Suzhou traditional wedding process

1. Wedding planning 1. Decide the wedding date, place, ceremony and wedding reception mode 1.2. Determine the wedding budget 1.3. Draw up the guest list 1.4. Call a good friend to discuss the wedding plan 1.5. Confirm the best man and maid of honor 1. Witness 1.7. Establish a wedding planning group 1.7. 1. Hold the kick-off meeting of 1.7.2 kick-off project. Make a wedding project plan 1.7.3. Clarify the division of labor of preparatory group 2. Prepare before the wedding.

2. 1. Communicate with all project stakeholders of the wedding 2. 1. 1. Communicate with parents about wedding planning and progress 2. 1.2. Send a happy message to friends and relatives 2. 1.3. Call relatives and friends in other places 2. 1.4. Publish the wedding notice online 2.65438+. Witness 2. 1.6. Feedback the invitation information of relatives and friends in time 2. 1.7. Reconfirm important relatives and friends 2.2. Buy wedding supplies 2.2. 1. Household appliances and furniture 2.2. 1.2. Bedding 2.2. 1.3. Color balloon 2.2. 1.4. Colored lamp (cold light) 2.2. 1.5. Yarn 2.2. 1.6. Candles. Other items 2.2.2. Wedding supplies order 2.2.2. 1. Bride and groom's wedding dress, 2.2.2.2. wedding ring

