I'm going to see my future father-in-law on May Day. Please help! !

1, giving gifts is of course what it wants! Since your father-in-law is a jar of wine, he must be good at tasting wine. Send it to the bar! My suggestion is Maotai! You have to look at your wife's attitude and see if she strongly opposes father's drinking. If she strongly objects, you can send her away. ) Mother-in-law, send a shawl or silk lapels, brooches or something. Mainly to show your respect and concern for her. When you buy something for your mother-in-law, you must ask your girlfriend for advice, as long as you still look at her mother's preferences.

Don't force yourself if you can't drink. Just say you can't drink. I don't think your mother-in-law wants her daughter to marry an alcoholic. Or, you can pretend to be drunk before you reach your bottom line and make him feel embarrassed to force you to drink. In addition, your father-in-law may also want to observe whether you will lose your manners after drinking the cocktail party. Be sure to pay attention! Don't talk nonsense after drinking. You can also take some hangover medicine in advance.

3. Precautions: Be polite, educated, speak modestly and talk about some topics that his parents are interested in. It doesn't matter if you disagree with some subjective issues. The most important thing is to have your own opinions, but show respect to them and be willing to learn new ideas from them. When eating, especially when drinking, don't be rude, praise the delicious food, if the mother-in-law cooked it herself, praise the good design of the food and so on. Before leaving, thank you for your warm hospitality and return the invitation! Of course, the most important thing is to prove that you are worthy of their entrusting your daughter to you.