What is hitting a child when you see a child?

"Seeing a child and beating a child" is a term borrowed from the abacus. In fact, it means saying what you see, improvising and never letting go of any opportunity to arouse the other party's interest in conversation. When I was in the hospital, a nurse gave me a very shallow injection, which not only hurt, but also caused a big bag under my skin. She was sorry, I said; "The main reason is that you are too kind and heartless." She and her patients both laughed. Because everyone thinks I speak humorously, nurses and patients like to talk to me, and the ward has also added a lot of happy atmosphere. I visited Emei Mountain for the first time on the way to a meeting that year. Because I was alone, I felt very lonely and deeply regretted not taking my camera. In Hongchunping, I saw a young couple holding a camera instead of a tripod, and they could only take pictures of each other, but they couldn't. So I had a brainwave and said, "Comrade, do you want to leave me some photos of fly? Let me be your photographer. " Of course, they were ecstatic. After shooting several films and talking for several rounds, I not only learned that they had come from Xi 'an to travel, get married and spend their honeymoon, but also reached an agreement with them to travel together and take pictures of each other with cameras. From Hong Chunping to Yin Qing Pavilion, we changed from strangers to speculative friends, each leaving a satisfactory photo, and we didn't say goodbye until we rushed out of the studio to carve it up at Guobao Temple.

Looking for a "breakthrough" in talking with strangers is far more than the above aspects. As long as you are good at seizing the opportunity, taking the initiative to "attack" and always maintaining a humorous language style, you will soon have "acquaintances" wherever you go, and you will have more friends as a result.