Douban score 9. 1. If only one Korean drama can be promoted in 20 17 years, do you know which one?

Today, I recommend a Korean drama "The First Time in My Life". At present, the score of douban is 9. 1. There is no chicken soup, no dog blood, no rich second generation and no Cinderella in this play. On the contrary, it truly depicts the choices and puzzles that young people in their twenties and thirties encounter in the workplace, love and life.

IT men who can only afford a house, a cat and themselves, and think that marriage is unnecessary;

A master's degree from Seoul National University, but chose the screenwriter industry, but finally worked as a screenwriter assistant for 5 years;

Beautiful figure is great, but you should try to find a beauty agent who finds sexism everywhere in the workplace;

There is also a restaurant waiter who wants to get married after seven years of love, only to find that her boyfriend has no such idea at all. ......

Nancy is an IT person with no standard deviation. At the age of 30, he is the chief technology officer of an Internet company's "Love Not Married" APP. With a high monthly salary, he should live well. But his monthly salary has been paid off, and there is little mortgage left.

The big houses in "Heirs" and "You from the Stars" are not real Korea, and real ordinary Koreans simply can't afford such a house.

In Korea, the income of an ordinary working family (when both husband and wife have jobs) is1-20,000 yuan. But the price in South Korea is about 4-5 times that in big cities in China. Pork costs 50 yuan/kg, stew costs 200-300 yuan at a time, and beef costs about 100-200 yuan/kg.

The income level is similar to that of domestic big cities, and the price level is almost 4-5 times that of domestic big cities, which shows the hardships of life.

So we often see that in many Korean dramas, eating barbecue is a particularly exciting thing, because we really can't afford it at ordinary times. miscellaneous sauce noodles and spicy cabbage are standard items in our daily diet.

When it comes to housing prices, don't think that China's housing prices are against the sky, and Korean housing prices are not low.

The house price in Seoul, South Korea is about 5 million won per square meter, equivalent to 30,000 RMB, equivalent to 50-70% of the depth in the north. It is enough to buy a house of 100 square meter, about 3 million RMB. A particularly good location can be sold for about 40 thousand RMB.

So Koreans complain bitterly that they can't afford to buy a house, get married or have children.

In order to repay the mortgage, Nan had to find a roommate to subsidize her family. In order to find a suitable roommate, Nancy drew up a roommate evaluation system, and set scores and weights according to the standards he thought were important. Only roommates who meet the grade standard can move in.

For Nancy, marriage is an unnecessary burden. "House, cat and me" are three things he can afford, so he specially prepared a ventilated room for him on his deathbed.

What he needs more than a good woman is a good roommate who can pay the rent regularly every month.

There is only a house, a cat and myself in my life.

These three things are affordable to me.

Money and energy are beyond this level.

No need to pay.

Why do people choose to marry?

Sociologist gary becker said.

Only when the expected income of two people is greater than that of single people.

People choose to get married.

The so-called marriage is just a matter of interest and interest satisfaction.

Now many friends around us don't want to get married. Although marriage is regarded by parents as a necessary process in life, in our view, the benefits of marriage are gradually disappearing.

If getting married only means doing more housework, washing clothes and socks for another person, if getting married is not as good as living alone, then why get married?

The reason why we live so hard.

Maybe not for a better tomorrow.

But to avoid a worse tomorrow.

Yin Zhihao is a schoolmaster who graduated from Seoul National University. He has a younger brother who closes his eyes and wishes to blow out the candles on his birthday, and a father who does everything according to his own wishes. His mother is a traditional housewife with no financial resources and no right to speak.

Yin Zhihao wanted to be a screenwriter since she was a child, so with her efforts, she finally became one percent of South Korea's ace screenwriter ... assistant. For five years, she has been working as an assistant with a screenwriter, while the director who has been having an affair with herself for three years is actually dating a female star. Finally, she had a rest and went home only to find that she had no place of her own. No one has seen the works she participated in at the class reunion.

A total loser.

Twenty years old,

Efforts are needed.

Every time I feel tired, I will cross the Hanjiang Bridge.

Look at Hanjiang river

Thinking of such a big Seoul

There should be a place that needs me.

In 10 year,

You will also have a lot of ups and downs.

When I first came, I sparkled.

Why do you live so hard?

In the end, obviously nothing was done, and he went back.

This place has no place for me.

Maybe you have come to a strange city, just to return to your hometown in disgrace, lose your dreams and stubbornness, and become a greasy middle-aged man. Family and friends say you are mature, but only you know that you have compromised.

Screenwriting sounds like a cool career, but in fact, in South Korea, if you choose the screenwriting industry, you must be psychologically prepared. Even if you work hard, you may not survive.

Wen En 'ai, the chief screenwriter of the Korean variety show Extreme Challenge, said in an interview that a good screenwriter must not only study in the school system, but also shoot the experience of learning failure on the spot. "It will take about twenty years to train five screenwriters, which is an arduous task."