2.2.2.3 2.2.2.4 Bride Cosmetics Company. Hi stickers, red envelopes, hi word 2.2.2.5. Ribbons, flowers, spray 2.2.2.6. Tobacco, wine and drinks in 2.2.2.7. Sugar, peanuts, melon seeds, tea 2.2.2.8. Video, movie 2.2.2.9. Book flowers 2.2.2. 10. Book the cake 2.2.2. 1 1. Fruit 2.2.2. 12. Candle 2.3. Bride and groom image preparation 2.3. 1. The bride begins. 38+0. Choose a wedding photo studio 2.4.2. Scheduled shooting date 2.4.3. Take photos 2.4.4. Select the movie 2.4.5. Printing or painting 2.5. Decorate the new house 2.5. 1. Please ask the cleaning company to clean the new house thoroughly. Decorate a new house. Confirm the wedding. Wedding reservation 2.7. 1. 2.7.2 Estimate the number of guests. Estimate the number of banquets 2.7.3. Choosing a wedding venue 2.7.4. Confirm the banquet menu at the price of 2.7.5. 2.7.6 Confirm the acoustic effect of the wedding reception site. Coordinate the wedding banquet arrangement and other details with the hotel. Book a banquet 2.8. Appointment wedding makeup 2.8. 1. 2.8.2 Choose a makeup place. Communicate with hair stylists and makeup artists 2.8.3. 2.8.4 Confirm the styling on the wedding day. Make an appointment for makeup at 2.9. Booking a wedding car 2.9. 1. Determine the number of wedding cars 2.9.2. 2.9.3 Choose the driver of the wedding car. 2.9.4 Agree on the time and place for tying floats. Determine the driving route and required time of the wedding car 2. Camera reservation 2. 10. 1. Determine the number of cameras in the photography organization 2. 10.2. Choose a cameraman on the wedding day 2. 10.3. Arrange the division of photography 2. 10.4. Prepare photographic equipment and movie videos 2. 10.5. Make an appointment for photography 2.60000000006 Others 2. 1 1. 1. Exchange new banknotes 2. 1 1.2. Determine the children who roll the bed 2. 1 1.3. Prepare guest rooms for distant relatives and friends. Prepare the day before the wedding 3. 1. Communicate with parents to complete wedding preparations 3. 1.2. Make final communication with the preparatory group on the preparation and division of labor for the wedding day. 3. 1.3. According to the preparation of 3. 1.4, communicate with the host about the ceremony flow on the wedding day. Then communicate with the best man and bridesmaid 3. 1.5. Finally, confirm the relatives and friends who help. After the wedding banquet is confirmed, prepare details such as vehicles, photos and makeup 3.2. Confirm the preparation of the speaker on the wedding day 3.2. 1 3.2.2 Preparation of the witness's speech. 3.2.3 Preparation of parent representatives' speeches. 3.2.4 Preparation of guest representatives. The bride's question preparation 3.2.5. Problems that the bride and groom may encounter in the wedding or bridal chamber. Preparation of Article 3.3. 1 Finally 3.3.2 Try on all the clothes. Pack all the clothes to wear on the wedding day. Prepare two bottles of fake wine 3.3.4. Prepare fast food and dry food for the bride and groom on the wedding day. Finally, check all the articles and give them to a special person for safekeeping 3.3.5 3.3.5.3. Please call 3.3.5.4 .36860.666666666686 Red envelope 3.3.5.5. Jewelry worn by 3.3.5.6. Bridal cosmetic box 3.3.5.7. Sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea and drinks 3.3.5.8. Fireworks props 3.3.5.9. Candlestick, wedding candle 3.4. The bride and groom specially prepare 3.4. 1. The bride and groom are familiar with the wedding procedure again and again. Preview the bride's moving action 3.4.3. Preview wedding catwalk 3.4.4. Preview the toast action 3.4.5. Relax and encourage each other. Pay attention to sleep. Go to bed early. Prepare the alarm clock 3.5. 1. 3.5.2 Confirm that the alarm clock works normally. Set the alarm clock to 5: 30. 4. Wedding Day Process 4.1.1.1.5: 30. 4. 1.2.7: 00 get up. The groom's hairstyle. 438+0.3.7: 45 When the bride finishes making up, notify the groom 4. 1.4. Makeup artist, barber red envelope 4.2. Wedding car 4.2. 1.6: 30, start to tie the float 4.2.2.7: 00, take the groom to the new south gate 4.2.3.7: 30, end the float 4.2.4.7: 45, take the bride back to the new south gate (arrive before 8: 30) 4 .4.3. Promise the woman's family that the ribbon teacher will be in place at 4.3.6.9: 00 and the balloon will be in place at 4.3.7.9: 05. The bride and groom will go out with ribbons on their backs. Step on the balloon 4.3.8.9: 10, and the motorcade will start at 4.4. Wedding the bride at 4.4. 1. 10: 00, the motorcade arrived at the man's house in Chenghua Community at 4.4.2 10: 05, and the groom held the bride in the door with ribbons. Step on the balloon 4.4.3 10: 10 The child rolls on the bed 4.4.4 10: 15 The bride prepares tea 4.4.5. 10: 20 The bride offers tea to the man's parents 4.4.6. 438+00: 00 bring sugar, cigarettes, wine, tea, drinks, etc. To the hotel 4.5.2 10: 10. Check the details of catering arrangement, sound system, check-in desk, etc. 4.5.3 10: 30 Prepare welcome cigarettes and candy for the bride and groom 4.5.4 10: 45 Ribbon teacher at the entrance of the hotel 4.6. The hotel welcomes the bride and groom to the hotel. Ribbon 4.6.2 1 1: 00 Check-in desk personnel in place 4.6.31:00 Guide personnel in place at the door 4.6.4 1 1: 00 Welcome at the door of the bride and groom. Wedding Ceremony 4.7 Holder Preparation 4.7.2 12: 15 Audio Preparation 4.7.3 12: 15 Marriage Certificate and Ring Preparation 4.7.4 12: 15. Ribbon, step on the balloon, the host introduces the officiating guests, the witness reads the marriage certificate, and the parents of the couple take the stage to exchange rings with the bride and groom. Three bows, the newlyweds propose a toast to their parents, and the representatives of both parents speak. Both parents left. Newcomers open champagne, cut cakes, drink toast and light candles. The wedding reception officially started on 4.7.9. 13: 00. The bride and groom leave at 4.7. 10. 13: 00 for fast food. The bride changes her dress 4.7.11.13:15 The banquet ends at 4.7. 12. 14: 00. Photo taken by guests and couples 4.8. Rest in the afternoon at 4.8. 1. 14: 00. Guests leave or go to the chess room for entertainment 4.8.2.14.30. The bride and groom have dinner together. The remaining 4.8.3. 14: 30 counts the remaining tobacco, alcohol and sugar. 4.8.4. 14: 30 Count the number of people eating 4.9. Dinner 4.9. 1. 17: 00 inform the hotel of the number of dinners prepared. Leave the hotel 4. 10. New house 4.1.1.21:00. The bride hides the marriage certificate and the groom looks for it. Other programs are broadcast free of charge at 4. 10.2.22: 30. Guests leave 4. 1 1. Camera shooting. 8+0. 1. Camera A shoots the bride from her makeup. 4. 1 1.2. Camera B shoots the groom 4. 1 1.3 from the bride's snatch. Camera c filmed the whole wedding 4. 1 1.4. Photography is taken at the right time.

