How can I be a good daughter, wife and mother?

The wife controls the family life. It can warm up the feelings between husband and wife. Because of the wife's important position in the family, the warmth that a good wife brings to the family is incalculable. How to be a good wife? How can I get my husband's praise?

1, leave some personal living space for my husband.

Women have a dependence and like to be with others; Married women, this dependence will be strengthened, and they always hope that their husbands can stay with them.

And men have a game mentality. After marriage, I also hope to associate with my past friends and keep my past hobbies.

Some wives lose their temper when their husbands go out, causing small family conflicts.

In addition, due to the limitation of the current cultural environment, work and career are still important links in men's sexual life. Even if career is a means to make a living, it is also an important way to establish personal social image and reflect personal value.

In order to gain this value, husbands often spend some spare time to arrange their own work. This is also easy for the wife to have a cold feeling.

A good wife should be considerate of her husband's psychological characteristics and not lock him up. But leave each other a little free space.

Women sometimes coquetry around their husbands to make them narrow-minded and relax themselves.

Men are interested in playing chess, playing cards and taking pictures.

If you don't leave your husband the necessary living space, asking him to stay with you all day will make him lose his distinctive personality and rich life color;

The incompetence of the husband's career is also the misfortune of the wife.

Therefore, only intimate and independent husband and wife life can be harmonious and perfect.

Don't remould your husband all day.

What a husband can't stand most is that his wife is always finding fault with herself.

What stubborn temper, laziness, clumsy mouth and tongue ... This endless criticism and transformation has become the fuse of many small families' quarrels.

Many husbands had no choice but to avoid it with silence, but it soon broke out in silence.

Just as a husband hates his wife's wordiness, a wife hates her husband's silence the most.

As a result, this kind of family is always shrouded in a dull and tense atmosphere. There are few sweet and relaxed laughter.

Psychologists tell us that it is not so easy to transform people's character and temperament. Even the reform depends mainly on the initiative of one's own will and the encouragement of others.

Talking about responsibilities will only hurt each other's self-esteem and produce disgust and disgust.

If two kinds of husband and wife life are in front of you:

1), every minute is spent in ineffective curses and reform victories all day;

2) Know that no one can transform anyone and seek happiness in life together.

Which one do you choose?

Don't humiliate your husband in public

Even omnipotent political leaders sometimes find it difficult to understand their family life.

American President Lincoln is a man who has read this bitter book all his life.

Mrs Lincoln has a bad temper. One morning, they had dinner together in a restaurant. Somehow, something offended Mrs Lincoln's nervousness. He threw a cup of hot coffee in her husband's face in public.

The frustrating relationship between husband and wife made Lincoln spend a long time in his single apartment.

Biography critics said: Lincoln was killed by a murderer's bullet, but this did not leave any trouble for Lincoln, but in 23 years, he was always hit by the embarrassing situation created by his wife.

A wife is the spiritual pillar in her husband's life, and a good wife knows how to safeguard her husband's personal dignity in various ways.

The humiliation of others can be understood as a reflection of the sense of competition in life. The public humiliation of his wife will make his personality and dignity explode and collapse in the spiritual core, leading to a double rift between family and personality.

4. Don't doubt it.

Doubt is a distrust attitude caused by fear of being hurt. If you are worried that your situation is unsafe, you will be suspicious and worried.

A sense of security depends on two conditions, one is self-confidence and the other is trust.

After marriage, for the needs of family, women tend to shrink their lives, focus on love, and are skeptical about their husbands' behind-the-scenes activities.

For example, you heard that the woman in your husband's office is a bit like him. One day, you finally see them walking home from work together, looking very affectionate.

What will you do at this time?

There are three possible options:

1) spread gossip about them to ease my hatred.

2) It is ugly for them to go over and criticize in public.

3) Don't doubt your beloved easily, pay more attention to your husband in your life and strengthen emotional communication with each other.

The choice of 1 and 2 is easy to be made in excitement. The third method requires reason and may be misunderstood as weakness and submission.

In fact, the third method is the best choice.

You know, keeping and cherishing love is a lifelong thing, but destroying love happens in an instant.

There is a spontaneous cohesion between husband and wife, and suspicion is the destruction of this cohesion.

5. Respect the husband's relatives.

It is suggested that husband and wife should make a husband and wife convention, stipulating that the other party should not participate in their own family affairs.

It can be seen that dealing with each other's kinship is a key to a harmonious marriage.

There is a wife who always buys good things to urge her husband to visit the elderly whenever her in-laws are unwell or have holidays. Later, the old man sometimes simply contacted his daughter-in-law directly, making her an excellent front-desk figure in her husband's family. Her husband told her emotionally, I feel more honored that you came forward than I did.

The western philosopher Heraclitus once said: The sun is new every day.

As the sun in the family, the wife has great ability to keep the family warm.

As long as the husband and wife work together, can't your life be new every day?

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