Yin Zhihao worked hard and always wanted to make his own works independently. Finally, one of his plays with the theme of Youth College was selected by the director, only to be found at the meeting. The director called in the ace screenwriter who had followed him for five years, and as a result, his script was changed beyond recognition. ......

What is even more infuriating is that when he was almost violated by a drunken director, a team's screenwriter and general director advised Yin Zhihao to forgive each other for the sake of team harmony. Why should I forgive him? If I really care, I should ask if there is anything wrong, not that you should forgive him. Don't I have the right not to forgive? "

The general director said, "If you insist on this, you know what the consequences will be. In this line of work, you must never want to get along! "

So Yin Zhihao left the dinner. Yes, she gave up and decided to give up her dream that she had been insisting on for many years. Walking in the tunnel, she said to herself, "Although I know that choosing a dream means going through a dark tunnel alone, I didn't expect it to be so dark."

30 years old, if you don't have a boyfriend, at least your career should be very successful. If you don't get along well, at least someone should accompany you.

But these are luxuries for Yin Zhihao, a 30-year-old singleton.

We live such a hard life.

Maybe it's not because I want a better tomorrow

But to avoid the worst tomorrow.

Do you know how difficult it is for women to survive in big enterprises?

Yu Xiuzhi is a working woman, beautiful, with good figure and strong working ability. Needless to say, do you think that such a person's life is simply a plug-in? That's because you don't understand the embarrassing position of women in the workplace.

In the workplace, if a male leader is decisive, subordinates will think that he is very courageous, while if a female leader is bold, people will think that she is aggressive and too strong.

If a woman yawns at work and looks awake, people around her will think, "She must have gone out to play too late yesterday." If the yawning person is a man, he will feel that "he should work overtime too late."

If a man neglects his family because of his work, everyone will think that a man should work hard for his career, while if a woman neglects her family because of her work, everyone will think that she is unforgivable.

I remember seeing a great leader in Zhihu who refused to give his employees a raise because "you have a husband to support anyway". Excuse me. What is the relationship between salary increase and husband's salary increase? Isn't the salary increase just because employees perform well and work well?

Yu Xiuzhi is an agent of the company, but she is often teased by her male colleagues. On one occasion, he stayed in the company because of overtime. Another male colleague had to work overtime, but said he had to leave first. The reason is that "married men had better not stay in the company alone with unmarried female colleagues to work overtime, otherwise others will misunderstand and have a bad influence".

When I have dinner with my male colleagues, I am always joked, "why don't you add my friends?" Are you worried that I will see intimate photos with my boyfriend? " Even if I add my friends, I will say, "Don't secretly delete the bikini photos taken in the hotel."

Of course, you can choose to stand up and pour the wine in the cup on your male colleague's face to get rid of it, but after that? Just to be talked about by the rest of the company.

You know, although China society seems to be equal to men and women, there is always a kind of discrimination that still hinders women's independence and growth.

For example, when applying for a job, women of childbearing age should ask about their emotional status and birth plan. Do you have a boyfriend? When are you going to get married? Because once a woman is pregnant, the company will give her a series of holidays.

If a woman wants to be as successful as a man in the workplace, it means that she has to work harder than a man.

Love for seven years

My boyfriend thinks all I want is a sofa?

Yang Haolang is a waiter in a restaurant and has a boyfriend of seven years.

My boyfriend is high flyers, who graduated from a famous university and has been starting a business, but they can only live in a rooftop room of less than 20 square meters because they have not found a suitable investor.

Lovers who have been in love for seven years may all face such a situation. Besides, they may get married. If you can't get married, you can only break up.

However, even if the woman is eager to get married, she can't put down her face to propose. This is Yang Haolang's last self-esteem as a woman.

She has always liked the pink sofa in the shop. She thought that after she got married and moved to a big house, she put this sofa in the living room. However, only the last one was left, but it was bought by a colleague who was about to get married.

Sad, she went back to her apartment and hinted to her boyfriend that her favorite sofa was bought by her soon-to-be-married colleague. She thought that her boyfriend understood what she said, so she waited for the proposal with joy.

As a result, when I entered the room, the so-called surprise was not a ring, but a huge sofa filled the room.

After seven years of love, isn't it natural to get married? Perhaps the most hurtful thing is when you are sure that you will get married and have children in the future, but the other person is still holding uncertain ideas.

For Yang Haolang, she has no ambition. What she likes is to marry the man she likes, and then take living with her family and children as her career.

Is it more difficult to choose, so I regret it every time I make a choice, or is it more difficult to have no choice, so I can only go on without distractions?

This is a story about a man who was born in 1988 and is now in his thirties. They were born in the most glorious period of Korea and witnessed the collapse of the country. Getting married and falling in love is not a matter of course for them, and even ordinary things like romance have become expenses and energy.

20 17 if only one Korean drama can be promoted, it is this one.