"Salty Life" Get to know a good friend who is casual and understand the wonderful life

"Salty Life" was written by Huang Yin in the early 21st century. This is her essay collection, containing 100 essays. She is a reporter and a writer. Let us get a glimpse of it from the book.

She is not like most people who like to look forward and backward and get to the bottom of things. She feels supreme, does not delve into it, does not care about it, and has female emotions.

Look down on many things and discover the beauty of life. When Han Shaogong wrote a preface for her, he said, "People who are a little intellectual are not transparent enough, and they cannot realize that being ordinary is blessing or beauty. Being exhausted by intelligence, it is better for stupid people to maintain their persistence and perseverance." peaceful".

Huang Yin loves traveling. Traveling to various places allows you to feel the customs and appreciate the life of different places.

Tasting local specialties, she feels that "travel is a good life" , she especially loves Tibet.

"Seven Days in the Village" writes about her life in the village of the Yao people. The Yao people are warm and hospitable. If you take a bath at a Yao people's home, the distinguished guests will be asked to wash first, and then they will take turns washing one by one. Huang Yin was naturally unhappy. How could she let a stranger watch her take a shower? But the enthusiasm is really warm.

A little girl from a foreign race entered a strange village alone. Instead of being bullied, she received good care.

I still remember reading some articles before, saying that a female teacher went to teach in a remote mountainous area. There was a local family whose son was older than he was and had no wife, so the family used drugs to charm the teacher and make her Clothes were taken off. Fortunately, another male teacher who was teaching at the time saw it, and the female teacher's safety was not violated. After that, no one came to teach there again.

I have seen many, many negative rural stories. Some of it is due to too much feudal thinking, which leads to uncivilization and disorder. I think truly simple villages are rare. They seem to be full of swearing, gossiping, and favoring boys over girls.

But Huang Yin experienced a place where strange girls could be safe and enjoy themselves.

Tibet is a place Huang Yin dreams about, and she firmly believes that she is destined to Tibet.

There is a story mentioned in "Walking Horses and Fishing River". A friend came to a family and went to Tibetans to buy sheep. The Tibetans were unwilling, saying that sheep eat grass in spring and only people eat sheep in winter. . The man asked him to give him more money, but he still refused and kept repeating the saying, "Sheep eat grass in spring, and people eat sheep in winter."

Or some may think he is stubborn and this is an opportunity to make a lot of money. However, Tibetans who understand the harmony of nature know very well that only by maintaining ecological balance can they have a good life. I admire such people so much.

The Tibetans gave the fisherman money, hoping that he would let go of the sacred fish, but the fisherman did not want to. The fishhook got caught in the fisherman's trousers and he couldn't take it off. The Tibetan came over to solve the problem for him and said to the fish, "Fish, I'm so sorry, I couldn't save you."

In another article "Mysterious Revenge", four people shot the condor and acted disrespectfully, causing the fox to tease and the wolf to howl. I experienced the most terrifying night in Tibet.

Tibet is a sacred place with sacred eagles and sacred fish. This is the belief and spirit of the local people. This is not superstition, but a yearning for a better life, and the realization of the meaning of life in things. The ancient myth of the Tibetan people is about the immortality of the condor, the love story of the Potala Palace, and the holiness of the snow-capped mountains.

The snow-capped mountains of Tibet guard Tibet proudly and majestically, watching every plant and tree in Tibet, and bestowing divine power on the Sun Condor. Under its protection, Tibetans live a peaceful and happy life, plain but fulfilling, with less disputes and more warmth.

If there is something that you admire in your heart, you will regulate your behavior; if you have something that you are afraid of, you will know the importance of it; if you have something that you love in your heart, you will treat it with care.

This is the Tibetan people’s exemplary attitude towards themselves, their faith, life, nature and all things. Worth learning from.

Life is beautiful but also painful, and there is no fixed number of beauty in life. Heavy makeup is beautiful, and light makeup is beautiful. As long as you have eyes that discover beauty, there will be a picturesque wonderland everywhere. .

In Huang Yin’s life, meeting Tong Ange is beautiful, and seeing him on TV is also beautiful; Tibetan stories are beautiful, and Tibetan folk customs are beautiful. Even if you can’t focus, adjust the focus, or fill in the light, what if you can’t capture the highlight or the most perfect photo? As long as you have eyes that discover beauty, can capture beauty, and can press the shutter, you will be happy.

The world is a place where beauty and ugliness coexist. The more beauty there is, the more curse there is on ugliness.

There are also some reflections in life. Huang Yin said in a conversation with a friend, "I often feel that my problems are just my problems and have nothing to do with others. I rarely share my problems with my friends. I don’t have the habit of complaining to others about all the pressures I have experienced. All kinds of ups and downs are something that is inherent in life in my opinion. They are natural and ordinary, so I will not ask others to treat me because of my own problems. As a result, I feel alienated from others.

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And her friend said: “You are very selfish”

I can’t help but think, is it selfish not to share suffering with friends? I remember hearing a friend say that he A person you know will tell some things that everyone thinks are important, giving them the illusion that they are familiar with that person. This naturally includes the hardships and setbacks they have experienced.

Why expose your wounds to someone you are not sure you can trust and use it to gain so-called friendship? If the price of friendship is so high, I don't want it. If the pain is so cheap, To actually become your capital to gain friends, you really failed to live up to the difficulty that you had to overcome.

After reading Huang Yin’s book, I remembered that there was an essay about getting a perfect score in the college entrance examination that wrote, “True. Writing wisdom is the clear state of my "handwriting my heart".

And Huang Yin is my handwriting my heart, I do whatever I want. A truly excellent work can make readers agree with what is written in the book. Content, realize the true meaning of the book, and appreciate the essence of the book.

I love this child-like wise Huang Yin who loves to eat, travel, pop music, and make friends.