Are the farmers in the region more kind and simple, or are they unruly in into the badlands?

Friends who like to travel abroad, in remote areas, poverty-stricken areas and rural areas, should not go alone as far as possible, and be careful when traveling together.

What is serious is that personal and property safety is hurt, which is less likely, but in most cases, if you want to buy something to stay, it is inevitable to be slaughtered.

I like to say that rural people are simple, have a good impression on the countryside. There is nothing wrong with what our parents said, because they grew up in the countryside and always felt this warmth.

Please always remember that the simplicity of rural people is always internal, that is, it is absolutely simple for their own people, which makes you feel the warmth of the world.

The social formation in rural areas is not the same as that in cities, and the relationship connected by surnames and blood ties is dominant in rural areas, that is, a big family. If your family is small, you may have a hard time in the countryside.

Take myself as an example. My parents have seven or eight brothers and sisters, so I have nearly 2 aunts and uncles. When they get married, I have nearly 2 uncles and aunts. These people have children, and many people have more than one life, so I have more than 2 cousins. When they get married, I have more than 2 sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law

Even my mother will introduce my cousins to marry my cousins, which will make our clan relationship closer

So you can see how many relatives there are in a county, and how powerful it is for so many people to unite

Relatives are not strong enough. The real strong connection is a village. Our family moved to the county from the countryside very early. The original place of residence is Taoyuan Village. Almost all the residents in this village are surnamed Liu, and the three generations of ancestors are basically related to each other. < P > Growing up in this village, everyone helps each other. Can you not have a good impression on them?

Growing up in this village, people in rural areas will naturally feel very simple

But this simplicity is actually a small circle of interest groups that help each other. Today I help you, and tomorrow you help me. This warmth is actually based on the premise

If there is no such premise, it is not related to me and it is not a surname, then there will be no simplicity at all, and some are just cunning

. Everyone's surname is Liu, and he knows my dad even if he doesn't know me

But if I lose my mobile phone in town and it is picked up by the old man, his heart will only be so happy that he can't give it back to me

Of course, if he finds something in the same village, he may return it immediately

Besides this example, I have relatives at home who run a supermarket in town, and I visit his supermarket every year when I go home. Give me as much food as possible in my pocket, and everything I want to buy is also converted to me at the wholesale price, which is absolutely cheap < P > Internally, our family is simple, right < P > But externally?

I saw him selling things with my own eyes. How can he be short of a catty, how can he be short of a catty, how can he falsely report the price increase, and how can he falsely report the price increase? In short, you must say that into the badlands has become a unruly businessman.

I grew up in a clan, and I really feel this warmth, but I can also feel the malice of other clans towards us-there are quite a few people who even die in rural areas for the homestead

. You can rest assured about your relatives and trust your parents 1%, but you are basically all bad guys and few good people to the outside world. You must be careful again. < P > I cite so many examples just to tell you from the perspective of a rural person that people in rural areas do not have a very strict and strong view of right and wrong, let alone a so-called moral cultivation. Long-term shortage of resources causes them to have only the most basic and primitive interest exchange consciousness. They are very simple to people in the clan and help them as much as possible, because unity can survive. However, for people outside the clan, they should try their best to cheat and play tricks and kill them as much as possible.

Migrant workers in news such as migrant workers raping female students and white-collar workers in big cities, you call them unruly, yes, and it is also true to say that they are simple, because they are in the same clan. With mixed interests and constraints from village leaders, he never dares to rape, but may be very enthusiastic to help. This is simplicity, but the little girl in a big city, not one of her own, can hurt as much as she wants. This is unruly-in the end, she doesn't have much moral constraints and legal awareness

If you are not a rural person by birth, don't naively think that farmers are simple, and of course there is no need to be hostile.

I believe that people who have grown up in such an environment and received little education will go to work in cities, which is likely to add chaos to cities.

in fact, I feel the same way now.

What a terrible fight at home ... My dad's relatives are the best. The above funds are allocated to every household to repair water and electricity. The villagers take the money and don't repair it. They eat and drink it, and then continue to light candles and carry water. It's really a dog's death. Why not repair the house? Dear mother, it's full of mushrooms. Forget it, he came out of my dad's generation, and it's useless to divide the field. I'm going to give it to my uncles, but I'm afraid my dad will want it, so I'm drunk.

