Girls from ordinary families, please seize these ten years.

Girls from ordinary families, please make good use of these ten years

1. Keep learning——

Learn more about all kinds of knowledge and improve your cognition. Knowledge only requires Once it enters your brain, no one can take it away. Knowledge is a priceless treasure. No matter what age or situation you are in, seize every opportunity to learn.

Learning skills:

Learning Excel: Excel for lazy people, learning Excel online.

PPT: aboutppt, PPT World, Youpin PPT

Learning operations: Bird Brother Notes, Operation Meow, 91 Operations

Learning editing: Zokuu, me Self-study websites, Huxiu.com

Learn photography: Tuchong.com, Photography Friends, Hummingbird.com

Learn copywriting: add08, Shuying.com, Sentence Control

< p>Learn foreign languages: Duolingo, Global Talk, LingQ, Lingulee

Learn painting: Blue Pencil, Huaba, Blue World, procreate

2. Time management——

Try not to waste time and save money. Limited time should be used to create greater value. Time is fair, everyone has 24 hours in a day, but different people have different gains from 24 hours

Time management book list:

"Learn to organize your time every day" Skills"

"Xiaoqiang's Promotion"

"Just Do It"

"Eat That Frog"

"Strange "Life"

"There is no such thing as lack of time"

"7 Lessons on Time Management"

"Pomodoro Technique"

< p>"Five kinds of time"

"The golden hour after waking up"

"Seven habits of highly effective people"

"Why are all elites Time Control"

Time Management TED:

"The Psychology of Time"

"Challenge Yourself to Change Your Life in 30 Days"

"The Psychology of Time"

"Why Do You Procrastinate"

"A Healthy Concept of Time"

"How to Control Your Free Time"

"It only takes 2 years to change yourself"

"Sleep is your superpower"

"How not to care too much about some things"

" You only have 9 years of free time in your life"

"Just focus for 10 minutes"

"How to use your fragmented time efficiently"

3. Financial management ——

Girls must save money. The amount of your savings will not make you rich, but it can give you strong support when you want to turn around and leave. 80% of the difficulties in life can be solved with money and the remaining 20% ??can be alleviated with money!

Money Documentary:

"Smart Living Economics"

"Money and Me"

"Super Projector"

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"The Secret of Brands"

"The Culprit of Uncontrolled Consumption"

"Explanation of Money"

"The Rich Seek a Turnaround"

"Rich Brother, Poor Brother"

Book list for making money:

"Puppy Money"

"Rich Dad, Poor Dad"

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"The Story of Pipelines"

"How to Manage Every Penny Effectively"

"Learn to Spend Money"

"Making Money Well"< /p>

"Interpretation of Funds"

"Index Fund Investment Guide"

4. Emotional Management——

Emotion is a double-edged sword. Negative emotions can pull you into the abyss step by step, while positive emotions can pull you back even if you are in hell. Only by controlling your emotions can you control your life.

Emotional management book list:

"Mr. Hao Goes to a Psychiatrist"

"The Courage to Be Disliked"

"Farewell" Thinking too much"

"High sensitivity is a gift"

"Fuck your little emotions"

"Stop your inner war"

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"Our Inner Defense"

"Sharp Sense"

Emotional Management TED:

"Emotional First Aid - Why We All Need to Practice "

"How to be friends with stress"

"The more proactive you are, the luckier you will be"

"Three ways to design to make people happy"

< p>"How to Stay Calm When You Feel Stressed"

"How to Build Creative Confidence"

"Get Out, Little Emotions"

"How "Get rid of anxiety"

5. About society -

There is no need to deliberately cling to anyone, it is the last word to make yourself a valuable talent. The social rules for adults are equality and equal exchange. If you want to make friends with better people, you don’t have to look far, you just need to educate yourself.

Learning Skills:

"Social Nature"

"Introversion Advantages"

"No More Shyness"

"You can talk to anyone you meet"

"Don't eat alone"

"The courage to be disliked"

"How to overcome social anxiety"

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"Efficient Communication"

"Inferiority and Transcendence"

"The Power of Others"

"Habitual Escape"

"Nonviolent Communication"

Social Psychology"

"The Art of Communication"

"Intimate Relationships"

"Upward Socialization "

"Heart-touching Dialogue Method"

"Observe Like a Conspirator"

"Decent"

6. About health ——

Regular work and rest, healthy diet, and regular exercise can enable us to have a healthy body and get better and better in the days to come. I didn’t realize it when I was young, but as I grow older and don’t know how to take care of my body, I will feel more and more inadequate. A good body is the prerequisite for everything!

Health tips:

1. Ensure adequate sleep. 2. Exercise moderately every day. 3. Eat a reasonable and healthy diet. 4. Maintain a happy mood.

7. About career and love -

Some people say that girls should "make a living first, then find love. This is not unreasonable, and most of the time this is also reality. But I also like another saying: "When you meet a good person, you start a family first; when you meet a noble person, you start a career first." There is no fixed order for starting a family and starting a career. You must think carefully before making any decision.

Recommended book list:

"The Psychology of Marriage Cigarettes", "Why Love Hurts", "Marriage Practitioners"

"Narva Book" " "Original Family" "Grassroots Women" "Liang Yongan's Love Lessons"

"It Will Always Pass, It Will Always Come" "Liang Yongan: Reading, Traveling, Love" "Underlying Logic"