What should China people prepare for marriage?

What is marriage?

The Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China stipulates the legal conditions for the legal union of men and women, the rights and obligations of both men and women after the union, and other responsibilities and obligations arising therefrom.

Marriage is legally called marriage. It means that both men and women establish a husband-and-wife relationship in accordance with the conditions and procedures prescribed by law, and bear the rights, obligations and other responsibilities arising therefrom.

The establishment of marriage relationship has three basic legal characteristics.

First, the subjects of marriage are men and women. Marriage does not constitute marriage unless it is a combination of physical differences between men and women.

Second, marriage is a legal act. Both parties who apply for marriage must abide by the provisions of the law and perform the marriage registration procedures stipulated by the law, otherwise the marriage relationship will not have legal consequences, that is, the marriage is invalid and not protected by law.

Three, the legal consequences of marriage is to establish the relationship between husband and wife, and bear the resulting responsibilities, rights and obligations. This established relationship between husband and wife, without legal procedures, no unit, individual or both husband and wife have the right to terminate the relationship.

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Wedding souvenir

Red bean shrub

Go out and plant willows with the wind.

Before and after the Qingming Festival, the valley breeze was blowing gently, the willows were lingering, and the willow leaves were like eyebrows. I can't help but think of the slang that Wenzhou drummers sang, "When you go out, you plant willows with the wind, and when you go home, apricot trees are full of red." Wenzhou people have the habit of going out to work and do business. Every year around Tomb-Sweeping Day, in spring and Qingming, they organize their families to go out for business. His family and neighbors all hope that he will succeed in making money and expanding his financial resources elsewhere. Where you plant it like a willow, you will take root there and make a career, with lush leaves. When I go home after autumn, the golden apricots will be full of fruits and red as fire. Although this is an ancient auspicious greeting, it has enabled millions of Wenzhou talents to start businesses and make money in foreign countries like willows in the north and south of the motherland, inside and outside the Great Wall, and even across the ocean. Countless Wenzhou villages and cities are the portrayal of Wenzhou people planting willows with the wind when they go out, and they are also the pride of Wenzhou people.

Willow is not only the mascot of Wenzhou people, but also the poetic material recited and entrusted by the Chinese nation, which embodies the accumulation of traditional culture in China.

The word "willow" of willow is homophonic with the word "willow", which refers to the artistic conception of willow in people's minds to retain guests and relatives. As early as the Han dynasty, there was a feeling of farewell and hospitality. Sui, Tang and Song Dynasties were more prosperous. A poem "Farewell" written by an anonymous person in the Sui Dynasty wrote: "The willow green hangs low and the flowers are long and sultry. The wicker is broken and the flowers are flying. Will pedestrians come back? " In the Tang Dynasty, there was a Baqiao bridge on the Bashui River in the east of Chang 'an, which was the only way to Luoyang in the east. Beijing people send guests here as a sign of staying. So willows were planted on both sides of Bashui. Jiang Lang, a gifted scholar in the Southern Dynasties, once said, "It's just to bid farewell to those who are fascinated." Later generations renamed Baqiao to ecstasy bridge. Pei Shuo's poem "Willow" in the Tang Dynasty: "Dangerous buildings are high in dust and low in dust, so what can you climb on Baqiao Bridge? Considering that it is a heartless tree, I don't understand how to welcome people and send them away. " Complaining about willows is heartless, and complaining about leaving others is also heartless. Baling, mistakenly attributed to Li Bai's poem "Qin Yi E", refers to this charming bridge: "Qin Louyue, willow color every year, Baling is sad." It's hard to hold back tears when people leave the bridge to say goodbye. Shake Goodbye written by Li Shutong, a close friend, is often heard in modern music circles: "The evening wind blows the flute, and the sunset is over the mountain", which also expresses the sadness that friends will break up again after "close friends are separated"!

The ancients also regretted and complained about the broken wicker of Fujian tourists. Tang Dunhuang tune in Looking at Jiangnan: "Don't climb me, climbing me is too eccentric. I am a willow tree in Qujiang forest pool. I want to throw it away from that person and love it for a while. " The poet used willow branches on the banks of the Yangtze River in Yangzhou as the call sign of a geisha with tragic fate. This person folds it away, and that person throws it casually. Love is only temporary. How snobbish it is, it can be described as vivid. All the above sentences reveal a sad and miserable mood. Or "Ruan Langgui" by Ouyang Zuiweng in the Northern Song Dynasty: "Green plums are like peas and willows, butterflies fly far away" is vivid and lively. It is attractive and seemingly joyful to write out the cheerful mood of a girl who bathes in spring while enjoying spring. His book "Raw tea leaves the west", "On the willow shoots and the moon, people meet after dusk", reveals the expectation for lovers. In fact, Wenzhou's "going out to plant willows with the wind" is the most confident, and the spring breeze will be proud and the cause will be successful. Living with the soil is more promising and full of sunshine than attaching to the native land.

