What are the requirements for choosing the best man and maid of honor when getting married? Who to choose to do is taboo?

generally speaking, this is the first question that the couple will consider when planning a wedding. Wedding hotels, wedding photography and so on are all hardware, but the choice of male and female guests and friends is an out-and-out "software", and it is also very interesting. Usually, the first ones listed on the list are the good friends or close colleagues of the bride and groom. If you want to count the conditions with your fingers, they are similar in age, warm-hearted, willing to do anything for their friends, able to "alcohol" test, but also able to withstand the guest's hard and soft. In real life, it's not so easy to choose a friend or relative as the best man and maid of honor. If you're worried about it, the following suggestions will help you make a decision.

[scale of wedding banquet]

There is no stipulation that only one groomsman and maid of honor can be invited to a wedding. If your scale is grand and there is more than one iron elder brother and sister, you can invite them all to your side. Also, don't' force' your groomsman and maid of honor to wear a low profile. In fact, their brilliance will add luster to your face!

[Your purpose]

What does the best man and bridesmaid do for you?

Do I just give you moral support, or do I expect them to be your right-hand man? Does he (she) eat well in the scene? Is it exquisite? Are there any interesting talents that can stir up the atmosphere of the wedding? In case of an emergency at the scene, can you solve it calmly? You should think carefully about whether he (she) is the most suitable candidate, and don't push a friend who may not like the excitement to this position simply because of his personal relationship.

[troubled promise]

Did you suddenly remember when the invitation was printed: "Oh, how could you forget him (her)! Last time I promised to invite him (her) to be the best man (maid of honor)! Or, did your partner make a similar promise on a whim? It's not too scary to encounter this situation, but don't avoid the problem, explain it to your friend well, and he (she) will forgive you.

[Special quota]

Do you have any close brothers and sisters? Maybe this wedding is a good internship opportunity for him (her). If you still have the die-hards in dance academy who regard marriage as dirt, entrusting him (her) with the task of best man or maid of honor may change their minds.

[Internal blind date]

Getting married is of course your wedding date, but there are many articles to do besides this fact. Do you or your lover have friends who are worried about love? This wedding is a wonderful opportunity. Please ask this friend and the one he (she) loves to be your bridesmaids and groomsmen. This time, it's hard to open your heart without love. With the jubilant wedding reception, I believe the effect of this blind date can't be compared with that of ordinary coffee shops!

[Be frank]

When the final list is decided, you should have a good communication with the selected people. Do you need a dress? What kind of series is the color of the day? Does he (she) have a ready-made one or do you have to buy it specially? All the guests and witnesses, the list of the master of ceremonies, the whole wedding process, and the solution of unexpected things must be given to him or her first. Remember, you can invite several bridesmaids and groomsmen because of excitement or human feelings, but you have to know who is the closest one, and you must let him (her) know this beforehand, because only he (she) can really play a role in your wedding.