I'd like to see it after reading it.

After reading a book, everyone must have a lot of feelings in their hearts, so it is necessary to write a book review carefully. So how should I write my thoughts after reading? The following is the feeling of being willing to read for everyone, for reference only. Let's have a look.

I feel willing to read 1 I was lucky to read the book "Give Up" written by Master Xingyun. The views in this paper are simple and ordinary, but profound and reasonable; The thought is simple and clear, but the artistic conception is deep and secluded; Words are not luxurious, flowing. This paper systematically and comprehensively expounds the experience and reasons from four parts: workplace, daily life, self-cultivation and heart-nourishing. Carefully tasting and attaching it to practice, it can be said that after reading a book, you can know the world, know things, be calm, and achieve what you have done, feel deeply and think deeply for a long time.

What impressed me most in this book for a long time is the philosophy of "practicing both inside and outside" elaborated by Master Xing Yun in Nourishing the Heart. The core essence is: the things in the door are family things, all of which are mine; What is outside the door belongs to someone else. Close the door, open the door, open the door to welcome guests, open the door to teach, open the door to enter the society, the crowd, the world and the future. No matter how many tangible doors, no matter how many ways to open them, it is difficult to become a world without opening the door of the heart.

In my opinion, Master Xing Yun used the word "inside and outside the door" to make a subtle and dialectical organic demonstration of the mentality, principles and desires of being a man. The philosophy and implication of these four words are in the same strain as the "harmonious" society advocated today, and the artistic conception is the same. The world outside the door is wonderful, the temptation outside the door is tempting, and the material and spiritual fields outside the door are also obscure. The key depends on how you look at the world outside the door, how to open this magical heart door and how to choose the pile outside the door. This is the key for the scenery inside and outside the door to be finally presented to material human beings and every individual. Different people face the same door, but what they finally see, get and experience through this door is quite different. Why? In fact, the reason is very simple. In the final analysis, it is highly related to the word "wish" sublimated by Master Xing Yun.

So I can't help thinking, let's be a man, treat our work and career, and strive to become a member of a harmonious society. There is a philosophical perspective of "inside and outside the door" everywhere. If we can recognize the meaning of the word "willing" and treat "inside the door" dialectically and calmly, there is no doubt that we will regain our views in at least several aspects and then change our behavior more or less. With a pair of discerning eyes to see inside and outside the door, our conduct will be aboveboard, and we will not be insatiable and take risks; At work, we will dare to be responsible and do our duty, instead of procrastinating and simply coping; In life, we will be modest and prudent, learn from others, and will not be complacent.

The highest control, artistic conception and values of the concept of "inside and outside the door" set off by the principle of "willing to give up" lie in that she is in the same strain with the overall situation of today's "harmonious" society, and the artistic conception is the same. "Inside and outside the door" shows and refracts an attitude and mentality. If the eyes penetrate the "inside and outside the door", it will naturally breed a heart without desire, love and righteousness. At present, the establishment of a harmonious society needs the active support, participation and practice of every member of society. If each of us treasures, collects and enriches what is inside the door, dialectically absorbs, learns and uses what is outside the door for us, completely abandons the style of doing nothing and hanging high, completely abandons the behavior of harming others and benefiting themselves, and is strict with ourselves, giving to others and giving to others with an inclusive and generous heart. Building a harmonious society is related to the overall situation of the country's long-term stability and sustainable economic and social development, and it is also the key strategic goal of the country at present. As a citizen of China, every individual is closely related to it and sticks to it. If we can learn a little bit about "internal and external" behavior mechanism from the book "Shede" and do more responsibility and efforts for the overall situation of a harmonious society, I think Master Xingyun's ideological brilliance will be more brilliant.

Willing to finish reading 2- agree with you.

The daily article "Shede" points out the maze for our interpersonal communication, and I feel the same way about the content of "restraining emotions". "Emotional instability is like a table with only three legs, but with one leg, insufficient support and poor foundation, of course it is unstable." "The important thing in life is to know how to turn a turn, turn a mystery into enlightenment, turn weakness into strength, turn darkness into light, and turn ignorance into wisdom; Knowing how to transform, life will have a different realm. " In life, in the face of complex things, we must control some personal emotions reasonably and analyze and deal with problems with a rational attitude. It can be seen that it is very important to control emotions and adjust mentality. Life is like a mirror. If you smile at it, it will smile back at you. You cry to it, and it cries to you. Reason makes people mature. Reason is the sail and compass of the voyage of life, just like a beacon in the voyage of life, guiding you in the right direction and writing a life full of laughter. diary

Second, connect with reality.