Speaking of nostalgia for their homeland, it is no wonder that people in China are affectionate. Because China people have been living a farming life for thousands of years, the homesickness rooted in agricultural production is particularly strong. As early as 2,500 years ago, in the last chapter of The Book of Songs, Xiaoya Cai Wei, there was a saying, "I have been there, and the willow is the Yi Yi". The veteran, who has been in the war for a long time, recalled that when he went out for the first time, the graceful willow branches in front of the door seemed to be holding hands with him and holding clothes. Through the image of wicker, it has become a farewell image, and even sublimated into the artistic conception of nostalgic homeland, which is really touching. Wang Zhihuan's Four-line Poem "Qiang Di Why Blame Liu? "Spring breeze is not about Yumenguan" is a sad willow. It's not that it doesn't know spring and doesn't sprout, just because Yumenguan is in the spring breeze! It also compares the harsh environment of frontier fortress recruitment.

Love is the eternal theme of mankind, and it is more meaningful to write lovers' farewell with willows. In the Southern Song Dynasty, Lu You revisited Shenyuan in his twilight years, and the traces of his hometown aroused the memory of his dead lover Tang Wan. There is a saying that "the dream is broken and fragrant for forty years, and the old man in Shenyuan does not blow cotton." Old willow in Shenyuan and old man in Jianhu shed tears, which makes people cry. There is a saying in Wang Shifu's Farewell to the West Chamber, Pavilions and Pavilions in the Yuan Dynasty that "the willow silk is long, but the jade is difficult to tie". Although willow silk is entrusted by acacia, it can't be a horse. After tortuous pursuit, the lovers who finally got married separated. No wonder Yingying "looked at Shili Pavilion from afar and suddenly lost her jade muscle".

Poplar and willow belong to the same family and different genera, which have always been called willow in China. She is not only covered with tender branches, but also with catkins and flowers that arouse infinite feelings. Shi Shuo Xin Yu, compiled by Liu Yiqing in the Southern Dynasties, records: "Mrs. Xie got together on a snowy day and told her children the meaning of the paper, but suddenly it began to snow. Gong said, "What is snow like?" Brother Hu said,' The difference between sprinkling salt and air can be simulated.' Brother and daughter said,' If catkins are not caused by the wind.' Imperial guards laughed. Teacher Xie An of the Eastern Jin Dynasty wrote one on a snowy day. His brother, Yi's daughter, used catkins to dance with the wind to describe snow, which is physical and mental, wonderful and charming. Xie Daowen was praised as a talented woman. Later, people wrote a lot of catkin poems. Among them, Su Dongpo's "Shui Long Yin, Zi Yun Zhang Fu Hua Yang Ci" is the most famous. The first sentence of this word is "like a flower is still like a non-flower", and the word says "sad, sleepy, wanting to open and close." The dream floated in Wan Li, looking for a place to go, and was called by Yingying. "At the end of the sentence is" spring scenery three points, dust two points, water one point. "It doesn't seem to be Huayang in detail, but one thing is tears."

Sue will be compared with others, which is very appropriate and better than his colleagues' words. Before Su Ci, Huayang's name was not very pleasant to hear, and it was compared to a fickle woman, so it was called "Yi De". Dongpo rehabilitated her innocence and her true colors, a pure, heavy, resentful and affectionate daughter. Willow will thank him!

Standing on "Yang Liuan" and singing "Twilight of the Moon", let us spread our imagination wings and gallop in the vast sky of China traditional culture, let the catkins of poplars edify our temperament, delight our hearts and improve our quality of life. This is very interesting.

Wedding process

1. wedding planning

1. 1. Decide the wedding date, place, ceremony and wedding reception method.

1.2. Determine the wedding budget

1.3. Draw up the guest list

1.4. Call a good friend to discuss the wedding plan.

1.5. Determine the best man and bridesmaid.

1.6. Determine the host and witnesses.

1.7. Establish a wedding preparation team.

1.7. 1. The kick-off meeting of the startup project was held.

1.7.2. Make a wedding project plan.

1.7.3. Define the division of labor of the preparatory group.

Preparation before the wedding

2. 1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding.

2. 1. 1. Communicate with parents about wedding planning and progress.

2. 1.2. Send happy messages to relatives and friends.

2. 1.3. Call relatives and friends in other places.

2. 1.4. Publish the marriage notice online.

2. 1.5. Reconfirm the client and witness.

2. 1.6. Feedback the invitation information of relatives and friends in time.

2. 1.7. reconfirm for important relatives and friends.