Yes, there are usually several large families in a village. My great-grandfather was an orphan. He wandered here in the early years of the Republic of China, worked hard and married and had children. However, single-family houses have been bullied by villagers. My family was bullied for more than years. Why didn't you get bullied later? Because one of my uncles has become an official

, this relationship is similar to that of Muslims. The canon says to be a good person, which is right for Muslims (of the same faction) ... I am lazy and do it by myself ... I don't believe it when I tell people that there is no running water and no electricity in my hometown. How many villages can there be without running water these days, except some places are poor or the geographical location is inconvenient for electricity ...?

My grandfather told me that when he was young, he set up a production team in the countryside. Grandpa's team was particularly active in working in the fields, leaving early and returning late every day, and the crops were taken care of very well, which was in sharp contrast to the chaos in the fields next door. As a result, one day, the crops of Grandpa's team were trampled on two ridges, and that's right, the team next door did it ...

The traditional rural society is like this, and everything is divided into internal and external. Because a clan is a * * * same body, has the same interests, follows the same norms, and the group members have a high degree of collective identity, so they will be more sensitive and alert to outsiders. If you are interested in this aspect, you can visit Fei Xiaotong's native China: -)

My father came from a very poor remote rural area, and I often go back to my hometown to meet all kinds of people, so I can talk about my views.

Is the sentence "into the badlands is a unruly person" correct? I think it's right.

My uncle has no skill, so he makes a living by selling vegetables and melons. For the sake of his children's schooling, his family comes out of the countryside and lives in the edge of our city. There are also a large number of farmers from different places living in this place. Of course, after seeing more, you will understand that character is sometimes really linked to wealth.

My uncle stored vegetables from the wholesale market in a dilapidated small dangerous house, which supported his family's life. However, he often found that these things were always reduced for no reason, and it became more and more obvious. It was obvious that the thief began to be unscrupulous, so he squatted near the small dangerous house to see who did it.

Finally, one day, he caught him, and both of them were caught. When he passed by, the two men were carrying hard, and his uncle rushed forward with a big drink. One of them almost subconsciously took out a dagger, holding his uncle's neck with one hand and stabbing him directly in the chest with the other. His uncle had never seen this battle before, and he was suddenly afraid. . . . .

Later, fortunately, that winter, he wore thick clothes, and 3 yuan in his shirt chest pocket saved his life, but the knife was blocked from stabbing his heart. However, the person who committed the crime was a worker on the construction site near his home, and another was his neighbor. Of course, after a variety of reasons, this matter was defined as a civil dispute, and this person also swaggered to the hospital to see him as if nothing had happened. )

When my grandfather was still alive, he often worked in the fields. A countryman's cattle were not tied properly, and he went straight into the crop field. The consequences can be imagined. My grandfather went to the theory and was beaten by his father and son (whose son just graduated from Normal University) at the village entrance. At that time, my grandfather was almost 8 years old and was bullied by these two bastards at the village entrance with his head in his arms. My third aunt couldn't stand it. The legal judgment for compensation, denied by the family, has been unsuccessful. People in the same village have been villagers for many years.

Of course, it's chilling to think of things like going to my house a few years ago and jumping over the wall and killing my dog and throwing me my fourth uncle's motorcycle, and the second night after my third uncle moved to the city, everything in my house was swept away (because there were too many things to take away on the first day).

I've seen the simplicity of rural people, but the score depends on who he is to, for his own selfish desires, for a little profit, and for protecting his so-called dignity. He can fight an old man in a flower, fight unarmed women, covet some property in your family, and be full of hostility to so-called city people.

But even so, in my parents' minds, they are still full of gratitude and willing to help these people. Anyway, I am enough.

I know, you can't generalize, but as far as most groups I have met are concerned, they are basically like this, so your sentence is correct.

As for traveling, farmers are now enlightened. Haven't you seen so many farmhouses in the countryside? This is a better place, so you are willing to spend more money and feel the so-called farmhouse atmosphere and farmhouse dishes.

if you are in a remote area, it is recommended to hide as far as possible if you are alone.

You can't imagine how our friends rode the Qinghai-Tibet Line and met Tibetan compatriots with fine eyes in the tunnel, showing their ferocious side and taking away their SLR, notebooks and money. Therefore, either there are more people and stay away from these people, or avoid meeting these people when you are alone, and the farther you meet, the better.

I hope that our country will get better slowly. Sigh ......

