed one job after another but stayed in the original position; A slow-witted person becomes a manager or boss.

Having said that, it seems a good thing to be insensitive.

Nowadays, there is an important reason to advocate breastfeeding for children, besides ensuring nutrition and promoting the relationship between mother and child, which is to reduce allergies.

Children's allergies are a very painful thing for parents. I have a friend whose child is allergic to protein. Everyone is drinking milk. Once her child drinks it, it will take a long time to recover. If she drinks too much, it will cause diarrhea and other reactions.

Besides drinking milk, we should also pay special attention to dinner and snacks. As long as you eat a little food rich in protein, your mouth will be red and swollen.

Once a friend took his children to a dinner party and paid attention to food everywhere. As a result, the child accidentally ate beef. As a result, my face was swollen before I finished eating. I thought it would be okay to spend half a day as usual, but later my friend's children were not soft all over, so I went to the hospital quickly. It's still the same after the inspection. Protein is allergic. Doctors say that when children get older, their sensitivity to food will decrease, and they will eat more kinds, and sometimes their allergies will disappear.

Nevertheless, because of repeated allergies, children have poor resistance and are prone to illness, and their height and weight will not keep up with other children.

More seriously, because the body is sensitive, it will also have an impact on the child's personality. Most allergic children are introverted, unwilling to contact the outside world and do not like to try new things.

Many parents have had this experience. When a child breastfeeds for about a month, the child's resistance will drop significantly and it is easy to have diarrhea.

Expert research shows that this phenomenon is not caused by the lack of "cleanliness" of milk, but because the number and types of flora in breast milk are much less than those in breast milk. It is precisely because of this flora that the body has more powerful power and is not disturbed by various allergies.

I think most parents want their children to be insensitive, safer to eat and drink, safer to play and grow up healthily.

Angie has just entered the marriage hall, thinking about being with her lover every day, smiling so sweetly will show honey. She thinks that after many years of marriage, she will be as happy as her good sister Xiaoqing.

Xiaoqing Da Anqi is three years old. They met because of their first job. Xiaoqing is quiet and lively. They complemented each other and became good sisters at once. When Xiaoqing got married five years ago, Angie cried for a long time, but after this year, seeing Xiaoqing so happy, she wanted to settle down. Just last year, she felt that she had met her Mr. Right.

But less than a year after marriage, Anji began to talk to Xiaoqing about her sufferings. Angie said that her imaginary marriage was not like this. Angie said that her husband was not so perfect before marriage, and Angie said that he didn't love her that much. ...

Once Angie just arrived at Xiaoqing's house, she met Xiaoqing's husband, who had just returned home, with a depressed expression. As soon as she got home, she asked if dinner was ready and didn't say hello to Angie. This is quite different from the way Angie usually looks at them. She wants to get out of this predicament. I didn't expect Xiaoqing to signal her to stay and let her wait for a while.

Xiaoqing first explained to her husband that Angie was here, and there was no anger in her tone. Then tell him that dinner is for two, because he didn't say he would come back to eat before, so now we can either order takeout and wait while eating, or simply go out to eat together. Then she poured her husband a glass of water, just like emotional contagion, completely unaffected by her husband.

Xiaoqing's husband seems to realize that his emotions have gone a little too far just now. He smiled and apologized to Anji, then ordered takeout and ordered Xiaoqing's favorite bread ice cream.

Angie couldn't help boasting about Xiaoqing. If it were me, I would be angry just now. If I don't say hello to my friends and complain regardless of the situation, I will definitely get angry, and then we will probably have another big fight.

Xiaoqing said with a smile, I have never heard a joke that love should turn a blind eye and marriage should poke my eyes. In fact, it is also a "true story" of a better life. It's better to be too sensitive and too slow to react occasionally.

Living needs to be insensitive, and the pursuit of love also needs to be insensitive.

It is said that chasing girls requires three skills: bold, cautious and shameless. The "shameless" here is also a manifestation of indifference.

Not all love is love at first sight, and the initial stage of pursuing love is often not two of a kind. How many beautiful marriages will be lost in the world if one party gives up immediately because the other party refuses.

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Day 22 of daily ploughing