2.2. Buy wedding supplies

2.2. 1. New furniture

2.2. 1. 1. Household appliances and furniture

2.2. 1.2. Bedding

2.2. 1.3. Colored balloons

2.2. 1.4. Lantern (cold light)

2.2. 1.5 yarn

2.2. 1.6 candles

2.2. 1.7. magnetic tape

2.2. 1.8. patch panel

2.2. 1.9. Other articles

2.2.2. Wedding supplies ordering

2.2.2. 1. Wedding dresses of the bride and groom

2.2.2.2. Wedding ring.

2.2.2.3. Bride cosmetic

2.2.2.4. Wedding stickers, red envelopes and happy characters.

2.2.2.5. Ribbons, flowers and spray.

2.2.2.6. Tobacco, wine and drinks.

2.2.2.7. Sugar, peanuts, melon seeds, tea.

2.2.2.8. Videotapes, movies.

2.2.2.9. Order flowers.

2.2.2. 10. Book the cake

2.2.2. 1 1. Fruit

2.3. Preparation of bride and groom images

2.3. 1. The bride starts to take care of her skin.

2.3.2. The groom cuts his hair

2.4. Take wedding photos

2.4. 1. Choose a wedding studio

2.4.2. Make an appointment for the shooting date

2.4.3. Take photos

2.4.4. Movie Selection

2.4.5. Printing or painting

2.5. Decorate the new house

2.5. 1. Please ask the cleaning company to clean the new house thoroughly.

2.5.2. Layout of new houses

2.6. Determine the wedding host

2.6. 1. Communicate with them the plans and ideas of the wedding day.

2.7. Wedding reservation

2.7. 1. Estimated number of tourists

2.7.2. Estimate the number of banquets

2.7.3. Choose the wedding venue.

2.7.4. Confirm the banquet menu and price.

2.7.5. Confirm the acoustic effect of the wedding banquet.

2.7.6. Coordinate the wedding banquet arrangement and other details with the hotel.

2.7.7. Book a banquet

2.8. Wedding Makeup Appointment

2.8. 1. Choose a place for makeup.

2.8.2. Communicate with hair stylists and makeup artists.

2.8.3. Confirm the shape of the wedding day.

2.8.4. Make an appointment for the specific time of makeup.

2.9. Wedding car reservation

2.9. 1. Determine the number of wedding cars.

2.9.2. Choose the driver of the wedding car.

2.9.3. Make an appointment to tie the float.

2.9.4. Determine the driving route and required time of the wedding car on the wedding day.

2.9.5. Booking a wedding car

2. 10. Wedding camera reservation

2. 10. 1. Determine the number of photos taken by the photo agency.

2. 10.2. Choose a photographer for the wedding day.

2. 10.3. Arrange the division of photography.

2. 10.4. Prepare photographic equipment and films and videos.

2. 10.5. Make an appointment for photography.

2. 1 1 others

2. 1 1. 1.

2. 1 1.2. Identify the children who roll the bed.

2. 1 1.3. Prepare guest rooms for friends and relatives from afar.

Prepare the day before the wedding

3. 1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding.

3. 1. 1. Communicate with parents about the completion of wedding preparations.

3. 1.2. Make final communication with the preparatory group on the preparation and division of labor on the wedding day.

3. 1.3. According to the preparation, communicate with the host about the ceremony flow on the wedding day.

3. 1.4. Communicate with the best man and bridesmaid again.

3. 1.5. Finally confirm the relatives and friends who helped.

3. 1.6. finally confirm the details, vehicles, photos and makeup of the wedding banquet.

3.2. Confirm the preparation of the speaker on the wedding day.

3.2. 1. Preparation of witnesses' speeches

3.2.2. Preparation of Parents' Representatives' Speech

3.2.3. Preparation of guest representatives' speeches

3.2.4. Bride's Question Preparation in Bride Kidnapping Case

3.2.5. Problems that the bride and groom may encounter in the wedding or bridal chamber.

3.3. Finally confirm the preparation of all items on the wedding day.

3.3. 1. Finally try on all the clothes.

3.3.2. Put all the clothes to be worn on the wedding day in your pockets.

3.3.3. Prepare two bottles of fake wine

3.3.4. Prepare fast food for the bride and groom on the wedding day.

3.3.5. Finally, check all items and hand them over to a special person for safekeeping.

3.3.5. 1. Bride's new shoes

3.3.5.2. Marriage certificate.

3.3.5.3. The ring.

3.3.5.4 Hongbao

3.3.5.5. Wear jewelry.

3.3.5.6. Bride cosmetic box

3.3.5.7. Sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea and drinks.

3.3.5.8. Fireworks props

The bride and groom are specially prepared.

3.4. 1. The bride and groom are familiar with the wedding procedures repeatedly.

3.4.2. Rehearse the action of holding the bride.

3.4.3. Wedding rehearsal catwalk

3.4.4. Rehearse the action of making a glass of wine.

3.4.5. Relax and encourage each other.

3.4.6. Pay attention to sleep and go to bed early.

3.5. Prepare alarm clock

3.5. 1 Confirm that the alarm clock works normally.

