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Don’t want a boyfriend when you’re sick

My whole life I long to be collected, carefully placed, and properly preserved to prevent me from being surprised, from suffering, from being homeless, and from having no branches to rely on.

This may be what most women think of, they want to have someone who can know both cold and hot, who can greet them when they are sick, who can take care of them in every possible way, who can share with them when they are happy, and bear with them when they are sad.

Two orioles sing and the green willows sing, but I don’t have a boyfriend yet.

Wan'er has been saying this jingle in my ear. Normally, she is like me, she doesn't take relationships too seriously, thinks I am lucky, and focuses on her own life.

But recently she suddenly fell ill. She had a heart problem and she always felt like she was going to die.

Sometimes Wan'er is very positive, sometimes she is very negative.

Maybe being sick makes people very vulnerable, she kept telling me.

I want a boyfriend...

I often comfort her and say, don’t you still have me?

But I also know in my heart that good friends and boyfriends are different.

She wants a boyfriend whom she can rely on, who can be coquettish, who can be kissed and hugged, who can be lifted up, who can hide in his arms when she is sick and say that she feels so uncomfortable.

She wants a boyfriend who will arrange everything for her, love her and take care of her.

I know that she was thinking of Jiang Huai.

I carefully counted my friends around me to see if there was anyone suitable to introduce me to, but I didn’t find anyone suitable.

Otherwise, let’s try with Jiang Huai again.

It’s impossible.

Wan'er said sadly, I also understand her regret.

Wan'er and Jiang Huai met at a Hanfu event. Wan'er has a special emotion for Hanfu.

She likes Hanfu very much. Most of her clothes are Hanfu. At that event, Wan'er wore a green skirt, but she combed her hair like a Nezha.

She is not as elegant as the Hanfu girl, but she is a little smarter and more cute than anyone else.

So when she accidentally bumped into Jiang Huai, Jiang Huai's heart skipped a beat when he looked at her smiling face.

Jiang Huai came here with the intention of seeing a beautiful woman. In his eyes, Wan'er was that beautiful woman.

Student, can you leave me your contact information? Jiang Huai asked cautiously.

Yes. Wan'er readily took his phone and left her WeChat message.

At that time, she just thought it was fun and it was always good to make more friends.

She is lively and cute, good at chatting and finding topics. Many people chat with her without feeling embarrassed and it is very relaxed.

At that time, the happiest thing for Jiang Huai every day was chatting with Wan'er.

And Wan'er also regarded him as a friend during the chat. They talked about everything, relaxed and casual.

Jiang Huai would ask her out to watch movies, and she would drag me along every time. She said, you are all my good friends, so we should play together.

I couldn't refuse her kindness, and I saw how well Jiang Huai took care of her, letting her go to the right when walking, protecting her in the subway, and buying her favorite snacks...

< p> The feeling of liking is perceptible. He only sees her in his eyes, but I don’t know who Wan’er sees.

I also asked Jiang Huai, do you like her?

He looked me in the eyes and said, yes, I want to be with her.

I also asked Wan'er at that time, but she said that I just regarded him as a friend.

But later, they were still together.

When Wan'er fell ill, Jiang Huai was busy holding her in his arms and doing examinations.

After being hospitalized, he stayed with her every day and took care of her. I left silently and left time for them.

Jiang Huai began to study recipes, letting her eat something different every day, and ensuring her nutrition.

He protected her very well, and Wan'er was moved by him.

They are together.

After being together, Jiang Huai was like a model boyfriend.

He rented a house outside and learned to make soup every day, just because Wan'er was weak.

He would set the alarm clock when Wan'er had classes, call her to wake up, and then go to her dormitory door to deliver breakfast and send her to class.

He would also make soup while Wan'er was in class and pick her up to drink after class.

When the two of them were free on weekends, he would take Wan'er out for a walk. In the winter, he would wrap Wan'er like a polar bear to prevent her from getting cold.

He will create surprises and romance for Wan'er from time to time, and he will also clear the shopping cart for Wan'er.

At that time, Wan'er was also spoiled like a child by him, and I was far away from their lives at that time.

When Wan'er came to see me again, she said that they had broken up.

I was surprised and quickly asked what was wrong.

Wan'er hesitated and said that he felt Jiang Huai was not the person she liked.

I suddenly understood that Jiang Huai is very good, but he is not handsome. A lovely girl like Wan'er has many suitors around her.

And Wan'er is also a face-controller. When she was with Jiang Huai, she was at her most vulnerable. When she was sick, she really wanted a boyfriend and someone to talk to. She wanted someone to take care of her, and Jiang Huai was that person at that time!

Wan'er later got together with a handsome boy. Jiang Huai didn't bother her, but he would always ask me if she was doing well, and would also let me secretly give her things.

After the breakup, he was still very kind to her.

Wan'er and that person soon broke up. She was so doted on by him and that person didn't have to do anything with her, so naturally he didn't want to coax her.

Even so, Jiang Huai never thought about being with her again. He said that she should not miss the past.

Now she is sick again, but there is no Jiang Huai who took good care of her, no Jiang Huai who held her in his arms and told her that he was there.

Finally, I told Wan'er not to look for a boyfriend when you are sick. Relationships are about daily interactions and feelings. Relationships are also equal. You must follow your inner choice.

When you are sick, you are very fragile and want a boyfriend. But please also confirm your own heart and follow your inner choice.

Love is the collision of two hearts, the heartbeat of two people.

I hope you can find someone you like, who will take good care of you when you are sick, and will walk through ordinary life with you.