Why do my friends around me succeed in starting a business and I fail?

Last night, I had a video chat with a friend of mine who grew up together. He just got married last month. At the end of last year, their family also bought a suite in a nearby county. He also opened a hair salon nearby. Half a year later, the former 3-square-meter hair salon has been expanded to 6 square meters and renovated. Now he runs it with his wife, and he can earn 1, yuan a month.

Let's call this friend Brother Xun. There is a custom in our hometown to worship michel platini's dopted mother. His parents were michel platini's dopted mother when I was 7 years old. Later, when I was studying, we were both together until I dropped out of school. Brother Xun also went out to work after graduating from high school. He had an uncle who was a lawyer in Beijing, so his father sent him to Beijing to study hairdressing. At that time, we contacted each other from time to time. He was also an introverted person. He often complains that he is too shy to speak when he sees female customers, and he is often scolded by his master, but he still insists. Last year, he called and said that he would attend a hairdressing course in Sassoon, Shenzhen, which cost more than 2, yuan in three days. Of course, he certainly didn't pay for it himself. His uncle paid for his study. The second month after he came back from school, it was the end of last year. I heard that he opened a shop in his hometown. At first, he didn't make any money, but he was able to break even. Now it is another scene for half a year.

Another friend of mine met at XX bridal shop, because the boss was his brother-in-law, and he had a little share in the store. He didn't know anything about business management at that time. He was just a film repairer, and his brother-in-law didn't take him to study in a small room every day. We often talked, and he was very angry. His brother-in-law didn't take him out to study marketing management or teach him, and later he did. In 14 years, I opened a shop nearby. The owner of a nearby children's photography shop approached me and told me that he didn't want to do it and asked me to buy him. I refused at that time, saying that I just started this shop now and didn't have the heart to manage another shop, so I introduced my friend to him. They talked for three days, and my friend decided to accept it. There was no transfer fee. At that time, my friend was not very good at taking pictures. He used the week arranged by the store to go to other people's children's photography shop to learn the scenery.

Another friend is also a post-design film repairer. Let's call him A Hao. He used to be a colleague. Later, he published his work on poco photography network and was recommended to the home page. After that, many people asked him to repair the film. So he resigned and rented a house himself, and helped others to repair the film at home. The charge was half as expensive as the market, because his quality was not bad, and he could not do it alone, 7-7 a month. So he began to accept apprentices, while doing training and repairing films, and his disciples could also help to repair films. Of course, he also repaired the photos in my shop before, and the monthly profit began to exceed 1,. So after a year, he began to rent a formal office, recruited two employees to help him repair films, and began to do training himself. Now he has more than 3 people in a training session, with a tuition fee of about 5, each, and his business is booming.

Of course, I am jealous when I see my friends' success, and I am unwilling. Why did they all succeed? From last night to this morning, I took a deep look at myself and found several important key points:

All the above are real events. Although they are all small successes, I believe that they will get bigger and bigger if they persist. I also believe that I can restore my energy as soon as possible and prepare for the next venture.