Edit the etiquette of this wedding. At almost every wedding, the bride and groom will frequently change guests and take pictures like statues.

Take turns toasting at the dinner table. Every couple has to stand, walk and sit in front of the public, and the thought of their behavior can't escape everyone's attention.

Light, are you nervous? Here are some basic manners to ensure that you can use them. 1, sitting posture: the posture of the upper body is the most important. When taking photos with relatives, the posture of the upper body is the most important. If you have "ah! The idea of "finally sitting down" will make people's waist tilt up like a deflated ball in an instant, which will be ugly and not careless. So always be nervous, especially if the bride is wearing a low-cut dress, sitting in the middle of the chair and twisting her waist, which makes her shoulders wide and slim. Wearing a slender dress and hanging your legs diagonally can make your legs look slender; If the groom sits listlessly, his trouser legs will automatically tilt up to reveal his socks.

Don't look good, pay special attention. Be sure to mention your knee-length pants before you sit down. 2, standing posture: naturally straighten your back, consciously spell each other into a figure of eight, let the bride put her hand in the elbow. It should be noted that the bride should not pull the groom's clothes, which will make people feel timid. Besides, bride, don't go too far in order not to step on the skirt. The bride should not hold the groom's arm tightly, as if afraid that he would run away. 3, walking: eye-catching admission ceremony Some brides may step on the skirt because they are not used to wearing wedding dresses and high heels, so the skirt should not be too long. The correct way to walk is: gently kick the skirt with your toes, gently wipe the ground with your soles, and slowly move forward. Strictly speaking, the bride's eyes should always look straight ahead, and try to put the line of sight in front of 10 meter, which is conducive to taking pictures, but for the sake of safety, the bride's line of sight can be slightly downward, but not too low to avoid affecting the image. 4. Kissing: It's natural and generous, but it's strange to feel shy. The kiss at the ceremony is of sacred significance, and the two should be natural and generous. When swearing at a wedding, it is disgusting to protrude your lips inexplicably shyly, coyly or affectedly, and it is quite unnatural to take pictures or videos. The correct posture is as follows: the groom gently grasps the bride's arm and puts his other hand around her waist.

As a hint, the bride raised her face slightly, which made the onlookers feel that she was approaching naturally, with a sense of mystery and beauty. kiss

It takes two people to decide the timing first, so that there will be no mistakes. The bride should try on lipstick with a napkin in advance to avoid making mistakes.

The groom left a clear lip print on his face. Remember, it's more natural to hold your arm lightly and lift your face slightly, unlike stamping your feet. 5. Read the letter: Be sure to show sincere feelings. At the wedding, the bride and groom read their thanks to their families, relatives and friends.

You must be serious when writing letters, because this is a very serious scene at the wedding, and sincere feelings are very important. After writing the letter, I must practice in advance in person to avoid deviation in formal reading. The content should be true, resonate with the guests, and try to create an affectionate scene. 6, turn around: gently grab the skirt of the dress and turn around quickly. This dress is different from ordinary clothes. It is impossible to change direction a little. no

The trick of dragging the skirt around in an exaggerated way is to gently grasp the skirt and skirt support with the hand opposite to the rotation direction and lift it up slightly. When wearing a long skirt and veil, hang it on your wrist and turn around quickly in an instant. 7, smile: filled with a happy smile, upturned corners of the mouth, smiling softly. Happy smiles on couples' faces are the guests' favorite. Many people's smiling faces are deliberately piled up when taking pictures. When they finished, there was no smile on their faces. This kind of smile is fake. The practice method of smiling face is: there is a chopstick in your mouth, and the corners of your mouth are upturned, which looks like a smile. Keep the mouth shape unchanged, take out chopsticks and complete the smiling face.

