Sometimes, breaking up is not because you don't love, but because you love too much.

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This morning, Xing Xiaoyao and Liu Shuo, my favorite online celebrities, got the first place in Weibo Hot Search because they broke up.

After reading the long microblog written by Lao Liu to Lao Xing, every word is I love you. After reading it, I stood for a long time. I don't know what to say. I just feel like cutting an onion, from the eyes to the nose and finally to the heart. I wanted to say something when I opened the comment, but I finally wrote a long paragraph and deleted it, leaving only a heavy sigh in my heart.

Others don't understand and think that Lao Xing must have cheated. I don't know why. Probably the same as us, for example, I prefer spicy food and you like clear soup, which is just a trivial matter. But I know that they must still love each other deeply.

As Liu said: "There is no right or wrong in love, and there is no wise man in love. At this point, there must be something wrong with us. But none of us are entangled. Just as we love each other without asking why, now we don't care about those reasons. "

If I say goodbye, I have no more blessings for you. I just hope you can live better without me.

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I don't know if you still remember, last summer, a person often appeared in this official WeChat account. I call him Lao Wang. Lao Wang is where I used to be? Don't be a cool person at such a good age. The ex mentioned in this article who broke up because I said his voice was bad is also the ex who said I cried after eating Lamian Noodles, and the ex who said that even if I looked like Zhao Benshan, I would still love me.

Lao Wang is a very good person. I used to love him, and he loved me. I kept all the photos of his childhood, from crotch pants to college, and took them out from time to time as expression packs to laugh at him. I always like to find all kinds of jokes to black him, and he doesn't show weakness. He always likes to attack me. Friends say that love is deep and natural, and envy the way we love each other and kill each other.

But we broke up anyway. Many friends feel sorry for us, and some friends say that we can definitely make up. What we can do is not to mention the past. In these two years of love, we broke up countless times, quarreled countless times, found new lovers countless times, and made up countless times. Every time I want to suffocate myself, I will let go, but when he comes back, I will leave all those injuries behind and run to him.

I remember it very well. Once we broke up. I was at his house, and I was going to take a bus back to Fujian the next morning. We agreed that we would break up after I left the next day and never contact again. That night, none of us slept, said anything or cried. That was the first time I expected that the sky would not be so bright.

We hugged tightly and cried very tired.

We keep telling each other: I love you, I love you very much, but I'm sorry.

Because at that time, we were really tired and didn't want to love.

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Not all people who love each other are obviously tired, but in order to maintain this shaky relationship, they weave all kinds of lies to deceive each other every day, and in the end, even sex is only perfunctory before they are willing to break up. Not all couples have to have a big fight when they break up, and the scandal is completely over when they tear each other apart.

You know, not every story has an ending. Many times, two people who seem to be made in heaven suddenly break up, or they are deeply in love, but they become strangers because they are too tired together.

As Lao Xing said, "He still loves me, and I still love him. There must be a reason why two people who love each other are separated. Will they be together again? Time will also give us the answer. Cherish everything in front of you, lower your head, look at what you are holding now, and hold on firmly. What you can't go back is called the past, and what you can't see is called the future. "

I know you won't love this person in a few years, but you will remember this person. For a person who never forgets, it feels like walking into a telephone pole, which is very painful. It may go around the telephone pole for a long time. It's been a long time, and I can't remember how much it hurts, but the telephone pole is always there.

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There is a kind of breakup, not because you don't love, but because you love too much and don't know how to continue to love. If we continue, we will only lose both sides. Instead of torturing each other until the last bit of love disappears, it is better to part while still in love. At least many years later, I think of you. You are all beautiful in my memory.

Regret is true, sadness is true, pity is true, even parting and breaking up are true, and it is also true that such people once appeared by your side and left.

However, regret is better than bondage.

I really love you, but I don't want to be with you anymore.

Later, I dreamed countless times that I got on the Nankai bullet train again, wandering all the way, crying while walking. I'm glad I didn't bother the old queen again when I heard that she had a good life. From the beginning, it was unacceptable, and now the wind is light and the clouds are light. I'm glad he finally has a new life.

Are you asking me that I am sad to type these words now? I'm sorry, but I'm over it.

May you understand that all encounters in the world have their meaning;

Those who wish to miss it will meet again after being displaced.

If you never see each other again, please take good care of yourself.

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