As a teacher, how to teach and educate people without keeping a good mood? We are dealing with students with feelings and emotions. Unlike other majors, we can't influence students with our own loss, and we can't influence students' outlook on life and world because of our pessimism. Optimists and pessimists have completely different views on the same thing. Pessimists look at half a bottle of wine and say, there is only half a bottle left! Optimists see half a bottle of wine and say, there is still half a bottle to drink! Many people haggle over every ounce and are narrow-minded. As a result, I often feel that others are sorry for myself, so I am wronged and then troubled. In fact, tit-for-tat is often not a good result.

When educating students, you should control your emotions and be a rational person. Life can't be smooth sailing, there will always be thorns and bumps, which will breed troubles. Trouble is a state of mind. If you think it exists, it will torture you. If you think he doesn't exist, he will stay away from you. Billionaire Leslie Cheung may get into trouble and eventually commit suicide. Old people in Xiangxi Town can play chess by the river without any worries. They won't kill themselves. They are immersed in the joy of playing board every day. Worry and happiness are just the difference between thoughts, and all unhappiness is caused by oneself. Nobody can give you a happy mood. If you cling to your troubles, even the best things will become ugly in your eyes. Just like the profession of teachers, it is far worse than other professions in terms of economic income, but we have our advantages. The progress of students, a short message after graduation, is enough to surpass everything.

Tertiary reconstruction

Control your emotions and be a happy person. It is normal to encounter unpleasant things in the course of life. No one will be happy all his life. The important thing is not to let that unpleasant thing dominate our lives, and to adjust our mentality in time in order to get happiness.

1 Find the reason from yourself. The source of trouble is mentality. When you encounter a problem, you should find the root of the problem and find the reason from yourself. We should not vent our problems on others, but keep a correct attitude. True happiness comes from the understanding of pain, because you can't feel happiness without pain. Only by facing it correctly and analyzing it rationally can we affirm it and deny it.

Look before you leap. As a teacher, we must be objective when dealing with students' problems, otherwise our temporary mistakes will affect students' mood and even their study. When you encounter something in the future, you should be able to look at the problem from the other side's standpoint, consider the other side, and then make a decision. Only in this way can you get more comprehensive results, form habits and be a rational person.

Know more about psychology. Nowadays, many parents are busy with their work and neglect the education of their children. Teachers can use psychological knowledge to send warmth to these children who usually lack care. Learning psychology is not only self-regulation, but also a shortcut for students to solve problems.

Control your emotions, face life rationally and believe that life will be better.

I am willing to feel after reading 3. This essay can't be called a feeling after reading. I haven't finished reading the book. I just opened it today. Can't help but want to write something.

I saw "If You Are the One" yesterday, and there was a short paragraph that was very funny. A Shanghai man came to see a female guest. He did his homework and didn't miss any gifts and surprises. The host and guests also cheered for him, but the female guests were moved to tears. "Thank you, but there are also some people around me who are very kind to me. I came to this stage just to see if I could find the feeling of being tempted. Touching is one thing, but ... "Alas, it really hurts.

The male guest dressed her in hello kitty's costume and looked lonely, a little pathetic and a little funny. It is unnatural for a 36-year-old man to dress up as Hello Kitty.

A dramatic scene is about to be staged. Murphy asked the other beauties on the court if there were any lights. A girl with short hair stayed. She said that she was moved by the male guests.

Well, it happens all the time. Women sometimes make a fool of themselves and confuse themselves with all the women who can get love.

The male guest is done. The host asked, "Do you want to hug her?" I've seen n issues. At this time, men are quick to do things well. But he quickly took the microphone. "I want to hug her."

Wow! He also asked to change this hello kitty, bring a cake to the previous one, and then hold hands.

The host asked him if he was afraid that others would say that he loved that just now, and now he is holding this. He is very calm. "I came to this stage to pursue happiness. When happiness knocks at the door, why don't you open it? "

Everyone applauded him, even the woman who rejected him just now raised her hand and applauded. That smile seemed to be pretending.

A sharp turn of the brain. Oh, that's so dramatic. It's unnatural, but there's nothing wrong with it. Does it have to be tragic? Do you have to leave a persistent figure? Do you have to love me or stick to my choice?

If this story is long, such as a secret love for several months, you will confess, be rejected, be sad, adjust, start over and find happiness. If the time sequence is so open, everyone will not be in a daze. The surprise of male guests is too short. They have adjusted before they are sad, and they have found new people before they have adjusted. I beat gongs and drums to pick up the bride before my sadness subsided. But it's good. Who stipulates that it is normal to follow the ghost program?

We often unconsciously set many rules and regulations for ourselves. We can't, shouldn't, can't, can't ... railings surround us in despair. I have no time to think about it. Can I break the rules and accept that I don't think and don't do that? It's like setting a lot of roads and rules for yourself, just thinking about how to get there, and forgetting the destination when you leave. Sometimes, I feel like killing myself and tying myself up with a rope for fear of going out to bite people.