Then practice repeatedly until you can't laugh, and you're done. 8. Bow: While smiling, slightly bend the upper body and nod to pay tribute to the inevitable frequent bow at the wedding: First, the back should be straight, and the body above the waist should lean forward; Second, when you bow, you should be full of emotion, and the range of bending is about 15 degrees. Two people should cooperate, not "one after another". You can keep a pause for one second, and don't forget that when you bow to the host in music, you must face him with your whole body. Be careful not to stick out your chin. It is impolite to nod and bow too much. Be careful not to look up at people when bowing. 9, change the ring: to achieve the most romantic scene is nervous, even the ring can not be worn! People who have this embarrassing experience may wish to practice several times in advance. When the bride helps the groom put on the ring, the groom bends his elbow and reaches his hand to the height of natural bending. The bride holds the groom's hand in her left hand, and the thumb, forefinger and middle finger of her right hand hold the ring and put it on the groom's ring finger. Usually, when she can't put it on, the bride will unconsciously exaggerate and hold his hand tightly.

Put it under your nose and carefully put the ring on his ring finger. In fact, this posture is very rude and the photos taken are not good-looking. 10, cutting the cake: an excellent photo opportunity The most photographed scene at the wedding reception is when a couple cut the cake. Therefore, close-up shooting and subtle movements of fingertips will make the bride and groom feel nervous. The correct posture of cutting the cake is that the bride's right hand holds a knife, the groom's left hand covers the bride's right hand, the groom's right hand is wrapped around the bride's waist, and the bride's left hand assists the right hand in cutting the cake. This is the most beautiful posture, and the intimate figure of eight is still maintained in the standing posture. And two people's eyes are the same, which is conducive to taking more perfect photos. Don't just turn your face away when you look back. Turn your whole body away. 1 1, lighting candles: the scenery is picturesque, lighting wedding candles and straightening your back are the key points. People often fail at this point,

Because the bride and groom hold lighted matches and light them away from candles, this posture will make their chins stand out, their mouths open, they look ridiculous and their arms are different in length. If the groom extends his arms completely, the bride will lean forward. Therefore, the groom should consider the length of the bride's arm to decide the position. This is called "groom-led". The groom put his other hand on the bride's waist, and like dancing, he adjusted the distance through finger hints and led the bride half a step away from the table. The bride should be careful not to forget to put the bouquet out. 12, reveal the secret: slow and steady, cooperate with each other. The bride should straighten her back, squat slightly and cooperate with each other. The solemn atmosphere of the wedding should not be destroyed by the irregular and unsightly action of the groom to unveil the veil. In order to make it easier for the groom to lift the veil, it is necessary to lower the height. The bride should take her habitual foot as the main support point, and the other foot should step back a little, straighten her waist and slightly bend her knees. That posture of bending over and hips will be ugly. 13, cheers: Pay attention to the way of toasting when toasting. First, when listening to the toast, the bride should take off her gloves and put them on the table.

The cup should be on your chest. With cheers, slightly tilt the glass with gratitude. If the range is not too large, it should not cover the face. Taking pictures from any angle will be beautiful. If two people's chairs are far apart, you can stand closer and make a figure of eight on purpose.