It's really like this. I grew up in the countryside when I was a child, and I watched too many such things. For a little profit, people in the countryside have no dignity, no affection, no friendship and no emotion. Neighbors, relatives and even fathers and sons fight for a little profit all over the village ~ And don't think that the sexual concept of urban people is only open, and the countryside is chaotic, and the father-in-law engages in daughter-in-law. Don't do too many things about sister-in-law in brother in law

Everyone has human weaknesses. Of course, there must be very good people in the countryside, but there are two extremes: one is to move the family to the city, and the other is to have a bad life in the countryside. Very often, simplicity will not bring you great help in life.

I recently read an article by the writer Yan Hong, saying that her father is a college student who came out of a remote rural area and loves to help his hometown elders. In the 198s, a father and son came to the family, saying that they were father and son. In fact, the son was not his own, but had an affair with the son's widowed mother when he was a "father". After his mother died, his son was still young, and his father didn't care at home, so he adopted the child (a very complicated situation, I don't know if this statement is clear). Yan Hong's father thought it was a love beyond life and death, and decided to help them, so he gave the father and son two thousand yuan (two thousand yuan in the 198s), meaning to let them do some small business to improve their lives. As a result, after returning to the village, my son bought a daughter-in-law with IQ problems for 2, yuan (it is said that there is not enough money to buy a normal one), and he really embarked on a road to get rich-selling his own son; As for the adoptive father, since the adopted son bought a daughter-in-law and became a family, he has been abandoned and no one cares about him anymore.

My beef jerky courier bought by Taobao was stolen by migrant workers engaged in greening in the community. Ask him for it, he said, anyway, you have so many couriers every day, it doesn't matter if you have one less and one more. . Their foreman is his fellow countryman. In order to help thieves, all kinds of lies are all kinds of provocative. . . It's not worth wasting time to report to the police for more than 2 yuan of snacks. But I do feel that they are really United and simple inside. But treating outsiders, there is no bottom line, shameless!

if my family stole something, I will definitely apologize and compensate for the loss. Going home will definitely educate my family. I will feel ashamed and humiliated, and I will definitely not eat what he stole.

those migrant workers felt very happy to steal something, and they took it out of my newspaper box, not stealing it, but picking it up. Besides, there are couriers in my newspaper box all the year round, so it doesn't matter if I pick out a few. Besides, my city people lose their temper to order beef jerky, and city people are too stingy. Moreover, the thief shared the beef jerky with everyone, especially affectionate and affectionate, and was a good person. . . The foreman said that the beef jerky was not mine, but he bought it at the market. Later, I changed my mouth, and the courier threw it on the ground and they picked it up. Later, I changed my mouth. My name and phone number were not written on the express. They thought it was for them. Later, I changed my mouth. I didn't have 3 Jin of beef jerky, but I grabbed beef jerky, which was not worth 5 yuan. Later, I changed my mind. The beef jerky was bad. They didn't eat it and threw it away. . . . If we keep arguing, I'll have to pay for their beef jerky and bad stomach.

I'm not sure how much beef jerky is, whether the courier is put in my newspaper box, whether Taobao sent the courier to write my name and phone number, and whether the beef jerky is good or bad. . . I kept calling Taobao and the courier company. Taobao sent me three packs of beef jerky to prove his innocence. . .

so, I think the whole incident is that migrant workers stole things.

one more thing. One year, at Baotu Spring Lantern Festival, my mother-in-law wore a new suit and passed by quancheng road. A vendor selling bamboo rice scratched her mother-in-law's clothes. Mother-in-law loves clothes and wants the peddler to lose money. The peddler said he had no money. My mother-in-law said to go to the sewing shop and mend it. . . The peddler called a large group of fellow villagers to surround my mother-in-law and called her names. And hit people. . . The police came to control the scene and told the mother-in-law and the vendor to go to the clothing store and change into a new dress. . . When I arrived in Guihe and saw the price, the vendor softened, cried and kowtowed, and it was the old man at home again, and the children fell into that trap. . . What about the previous siege of my mother-in-law?

in addition, their strangest logic is: why do city people have to embarrass me when they can afford such expensive clothes?

no, I did something wrong and damaged the clothes of the city people. I have to be responsible.

to put it bluntly, they just don't clean up, and they think they are easy to bully when they are polite, but they will be soft immediately if they are fierce. But you can't do it yourself if you are fierce, and the country doesn't care about these small things. The main problem is the rule of law. If they are not cured, they will not be afraid. If they are not afraid, they will become arrogant.

My hometown is next to a small town in a prefecture-level city in Sichuan, which is not remote. It is less than two hours' drive from Chengdu! Here