A girl who knows how to be grateful will live a happy life as expected by her parents.

With the increasing popularity of various electronic products, mobile phones, tablet computers, etc. all have the function of photography, and "photography" has increasingly become an indispensable part of people's lives. Adults' thinking and practices will affect children. Many children will become electronic dolls, too obsessed with all kinds of mobile phone programs, selfies and other behaviors, which make parents very worried, especially girls love beauty and like to share. What can we do?

First of all, parents should realize that "photography" has two sides. In fact, we can't resist photography products such as cameras and mobile phones too much, let alone put an end to girls' use. On the contrary, we should teach girls to use it hand in hand, teach them how to use photographic equipment scientifically, shoot meaningful things, and keep every bit of life, so that photography can become a tool of memory and an important way to enhance observation.

Xiaoqing is a good example. Xiaoqing is a boarding student in the second day of junior high school this year. In order to facilitate communication, she was given a smart phone at home.

A few months later, Xiaoqing's mother learned from Xiaoqing's cousin who was studying in college that Xiaoqing was playing Weibo, and uploaded different photos from time to time. Mom is worried that Xiaoqing doesn't study hard, so she will confiscate Xiaoqing's mobile phone. Xiaoqing doesn't think about tea and rice, and she is unhappy.

after a few days, my cousin came home from vacation and learned that Xiaoqing's mobile phone was confiscated, so she took the initiative to talk to her aunt, Xiaoqing's mother. Cousin opens Xiaoqing Weibo's homepage, which is full of some lovely flowers and plants. Some of them are taken by Xiaoqing in a small corner unknown to the school after class, while others are specially downloaded when she sees them online, and then uploaded to her Weibo. Xiaoqing's mother saw her daughter's mood for the first time through the words written by Xiaoqing Weibo. It turns out that Xiaoqing really likes shooting and nature, not for fun. She said: "I yearn for a walk in nature, and I don't want to be stuck at school and home all day. She wants to kiss flowers and plants, breathe the most natural air, and photograph all the things she likes and beautiful things ..."

Xiaoqing's mother understood that taking pictures and playing Weibo is not necessarily a joke, but to photograph what she wants and what she feels beautiful and longing for, and share it with others. So my mother discussed with my father, took Xiaoqing to the suburbs to play during the holidays, bought a SLR camera for Xiaoqing and signed up for a professional photography class.

Xiaoqing's mother said, "Since her daughter took a photography class, she has become much more lively and cheerful. Once the teacher took them out to take photos, and on the way, my daughter called me to share some interesting things about her photography. On the phone, I felt that she was very happy. At the same time, I am also very happy. My daughter has always been the protagonist under my camera, and I don't want to help her record every bit of her life all the time. Under my arrangement, she completed a lifeless portrait. In fact, my purpose is very simple, that is, to make her happy, but I don't know that she just makes me feel happy, and she doesn't. Now she has the opportunity to make others the protagonist of her camera, which makes her very happy. "

Indeed, the purpose of letting girls receive photography education is not to teach girls to learn photography, to take good photos and get rewards, but to let girls gain spiritual gains in the process of photography. Therefore, if there is an opportunity at ordinary times, girls must be allowed to participate in more photography activities organized by schools or communities, so that girls can improve their ideological and moral character in a series of photography processes and cultivate girls to form a good habit, including behavior and study habits.

The process of girls learning photography is a process from quantitative change to qualitative change. In this process, girls are infected, edified and educated, and their ability to distinguish right from wrong and appreciate is cultivated. No matter what the theme of photography activities, we can integrate into the education of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor, and guide girls to shoot pictures and characters that best reflect the theme, so that girls can improve their thinking and ability in the process of discovering beauty and creating.

Moreover, photography itself is a process of discovering and creating beauty, and girls can cultivate their aesthetic ability well in this process. Photography requires higher requirements, and it needs to be observed and discovered from different angles. Moreover, it can make girls integrate into nature, discover the beauty of nature, and further stimulate their interests and hobbies.

Teaching girls the experience

(1) To let girls learn photography, the first thing to do is to teach them to use cameras.

(2) Guide girls to learn to observe from different angles. At the beginning, the same thing was assigned to train girls to learn to shoot from multiple angles.

(3) To keep the picture balanced, parents or instructors should intentionally train girls in this area.

(4) Teach girls to use hand-held cameras, which will improve their photography skills faster.

