Traveling abroad, how to get out of the circle of friends on the tall? Envy but not hate?

Like to send friends, like to share beautiful scenery and happiness!

I like making friends and sharing beauty and happiness.

First of all, I can tell you clearly that unless your circle of friends is quite streamlined, or your photos are unlucky, no matter what you travel, whether you are interested or not, there will be people who envy and hate you! This is human nature!

I don't want to say anything more about human nature. I only talk about the reasons and feelings of the circle of friends for reference only.

First, don't have any tall ideas during the trip, just record and share.

If you want to surpass others and show how tall you are, such as how expensive the place you only live is and how good the food is, then you will definitely be hated. Because my core purpose is to show myself, I can't blame others' rebellious psychology.

I send my own circle of friends for two purposes. One is to record your life so that you can have good memories when you are old. Secondly, sharing in good faith, such as sharing feelings, sharing strategies and sharing feelings of different lifestyles. What can be discussed is not comparison, but discussion, resonance, reflection and progress with like-minded friends.

Of course, sometimes it is inevitable to be considered as pretending, but this kind of pretending is not subjective. Or more accurately, even if everyone has vanity, even if there is a little pretence between the lines, it is normal and secondary. As long as the core of your mind is sincerity, then there is no problem!

Second, don't take selfies all by yourself, take more photos of the places you go. Not to mention that all the pictures are from the same angle, all the topics are the same type, and too much discussion just belittles others.

This question is actually similar to the first one. That is to say, the core of being a circle of friends is recording and sincere sharing. If it's all beauty selfies, if it's all template content, and you are still consciously belittling other people's travel methods, then please ask yourself, is your purpose simple?

If the purpose is not simple, the person watching it will naturally not be simple. If your selfie is too beautiful, familiar people will laugh at you. If your tan has little to do with beauty and human nature, it just shows how rich you are, then you will definitely be jealous!

Actually, tourism photography is not about winning or losing with equipment. But to understand, to record and to explore! Everyone has different personalities, tastes and moods. Reality may be disguised, but in the photos, there will be a true attitude towards the world!

You are sincere, and friends naturally look sincere!

Third, you can face up to the negative comments of others, but don't mind too much. Paying too much attention to other people's opinions is the behavior of the weak!

No matter what you do and who you are, your behavior will always be discussed by others. And the better people are, the more they will be pointed at by others.

Nowadays, many people don't send friends. In addition to some people who don't like to make friends, there are quite a few people who are afraid of this and that because of the increasing number. Later, I simply stopped sending it and reprinted it. There was still a lot of nonsense at work. . . Why is this?

When I travel, I just see beautiful scenery. I just feel happy. I just feel it. What happened? Can't you? Friends circle is my territory, right? I didn't eat other people's food for nothing, did I? Then what do I care about friends? Are you happy?

Many chicken soups say that emotional intelligence is high and emotional intelligence is low. In fact, I tell you, in the face of limited life, you can be happy and not waste your life, which is the real emotional intelligence, and the rest is nonsense.

We have made a serious and frank circle of friends. We didn't deliberately surpass others. We have gained respect and sincerity. Then, do our duty, if someone is jealous of your life for no reason, even if you send a few travel maps, he will grin and show an ugly face of human nature. Do you think such people will be your real friends? Do you really need to be so careful in making friends in such a short life?

Self-confidence is based on strong will and ability. If you care too much about others, exercise to improve yourself first. At the same time. If you really want to send it and are afraid of others, send it in groups.

People who know you are worth sharing!

If you send the happiness of your trip to your circle of friends in the form of photos, let your friends feel the beauty of your trip with you. Then it shouldn't arouse the antipathy of friends.

When traveling by motorcycle, I often send my beautiful photos to my circle of friends. It may not be particularly good, but some friends still think it's good after reading it. I think if a real friend really thinks the photos are good, even if I often send them, I won't be disgusted.

My original intention is to let everyone feel happy together by taking pictures of the scenery I saw and felt good. Isn't it a pleasure to convey that kind of happiness?

Watch if you like, don't watch, send if you want, and don't send if you don't want. There are too many things! If you hate others, just delete them. Why are you complaining? What you hate most is these envious, jealous and hateful little people! ! !

Tell me what people will hate and I can give you a reference.

1, swipe the screen, take many photos of a scene and send a bunch.

2, malicious show off, ridicule, someone sends a circle of friends, will say: I am traveling again, so I envy you hard-working people. This statement is true and annoying.

3, @ a bunch of people, others may not want to know.

4, I can't see the reason for shooting, the picture quality is poor, I can't catch the scenery, and I can't find the angle.

So if you send a circle of friends, you can consider choosing meaningful videos and photos with good scenery and good angles. Don't ridicule others maliciously, and don't send too much. It is acceptable to send two or three photos to each scenic spot.

My personal approach is, first of all, the photos are nine pictures with different backgrounds, and the ones with good scenery and high definition should be chosen. Secondly, we should introduce the main contents of the scenic spots, such as where, the main outline, the ticket price, and what others should pay attention to if they want to go … so that others will not only hate you but also thank you, don't you think?

Every trip is to make friends, but not to show off anything. First of all, I want to share what I saw and heard and the scenery along the way.

Second, for the record, every trip will have different feelings. Sometimes, with the passage of time, you have forgotten the travel experience a long time ago, and the records of those friends circle will remind you of the happiness of the journey.

However, I will not send a circle of friends frequently when I am on a business trip, and send a dozen or twenty screens a day. I usually only send a circle of friends two or three times at a time, all of which are carefully selected by myself. To sum up, this is the sense of ritual in travel.

Share with you my tips on making friends ~

I. Frequency issues

Don't send friends too often during the trip. Send three or four articles every day. A whole circle of friends is full of your travel photos. Are you bored?

It is best to send a circle of friends once or twice when traveling. As the saying goes, "things are rare." All right.

Two. Photographic problems

First of all, whether it's four or nine questions, nine will look better.

This painting must be clean and tidy. If it's not to highlight the crowd during the festival, don't send pictures of your head all over.

Close-up photos, panoramic view, rich but not monotonous.

The easiest way to unify the color of a picture is to add the same filter.

It would be better if there is a theme, such as food, literary style, street shooting and so on.

Three. Writing problem

First of all, not too big. Unless you write well, no one will read the full text of your journal.

Simple and clear, just one or two lines.

The content of the text can be what you see, hear and feel, or it can be a simple introduction to this place.

Don't be too serious, just like writing a composition. Talk more, be lively and interesting.

I think it's a kind of sharing to send beautiful scenery to a circle of friends during the trip. Share happiness and beauty. So when sending photos, remember to give priority to the scenery, supplemented by people. Of course, the characters should play a delicate role in the scenery, so that the photos sent out are both beautiful and not annoying. If Jiugongge's personal photos account for more than half, on the one hand, the beauty becomes a photo of ordinary tourists, and it is difficult to become a blockbuster; On the other hand, people feel that the protagonist is narcissistic and disgusted. Everyone is a good friend and everyone knows what he looks like. People want to see the scenery outside, not you. The following is my circle of friends when I traveled to Russia. I wonder if my friends will envy or hate it?

My circle of friends is full of beautiful scenery during my trip, and sometimes I have my own landscape map in it, but what stands out in it is the scenery. My original intention is to tell my friends that it is beautiful and worth visiting, that's all.