Pull back this book. What I want to say is this book.

I have to admit, I don't like Zhang Defen a little, and I feel a little fake, and I can't make ends meet ... Maybe, the fact is, I'm a little envious and jealous, and I didn't make an appointment for an interview, which aggravated my dissatisfaction. Therefore, find reasons to think that she is superficial, her books are not good-looking, and she has never chewed other people's things. But curious, curious, how did she do it? Why do books sell so well?

Curiosity still prevailed. Although I despised it before, I bought this book now.

The book is really beautiful, with vivid language, clear expression and better editing design. I really like the illustrations inside. It's beautiful. This book adds a lot of color. This is a good book and worth reading.

I have to learn from that male guest. My purpose is reading. Good books are coming, and I am emotionally stubborn and won't let myself read them. Alas! You have to admit your narrowness. Are you stupid? Often so stupid.

I am willing to read it. This is my second book by Master Nebula. I can't put it down after reading the notes on "Willing to Read". I read the first chapter and was deeply moved.

First, agree with the point of view

Physical pain is not bitter. As long as we have patience, we naturally have the strength to bear all the hardships, but we don't feel bitter when we are sick. The power of self-conscious patience can cope with everything. Patience is not cowardice, but in the face of slander and ridicule, you can choose kindness and stubbornness, and have no regrets. The earth of patience is the thickest, so increase patience; Worried weeds grow fastest, so we should cut off our worries.

Second, connect with reality.

Patience makes simple people mature and impulsive people become rational; Patience makes impulsive people concentrate and unsuccessful people think calmly. Patience is a warm poem, patience is a clear spring, patience is a light floating cloud in the blue sky, patience is a beautiful serenade. Patience is sometimes accompanied by a sense of happiness and beauty. Just like an angler sitting by the pool for a long time, he doesn't feel tired, just like Mo Chi painted by Wang Xizhi, just like a Go master. Happiness is only known after suffering, and the rainbow can only be seen after rain. Without failure, there will be no success. Van Gogh couldn't stand secular injustice and self-mutilation, Hemingway couldn't stand the torture of illness and committed suicide, Qu Yuan couldn't stand the pain of the country's destruction and death, and Xiang Yu was ashamed to see his elders in Jiangdong and committed suicide. This is an outbreak after pursuit and patience, a struggle, and it is awe-inspiring. Patience is not just resignation, it is not the same as indecision, and it is not a cunning philistine who obeys the will of others and goes with the flow. Chinese characters vividly interpret the word forbearance, and if there is a sharp knife in your heart, how broad your mind will be. Patience is not cowardice, but when facing the honor and disgrace of life and death, it can send out an unparalleled courage from the heart and stick to your ideals. True patience is due diligence, the overall situation, and the welfare of all.

Third, reconstruction and reflection.

Patience is easier said than done. Seeing clearly and thinking deeply requires foresight. Great ambition, clear goals and indomitable spirit are the driving forces of patience. You can't endure hardships and persevere for a long time just for the sake of fame and fortune. It needs to be broad-minded and tolerant of people, "a hundred rivers are big, and tolerance is big", "a general can race horses on his forehead and a prime minister can punt on his stomach", which is the basis of patience. "A word will make you angry. If something goes against it, you will be anxious." No big deal. It needs dialectical mind, good at reverse thinking, putting yourself in the other's shoes, which is a panacea for patience. If you stand in the other person's position and think about what might happen if you were in the other person's position, the distress in your heart and the anger in your chest will be alleviated. If you only think about your own gains and losses, there is no overall situation in your eyes and no one else in your heart, you will eventually get burned and deserve it.

Patience is not a sign of weakness, there is an essential difference between the two. The weakness is lack of courage in doing things, dare not encounter difficulties, do not actively solve problems, but hesitate to retreat; But the heart has no bottom line, and the hands are powerless. It is common to be bullied. On the other hand, patience is a matter of knowing well and having strong hands. A small concession for a while is for the final big harvest; It is a calm and wise courage. Is tolerance indulgence? Tolerance is a kind of tolerance, that is, the right to allow others to fully enjoy freedom. Even if the exercise of this right violates some of your interests, it should be allowed as long as it does not violate laws, disciplines and moral norms and does not shake your fundamental interests. Indulgence is to let them expand their selfish desires without restraint, even beyond moral norms, laws and disciplines. This is an irresponsible attitude towards others and society, and it is hard to say that it is out of goodwill. The result of tolerance is social harmony, and the result of indulgence is intensification of contradictions, which are not the same. But patience and tolerance can't go beyond principles. If we can't adhere to the principle, we will not solve the problem, but will cause more serious problems.