(5) Think about the theme before shooting, so that girls can have a clear goal and not be too confused. In addition, let girls integrate their imagination into their works.

goddaughter story

King Henon wanted to make a pure gold crown. After he finished it, he was worried that the crown was not pure gold, but the weight of the crown was the same as that given to the goldsmith at the beginning. So how do you know if there is something fishy about it? The king wanted to test the authenticity, but he didn't want to destroy the crown, which really stumped himself and his ministers. Later, the king invited Archimedes and asked him to check the results within the specified time. Archimedes tried many ways, but it didn't work. As the time limit was approaching, he was even more anxious. One day, he was taking a bath. When he sat in the bathtub, he saw that the water was constantly overflowing. He immediately understood, jumped out of the bathtub, ran to the palace in rags, and shouted, "I know." His idea is: if you put the crown in water, the amount of water discharged is different from that of gold with the same weight, then this crown is definitely not pure gold. This is the law of buoyancy, also known as archimedes principle, that is, an object immersed in a liquid is subjected to upward buoyancy, and the buoyancy is equal to the gravity of the object when it displaces the liquid.

"Gratitude" is our national virtue in a broad sense, and in terms of personal development, it makes us love and have positive motivation. Knowing how to be grateful can make our life better, broaden our minds, avoid complaining about dissatisfaction, and know how to be happy for small things. Therefore, educating girls to be grateful from an early age can not only improve girls' self-centered bad habits, but also make them always have a grateful heart and always think about others, which will benefit girls a lot.

There was a little girl named Yaqi. She was terminally ill, but her story made the audience cry.

Yaqi is very sensible and considerate of her parents since she was a child. At a very young age, she often helps her parents to do simple housework, wash their feet and wash clothes for them, so that they can relax after work. She always tries her best to repay and thank her parents.

It is a pity that Yaqi was diagnosed with cancer in a physical examination.

during the hospitalization, the little girl was not pessimistic and decadent because of her terminal illness, but became more considerate and clever. She often kisses mom and dad on the cheek to comfort them, and always advises her parents to sleep more at night instead of watching her all the time. Mom and dad always cry silently when they see such a clever and sensible daughter.

With the passage of time, many people have extended a helping hand to Yaqi. Doctors and nurses in the hospital also donated money and things to her for better treatment. Yaqi is very touched by all this. She often says to her mother, how can we repay so many people who have helped us in the future? The doctors present were really shocked and moved after hearing Yaqi's words. A 7-year-old girl could be so grateful and treat people and things so gratefully. The medical staff who take care of Yaqi praised Yaqi as a sensible and grateful girl.

The illness is always cruel, and Yaqi's condition is getting worse day by day. Yaqi, who was dying, did not forget to be grateful. She said to her father, "Dad, I understand that my illness can't be cured. Let's not waste any more money. Let's keep the rest of the money and return it to others." Listening to Yaqi's words, Dad felt sad for a while. Seeing his daughter getting thinner every day, my father finally got up the courage to tentatively ask Yaqi, "Dear daughter, would you like to donate your cornea?"? Let your eyes help blind people to see this beautiful world again. " Unexpectedly, Yaqi's tone is more firm than her father's. She agreed to donate her cornea without hesitation: "I am very happy to help others regain their light. I want to learn from those who help me, and I want to repay others with my greatest strength." Yaqi's mother was listening to Yaqi's words, and she had already cried into tears, but such a sensible child was so unfortunate. Yaqi still smiled and wiped away her mother's tears, comforting her mother not to be sad ...

A few months later, Yaqi quietly left this world. Yaqi's cornea and body were also donated according to Yaqi's wishes.

Yaqi is like a little angel. She is only seven years old, but she has the most beautiful heart and never forgets to be grateful. Yaqi's performance deserves our reflection. How many people can really be as grateful as Yaqi, especially the children who are now spoiled by their parents.

As parents, we should understand that it is natural for parents to love their children, and parents often give all their love to their only child. But at the same time, parents should also attach importance to cultivating girls' virtues and educate them to be grateful from an early age. Only in this way can girls better appreciate their parents' love, be more grateful to life and complain less about things and people. How to cultivate an only child girl to have a grateful heart?

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Method 1. Let girls understand their parents' love

Knowing how to be grateful can't be learned overnight, but should be educated and cultivated in everyday life. Parents can't spoil girls blindly, but should give their children the right love and ideas, so that girls can appreciate their parents' hard work and be grateful to them.

Method 2: Let girls learn to be more grateful rather than complaining

When girls treat people and things more gratefully, they will complain less about life. When cultivating girls' gratitude, parents should give them correct guidance so that girls can face everything with gratitude instead of always complaining. A girl who knows how to be grateful will live a happy life as her parents expect. If you know how to be grateful, you will face life positively and optimistically, instead of complaining constantly because of a little thing. Therefore, parents must attach importance to the cultivation of girls' gratitude and let girls know how to be grateful from an early age.

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Helen Keller, a deaf, dumb and blind girl since she was a child, has a beautiful heart that knows how to be grateful. She thanked her parents who gave birth to her and raised her, faced life optimistically, worked hard to overcome difficulties and actively studied. She learned many languages by herself and finally got into Harvard University to study. She also wrote many inspiring and beautiful works, such as "If you give me three days of light". Helen Keller has such a splendid life because she knows how to be grateful. She doesn't complain all the time, but works hard to repay the society. Her life has also encouraged many people to learn to complain less and be grateful.