3.5.2 Set the alarm clock to 5: 30.

4. Wedding Day Process

4. 1. Composition/make-up/make-up/fabrication/reconciliation/configuration/make-up/bed (s)

4. 1. 1.5: 30 to get up.

4. 1.2.7: 00 After the groom finishes his hairstyle, he arrives at the new south gate and waits near the bride's house.

4. 1.3.7: 45 Notify the groom when the bride finishes putting on makeup.

4. 1.4. Red envelopes for makeup artists and hairdressers

4.2. Wedding car

4.2. 1.6: 30 began to float.

4.2.2.7: 00 Take the groom to the new south gate by bus.

Float completion

4.2.4.7: 45 Take the bride back to the new south gate by bus (arrive before 8: 30).

4.2.5.9: 00 All wedding cars arrive at the new south gate.

4.2.6. Driver's red envelope

4.3. Bride snatching

4.3. 1.8: 00 The best man prepares flowers and red envelopes.

4.3.2.8: 30 The bride returns to her family and hides her new shoes.

4.3.3.8: 40 The groom leads his brother to rob people.

4.3.4.8: 45 Knocking at the door, asking questions, stuffing red envelopes and squeezing the door.

4.3.5.8: 55 The groom looks for new shoes and promises the woman's house.

4.3.6.9: 00 Ribbon master in place, balloon in place.

4.3.7.9: 05 When the bride and groom go out, they wear ribbons and step on balloons.

4.3.8.9: 10 motorcade starts.

4.4. Welcome the bride

4.4. 1. 10: 00 The motorcade arrived at the man's house in Chenghua Community.

4.4.2 10: 05 The groom takes the bride into the door, ties the ribbon and steps on the balloon.

4.4.3 10: 10 children rolling bed.

4.4.4 10: 15 bridesmaids prepare tea.

4.4.5. 10: 20 The bride offers tea to the man's parents.

The bride and groom go to the hotel.

4.5. Hotel preparation

4.5. 1 10: 00 Bring sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea and drinks to the hotel.

4.5.2 10: 10 finally check the details such as banquet arrangement, sound system and sign-in desk.

4.5.3 10: 30 Prepare cigarettes, matches and sweets for the bride and groom.

4.5.4 10: 45 Ribbon master at the entrance of the hotel.

4.6. Welcome to the hotel

The bride and groom arrived at the hotel with ribbons.

4.6.2 1 1: 00 Check-in desk personnel are in place.

4.6.3 1 1: 00 Guide personnel to take positions at the door.

4.6.4 1 1: 00 The bride and groom, the best man and the bridesmaid greet the guests at the door.

4.7. Wedding Ceremony

Moderator preparation

4.7.2 12: 15 sound preparation

4.7.3 Preparation of Marriage Certificate and Ring

4.7.4 Balloons and ribbons are in place.

4.7.8 Play music 12: 20. Newcomers enter the stadium, wear ribbons and step on balloons.

Host introduction

Speech by the officiating person

The witness read the marriage certificate.

The couple's parents took the stage.

The bride and groom exchanged rings and bowed three times.

The couple offered tea to their parents.

Parents' representatives from both sides spoke.

Both parents resigned.

The couple opened champagne, cut cakes and drank a toast.

match

4.7.9. 13: 00 The wedding reception officially started.

4.7. 10. 13: 00 The bride and groom leave, break fast, and the bride changes her dress.

4.7.11.13:15 The bride and groom toast table by table.

4.7. 12. 14: 00 At the end of the banquet, guests will take photos with the couple.

4.8. Rest in the afternoon

4.8. 1. 14: 00 guests leave or go to the chess room for entertainment.

The bride and groom eat and rest.

4.8.3. 14: 30 Count the remaining cigarettes, wine, sugar, etc.

4.8.4. 14: 30 to count the number of people eating.

4.9. Main meal

4.9. 1. 17: 00 inform the hotel of the number of people preparing dinner.

4.9.2. 18: 00 invite guests to dinner.

4.9.3.20: 00 Check everything and leave the hotel.

4. 10. Make trouble in the bridal chamber

4.10.1.21:00, the new house began to be disturbed.

The woman hides the marriage certificate

The groom looks for a marriage certificate

Other programs are broadcast for free.

Guests leave.

4. 1 1. Camera photography

4. 1 1. 1. Camera A starts shooting from the bride's makeup.

11.2. Camera B has been photographing the groom since he stole his parents from him.

4. 1 1.3. Camera C shoots the whole wedding.

4. 1 1.4. Shoot in time.

4. 1 1.5. Red envelopes for photographers

5. The wedding project is over

5. 1 23:00, the preparatory group found another place to summarize the project.