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When in a long-distance relationship, my girlfriend likes to "sway". Should I care?

I think it should be managed. The following is a real case:

Emotional problems: We have a good relationship. After the Spring Festival, we practiced in different places. She is in Wuhan and I am in Yichang. Now, we meet once a month and she will come back in July to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination. She likes to shake, saying that she wants to observe human nature, only flirting with others, not getting stuck. I know this, and she will tell me on her own initiative. But I am afraid that she will meet an experienced lover and cheat her. Now she even encourages me to take this matter to the forum, or seek the help of the emotional organization.

Before answering this question, let me tell you something about myself. My girlfriend likes going to bars very much, usually at 2 or 3 o'clock. Although she often asks me to go with her, it's meaningless to just drink and chat. Finally, it developed into a quarrel and almost broke up. Of course, we finally reached a compromise. She can go, but she must go home before 12. As a life partner, you need to correct her misconduct, which will help her correct her wrong cognition. Righteousness told her verbally that "dear" can only be used on her husband or girlfriend, and it can't be misused and easily misunderstood. Love is selfish and a sacred and inviolable sovereignty of men. Trembling makes me very unsafe. Although I hope you find true love, don't let me know, okay?

I don't recommend this so-called "observation of human nature", even if it is a boring prank. Academic research can explore Zhihu deeply, do more research on psychological and behavioral decision-making, or have a little elegant interest in watching movies, soap operas, flower arranging, photography and food. So many fields, why not try? When "only flirting with others", will others flirt with you? This is just typical flirting. People who respect others always respect others and often walk by the river. It's good to have confidence, but it's too bad to stand on their sister's side: behind the surface trembling is deep loneliness. It is painful to shake. ! Therefore, we must protest seriously, reaffirm sovereignty and territorial integrity, and do not rule out the use of force against foreign enemies. The above is just a personal opinion.