175 teachers and couples celebrate the 50th anniversary of their golden wedding.

All happy marriages have secrets, but we are young and don't know how couples get along. Let's take a look at the golden wedding secrets of the old couple.

The biggest happy event is the birthday of 100, and the most grand wedding is the golden wedding of 50 years. On the occasion of the centenary of Fudan University, 175 an old couple, arm in arm, dressed in gorgeous Tang costumes, set foot on the bright red carpet to celebrate their 50-year golden wedding.

Get married when the bed is made.

In order to prepare for this big wedding that can be recorded in the Guinness Book of Records, the retirement club of Fudan University has been busy for half a year. Half a year ago, according to the statistics of the Retirement Council, among the more than 3 100 faculty members of Fudan University, there were actually 287 pairs who met the golden age of marriage, of which the oldest was 94 years old and the youngest was 68 years old, and many of them reached the age of diamond marriage!

"These people who are considered to be golden marriages lived a very difficult life more than 50 years ago. Many like-minded couples just went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register and get their certificates. Even if two beds are put together, they are married. There is no wedding reception, not even a decent wedding photo. However, in the past 50 years, they have cultivated many pillars of the country in Fudan, devoted a lot of effort and sweat to their posts, and made many contributions to the country and the school. Our activities are not only an affirmation and appreciation of the life path of old comrades, but also a good example for young people to grow old together, adding joy to Fudan's centenary celebration. " Jin, the retired deputy director, was also tight-lipped when talking about the significance of this activity.

Eight photos of traveling around Shanghai.

Since many couples have not caught up with the good times when they were young, it is time for them to have another decent wedding. Don't take wedding photos when you get married, take happy photos when you get married.

What can you wear to look fashionable? Tang suit! 75 pairs can make 350 sets of Tang suits! Since the end of last year, teachers in charge of evacuation in Fudan have been busy wearing Tang costumes, going door to door to learn about the situation, measuring the size, and inviting old comrades to try on clothes at the evacuation meeting. Finally, they finished the work this month.

The next step is to take pictures of a couple separately. This important task is only undertaken by Yang Guangliang, a full-time photographer of Fudan University. During the three-day shooting, all the touching stories were met by Yang Guangliang alone. Many old professors are sick and rely on their families to push wheelchairs. Because the photo activity center for the elderly is on the second floor and there is no elevator, the dropouts simply take them upstairs in wheelchairs. Professor Cao Suhua from the School of Public Health received chemotherapy regularly, but her hair was gone, but she insisted on taking pictures. Yang Guangliang used his quick wits and gave her a wig to make up for her shortcomings.

In order to take a beautiful photo of the couple who came to school on 16 1, Yang Guangliang knelt on one leg for thousands of times, and it took five minutes for each photo to take the best photo. Except for some professors who don't have time to take golden wedding photos abroad or other places, only eight couples can't take pictures because they are sick in bed all the year round.

"No, this opportunity comes once in a lifetime. Be sure to make up. " Yang Guangliang wanted to think. I left Fudan at 9: 00 this Tuesday morning and went to Pudong, Meilong, Guangyue Road and Liangcheng. Only the first three companies ran down and spent more than 240 yuan on taxi fare. Whenever an old teacher comes to his home, Yang Guangliang, who is nearly 50 years old, is like his own son. He lifted the old people out of bed, wiped their faces, and let their parents sit on the bed and take pictures on the spot.

After returning to Fudan at 6 pm, he counted his fingers and crossed seven districts. But he said, "Not tired, not tired. Those old couples have paid so much for education in the past, which is more difficult than me. "

International students hold the belief of returning to China.

Speaking of the professionalism of the old professors, it is really "tireless". Professor Wang Xi from the History Department is 85 years old this year. 1999 After stroke and hemiplegia, his right side lost mobility. But from 1999, he still kept on studying. He writes one or two books a year, but his right hand can't write them. He actually typed with his left hand.

Although Wang Lao is knowledgeable, he is also very humorous. When the reporter came to his home, he was trying on a Tang suit with his wife Dong Youxian, the same age. When the reporter came, Dong Lao took out the "June 7th" old photos of Zhang Zhengui when they got married in March 1947. "At that time, it was also very difficult in the United States. This photo was taken with some China classmates and American professors at the school youth activity center. If there is no wedding reception, take a photo and the priest holds a ceremony, even if you are married. "

"Teacher Wang is so handsome!" The reporter said. Unexpectedly, Wang Lao was unambiguous: "Of course, if I wasn't handsome, she wouldn't have followed me that year. According to the words of young people now, he is a handsome guy with a sister. "

