What if I fall in love with photography?

It is normal for young people to have no money. I suggest you pursue your own interests and don't be afraid to spend money. I guess your relatives are not young anymore. When people are old, they are conservative and reactionary. Because they have no vitality, they take pleasure in suppressing others and suppressing vitality. It doesn't matter if people are poor, they are afraid that there will be no love, no interest and no pursuit!