Standing posture makes the whole look beautiful. In addition, when holding the glass, you should arrange the position of your fingers. Hold the bottom of the cup with your left hand when listening to others. China: paper marriage in 1 year; Cotton has been married for 2 years; 3 years of skin marriage; 4 years of flower and fruit marriage; 5 years of wooden marriage; 6 years of sugar marriage; 7 years of hand marriage; 8 years bronze marriage; 9 years of ceramic marriage; Tin wedding on10; 1 1 year steel marriage; /kloc-get married in 0/2 years; The lace wedding is on13; 14 years ivory marriage; 15 years crystal wedding; 20 years of porcelain marriage; 25 years of silver marriage; 30 years of pearl marriage; Coral wedding for 35 years; Ruby has been married for 40 years; 45 years of sapphire marriage; 50 years of golden marriage; 55 years of jade marriage; Jin Gangzuan got married in 60 years; 70 years of platinum marriage; 80 years of diamond marriage. United States: 1 year a paper marriage; Married for 2 years; Married for 3 years; Married for 4 years; 5 years and one wooden marriage; 6 years of iron marriage; Bronze marriage once every seven years; 8 years of electric marriage;

9-year-old pottery married; 10 a tin wedding; 1 1 year; 12 a flax wedding; The lace wedding is on13; /kloc-an ivory wedding in 0/4 years; /kloc-a crystal wedding on 0/5;

20 years of porcelain marriage; 25 years of silver marriage; A pearl marriage in 30 years; A jade has been married for 35 years; 40 years of ruby marriage; 45 years of sapphire marriage; Golden marriage once every 50 years; Diamond wedding 60 years later. France:

/kloc-cotton marriage once a year; Get married every 2 years; Three years and one wheat marriage; Wax marriage once every four years; 5 years and one wooden marriage; 6 years and one bronze marriage; 7 years of wool marriage; 8 years, a concubine, 39 years, a ceramic marriage; 10 a tin wedding; 1 1 year coral wedding; 12 small marriage; 13 a lily of the valley is married; 14 lead marriage; /kloc-a crystal wedding on 0/5; A sapphire wedding on 16; /kloc-a rose wedding on 0/7; /kloc-a turquoise wedding in 0/8 years; 19, a printed wedding; 20 years of porcelain marriage; 2 1 year a milky stone marriage; 22 years of bronze marriage; A green jade marriage in 23 years; Married in Sa Ding in 24 years; 25 years of silver marriage; A jade marriage in 26 years; 27 years of mahogany marriage; 28 years of nickel marriage; 29 years of velvet marriage; A pearl marriage in 30 years; 3 1 year sheepskin marriage; A copper marriage in 32 years; 33 years of porphyry marriage; 34 years of amber marriage; Myslin has been married for 36 years; 37 years of paper marriage; 38 years of Mercury marriage; A crepe marriage in 39 years; 40 years of jade marriage; 4 1 year iron marriage; 42 years of marriage of a pearl; A flannel marriage in 43 years; 44 years of topaz marriage; 45 years, a bloody marriage; 46 years of lavender marriage; Smy got married in 47 years; 48 years amethyst marriage; Cedar got married in 49 years; Golden marriage once every 50 years; A diamond wedding in 60 years; 70 years of platinum marriage; Married in 75 years; 80 years of oak marriage. Britain: 1 year a paper marriage; 5 years and one wooden marriage; 10 a tin wedding; 12 a skin wedding; 20 years of porcelain marriage; 25 years of silver marriage; 30 years of ivory marriage; 40 years of villous marriage; A diaosi marriage in 45 years; Golden marriage once every 50 years; Diamond wedding in' 75. Russia: 1 year; 5 years and one wooden marriage; 6 years and one zinc marriage; Bronze marriage once every seven years; 8 years and a white wood marriage; 40 years of silver marriage; Golden marriage once every 50 years; A diamond wedding in 60 years; 67 years of stone marriage; 70 years of happy marriage; Crown marriage after 75 years. Japan:

2 years of paper marriage; 5 years and one wooden marriage; 10 a tin wedding; /kloc-a crystal wedding on 0/5; 20 years of ceramic marriage, 325 years of silver marriage; A pearl marriage in 30 years; 35 years of coral wedding; 40 years of ruby marriage; Golden marriage once every 50 years; Diamond wedding in' 75. In addition, in North Korea, the 60th anniversary of husband and wife's marriage is called "four marriages".