Wang Youshi studied in Fudan High School, and later moved several times. He came to study in Sichuan University in the late 1930s, when he met his classmate Dong Youxian. From 65438 to 0944, Wang Xi went to the famous Wharton Business School in the United States to study, and Dong Youxian went to Philadelphia to study the following year. Shortly after their graduation and marriage, as one of the founders of China Democratic National Construction Association, Dong Youxian heard the call of the motherland. Wang Xi said that most of the more than 300 China students admitted to American universities at their own expense hold the belief of returning to China. "Unlike today's young people, when studying abroad, they often want to settle abroad and live a comfortable life. If we had stayed in the United States, we could have lived a good life, but the motherland is about to be liberated and we must go back to China to do something. "

The mutual care between the two old people is also meticulous. It is inconvenient for Mr. Wang to write books, and his wife often helps him dictate. Mr Wang Can can't operate the mouse with his left hand, but his wife carefully helped him set the mouse buttons on the computer and changed the positions of the left and right mouse buttons. Speaking of today's golden wedding ceremony, Mr. Dong was also happy from ear to ear: "This is beyond my dreams. After so many hardships, I finally relived the sweetest moment. Thank you so much for the school! "

Fifty years of vicissitudes make a book.

At the wedding, another couple stood out. They are Yuan and Wang Aizhu from the Department of Economics of Fudan University. Yuan Lao's life experience is quite legendary. He is the great-grandson of Yuan Shikai. After liberation, the first sociology department, the first sociology research institute and the first sociology magazine all came from Yuan.

Speaking of their stories, Wang Aizhu summed up their 50-year combination as "five similarities": one and two belong to the same sheep; 2. Classmate, a classmate of the Economics Department of Fudan University; Third, the same teaching, 1953 after graduation, all stay in school to teach; Fourth, in the same research, after retiring in the 1990s, two professors who enjoyed special government allowance from the State Council actually found the same language, namely gerontology; They hold the same position. At present, he is the director of the Institute of Sociology of Ageing and the director of the Institute of Economics of Ageing.

They taught in Fudan for 50 years and got married for 50 years. Together, they went on stage to launch a new book, Love Together, to commemorate their 50-year teaching career and their golden wedding anniversary. Looking back on the vicissitudes of 50 years, everything is hard to come by: 1955 When they built their love nest, there was no wedding banquet, only a simple dinner, and even the room was borrowed from school. The two mothers each gave a forged quilt, a bed in the room and a set of tableware, which was all they had. "The way I got married is in stark contrast to today's grand celebration. The social economy is developing, Fudan is advancing, and the life of retirees is getting better and better. "

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"Five Essentials" of Old Age Life

Born in the early 1930s, Wang Yuan and his wife are still full of energy and have no "senile diseases". Since I caught up with my parents' golden wedding and am an expert in gerontology, it is natural to ask them for the prescription of the elderly. They suggested that the elderly should achieve the "Five Essentials".

First, take health as the center. Everyone wants to live a long life, and now human life is really much longer than in the past. In the 20th century, human life expectancy was 30 years longer than in the past, but what we want is health and longevity. If you are unhealthy, you will often feel pain, and you can't even move on the bed. Here it is.

Second, be confused and be smart. Be generous to your wife, children or friends, and don't haggle over every ounce. Aside from right and wrong, housework is better than confusion. In the past, our generation was simple in food, clothing, housing and transportation. Now that the conditions are good, it is better to eat nutritious food, wear beautiful clothes and use comfortable ones.

Third, forget your age, illness and troubles. Forget your age, don't always think that you can't do anything when you are old, but always keep a young heart. Of course, forgetting illness does not mean not watching. See early and treat early if you are sick. But don't think about it all day, be morbid, exercise actively, balance your diet and adjust your mentality. Forget your troubles, just don't be sad all day.

Fourth, there must be an "old nest." It is best for the elderly to have their own home, which can be separated or combined with their children. As the saying goes, a nest of gold and silver is not as good as a nest of grass. Most of the old people of our generation have pensions and a secure life. It is not necessarily a good thing that someone gives money to children and they want it when they use it. My wife, the old people who attended the golden wedding ceremony today, are all very happy. If you have a wife, you should cherish your wife. A group of old friends, the elderly should make more friends and get rid of loneliness and loneliness.

Study, laugh, dance, scream and be beautiful. Learning is learning from old age, which can not only learn new knowledge, but also cultivate sentiment; It can also effectively prevent brain decline. Old people should continue to socialize. They should not rely on their old age to sell their old age. They should live, learn and reform until they are old. Laughter is laughter, ten years younger. Dancing, fitness, walking, playing Tai Ji Chuan and dancing are all good. Call, don't take it to heart, tell relatives and friends. Joe, being old and handsome is good for your health.

A happy marriage starts from scratch. We should tolerate and understand each other, so that we can have better love.