Bread or dream?

at first glance, I believe that many people will read this topic as "bread or love"? Did you get shot? Let's talk about the relationship between bread and love first. In our idea, the two are often fish and bear's paw, and you can't have both. There are too many examples to support this view.

what about the relationship between bread and dreams? Have you seriously considered it? Is it the same as the relationship between bread and love, you can't have both?

The dreams mentioned here refer to some ideals that are beyond reality or not in line with reality. For example, a student majoring in architecture wants to be a famous painter after graduation, a stay-at-home mother wants to shine on the stage and become a big star envied by everyone, or a company employee who has been working steadily dreams of going to the African prairie to take photos of lions ... These can all be called dreams.

Bread refers to reality, which can provide us with some basic conditions for normal life and survival, and also refers to the dull and boring days we live every day. Since dreams are beyond reality and inconsistent with reality, bread and dreams are opposites, and they are two inseparable elements.

is there a way to have both? Realize your dream on the basis of owning bread?

Recently, a new term called "slash youth" appeared. It means that young people no longer meet the lifestyle of "single occupation", but choose a diversified life with multiple occupations and identities. These people will use slashes to distinguish themselves when introducing themselves, for example, Juck Zhang, professional manager/photographer/bartender.

On the basis of having a stable job, I will develop my dreams and hobbies in my spare time. Take other people's time to play drama, play mahjong, drink and chat and do what you really want to do. Maybe your dream will really come true one day.

I often hear examples of people's dreams coming true. So-and-so earned more than 1, yuan a month by writing, and so-and-so became a successful e-commerce company from a kindergarten teacher, earning a lot of money.

but I don't advocate that everyone should blindly fulfill their dreams regardless of reality when conditions are not mature. For example, I quit my job and write full-time at home, or I want to be a painter and hold a solo exhibition without financial resources.

Because dreams can't be realized in a short time after all, during this period, you should work hard, and you must never realize your dreams as a shield to escape from a certain checkpoint in life, let alone evade your responsibilities in life under the guise of realizing your dreams.

To realize your dreams is to advocate that everyone should have a positive attitude towards life and work and live harder. If you don't work hard in your real life, your dream will only become an empty castle in the distance.

Wu Danru, a well-known writer in Taiwan Province, is a well-known radio host and a university lecturer. Someone asked her, "Why do you have to work hard and do so many things when your income is already high just by writing?"? Wu Danru said, "I have always had a job that can pay for my living for so many years. Only by making a living by writing can I speak freely and write my true voice without wagging my tail to please anyone.".

I believe that such a writer can not only do his job well, but also write good articles, thus realizing his dream of writing. She set a good example for us to have both bread and dreams.

Of course, if you are very firm in your dream, and have made some efforts for it, or your dream is in sight, it is ok to quit your job and go all out. Then take enough bread and get ready to go. I hope you won't starve to death before your dream comes true, or it will be too late to regret it!

Want bread or dream is not a choice, you can have both. It depends on whether you work hard enough and are somewhat persistent in your dreams. Life is more meaningful if you devote some energy to your dreams without interfering with real life.

Life is not just the present, but also poetry and distance. I hope everyone can live a good real life and reach the land with poems and distant dreams!