How miserable is Ray Ma who lost his mother at the age of 5, his father left home in debt, and 7 cents drifted north, and his famous songs were banned?

A song "Damn Tenderness" spread all over the streets, and a handsome and warm Ray Ma appeared in front of the public. But Ray Ma, who is elegant, is a completely different boy, and the road he has traveled is full of snow and snow. Even after becoming famous, his grandfather's death made him feel guilty, and his fragmented childhood made him unforgettable all his life.

Tianyu had to live alone with his grandparents, and he didn't know what fatherly love and maternal love were from an early age. Ray Ma, 16, had to work in Beipiao to make a living and make a living for her family. In the days of drifting in the North, Ray Ma was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy at the suggestion of others, and then participated in Come on, My Hero and won the sixth place in the national finals. Although he was eliminated, he made his debut with Kimi and Jing Bo Ran. Damn tenderness is Ray Ma's famous song, but it also encountered a ban on singing. Fortunately, it bought back the copyright. For Ray Ma, the frustrations and struggles before becoming famous were not used to invite people's hearts, but were deposited in his bones. At the age of 5, he lost his mother and his father ran away from home.

Ray Ma rarely mentioned his life experience and teenage experience in public, but his childhood experience was more bumpy than TV series, and the joys and sorrows of the world were constantly being staged on him. Ray Ma was born in Dezhou, Shandong Province, a poor rural family, not even ordinary. My mother is sick all the year round, my father is addicted to drinking and gambling, and there are two sisters and a younger brother at home. For Ray Ma, being born in such a family is doomed to a very bumpy road, and all the misfortunes are often caused by family of origin.

Ray Ma's most depressing thing was that he once suspected that his mother had bought the suicide medicine herself. On a program, Ray Ma also recalled: "I really can't imagine that my mother bought the medicine for suicide by herself, and I will probably really collapse.". After his mother's death, Ray Ma never celebrated the Mid-Autumn Festival again, but went alone to weed his mother's grave. Ray Ma's most regrettable thing is that there is no photo of his mother at home. I don't know who lost one.

For a family, when the mother dies, the father will become Optimus Prime and hold up a sky. However, Ray Ma's father had a bad habit. Not only did he fail to take up the responsibility of supporting his family, but he also made trouble for his children and even ran away from home because of avoiding debts. When his father ran away from home, all the things that his creditors gave to his family were removed, and even his own brother was taken away. Since then, Ray Ma has never seen his brother again, and he doesn't even know where he is.

Young Ray Ma couldn't get over his father's leaving without saying goodbye. It was not until later that Ray Ma took the first family photo and formally accepted and forgave his father's difficulties. Many people thought that Ray Ma could get along well with his father and enjoy his late fatherly love, but he didn't want to lose his father again at the age of 32.

Ray Ma was too depressed about his father's death, so he sent a Weibo saying, "It's over with my parents. May you and I be well.". This sentence is just Ray Ma's yearning for his parents, and many people suspect that Ray Ma broke off the father-son relationship with his father. But when Ray Ma's life story was announced to the world, many people also expressed sympathy. I can't afford to pay the tuition fee of 3 yuan, and 7 cents will drift to the north to pay my father's debts. < P > God cares for a person, who can have a smooth journey, but when he is cruel, he will be hit one after another. Ray Ma's misfortune is not limited to his parents, but also the poor days of living with his grandparents. Grandpa's and grandma's families are not so rich. When Ray Ma was a child, he was vaccinated privately. He spent 2 yuan and 5 cents and was beaten up by grandma.

Because there is no male labor force in the family, Ray Ma can only take the responsibility of picking up excrement and doing farm work. Although he doesn't want to do it, he can't avoid it. It was a hard time, but it made Ray Ma feel warm. Because every meal, grandma will give an extra tortilla.

In junior high school, Ray Ma had to drop out of school because he couldn't afford the tuition and fees of three yuan. At that time, Ray Ma was 16 years old, an energetic teenager, but a minor child. After quarreling with her sister, 16-year-old Ray Ma started to go to Beijing from Dezhou, Shandong Province with only 7 cents on him. No one can imagine what will happen to a child in a big Beijing, and what kind of life can 7 cents bring him?

Ray Ma's first job when she went to Beijing was washing dishes in a hotel, but she also needed a copy of her ID card to work in a hotel. Copying cost 5 cents, and with the remaining 2 cents, Ray Ma lived in Beijing for two months. Ray Ma feels lucky that the hotel provides food and shelter without spending money, but the family and father always need to spend money.

Ray Ma's father had to turn to his children for help because he was forced to retreat by his creditors. Ray Ma had only 6 yuan on him, and he sent it all home. When people ask why they are doing this. Ray Ma calmly replied, "Because Grandpa taught himself from an early age, the father pays his debts.". Grandpa may be a beacon of Ray Ma, guiding his life from childhood to adulthood. But after becoming famous, this bright lamp of Ray Ma will never shine again. It was said that he was gay and "Damn Gentleness" was forbidden to sing

When he was a waiter in a bar, Ray Ma's friends suggested that he should become an actor and be admitted to the Beijing Film Academy. Ray Ma has no direction in life, but he also takes advice from his friends. In order to practice courage, Ray Ma signed up for "Come on, My Hero" accompanied by friends. This is the beginning of Ray Ma's debut and a starting point. Ray Ma didn't cheat or sign a contract, and won the most popular champion in the whole network, but he was still badly eliminated, but everything could not stop the bright future that was already visible to the naked eye.

It is said that when Ray Ma's popularity increased greatly, negative news began to appear. Gao Bo, a photographer who has worked with Ray Ma, once published an article "Love Story of Passing Clouds", which broke the news that "Ray Ma is a lover's relationship". The news that Ray Ma was suspected to be gay and also suspected to be kept in captivity was quickly spread.

Ray Ma said, "The luck and misfortune at home are all related to him". Grandpa Ray Ma was in poor health. After knowing this news, he got worse and died soon. Ray Ma regretted his grandfather's death, and blamed himself for not letting him enjoy more blessings, but bringing more troubles.

But it turns out that the revelation was clearly an scandal. Ray Ma went to the Beijing Film Academy with his own money, and strongly denied that he was homosexual. Although things have been clarified, grandpa's death is irreparable.

Ray Ma seems to be synonymous with misery, even in the hottest days. In 27, with a song "Damn Gentleness", Ray Ma became an instant hit, and the song was also selected into the Japanese Chinese textbook "Remembering Chinese by Singing". But in 28, at the release conference of Ray Ma's new album, the original signing company stated that "Ray Ma's brokerage company broke the contract many times, and after many discussions, Ray Ma himself could not sing" Damn Tender "without permission".

After the storm of singing ban came out, Ray Ma didn't argue too much, but focused on the development of film and television industry. Ray Ma's acting performance in "Fantasy City" was highly praised. After making money, Ray Ma is still very low-key, and will buy back the copyright of the famous songs again. Classic songs are still familiar, and they can still arouse everyone's memories of their school days.

It has been 14 years since her debut, but Ray Ma is still not used to being a star, and she is still trying to be a good actor, a good boy and find a balance between spirit and material. For Ray Ma, in 14 years, he played a bad card in life wonderfully, and there was a vast sky under his peaceful appearance. The world kissed me with pain, and I want to repay it with songs. My low-key passion for charity is the greatest kindness in Ray Ma's heart. After the sublimation of life, Ray Ma did not publicize the original inspirational story, but clearly saw the essence of life and work. This kind of Ray Ma can warm others, and can also be treated gently by time.