Heart-breaking video of the year: “If possible, don’t make your Moments visible for three days.”

Someone once asked me, when do you feel most lonely?

My answer at the time was, during the holidays.

When I was alone at home, I was scrolling through my mobile phone, and my friends circle was flooded with photos of travel scenery. I wanted to find someone to go out for a drink with in the middle of the night. I looked through my address book, and finally persuaded myself: "Forget it, don't disturb them."

When I woke up, the moon became the sun, it seemed like a century had passed.

Have you ever had such a lonely feeling?

01.

I saw a video yesterday. Although it was an advertisement, the content was very disturbing.

Late at night, when I was bored, my cell phone rang.

The fat man turned on his phone, but no one sent a message...

Everything was as usual.

"Do you have any friends in your circle of friends?"

Some of his former friends accompanied clients at KTV:

Some worked overtime until late at night , with a tired face:

Some are worried about the high housing prices:

But the fat man is sitting in the supermarket in a daze, like countless ordinary and boring nights.

They are very tired and need someone to accompany them, but their 1,421 friends are all passers-by.

The more crowded the address book is, the emptier the heart becomes.

It turns out that we have been separated for ten years, and it suddenly feels like a dream.

Everyone has their own story, and you are no longer a participant in the story.

After seeing the circle of friends that have been visible for the past three days, I am no longer qualified to understand them.

The fat man clicked on the friend group and sent a voice message: "What are you doing recently? I miss you."

After thinking about it, he felt it was too disgusting, so he withdrew it. ...

From talking about everything to having nothing to say, my friend, are you still there?

Finally, the WeChat voice call ringtone rang, and it was three familiar faces:

"Miss us just because you miss us, you idiot."

"I tell you, it's really hard in Guangzhou."

"I'm very good."

"..."

Everyone laughed, just like they did ten years ago.

I burst into tears when I saw this.

I miss that time when we were all teenagers.

But there is no choice, time is ruthless.

One netizen said: When I first entered the university dormitory, I found that someone had drawn a note asking for leave with a marker on the bed board. The reason for asking for leave was graduation, the time to leave school was 6.20, and the time to return was never.

Thinking about it, the only thing the teacher did not lie to us is: four years is a short time.

Yes, it was really short, so short that it passed in a blink of an eye.

The youth that was young and disdainful at that time is now a yesterday that many people cannot go back to even if they risk their lives.

02.

Time flies so fast.

I used to think that there were four seasons in a year, but now I feel that there are only two days in a year: working days and holidays.

The wrinkles on the face, the relatives separated by yin and yang, the friends who parted ways...

Who is not holding on tightly while sighing secretly.

There is a lyric in "The Thief of Time":

"Time is a journey with no return, both good and bad are scenery."

< p> Since it’s all scenery, if you can’t keep it, let it go.

Just like in the comment area of ??this song, someone said:

"You got married last month, and the bride is a perfect match for you, eh. You have grown from the little boy you were back then. When I kissed her, I suddenly remembered that you kissed me secretly at noon in my second year of high school. What you didn’t know was that I was not asleep at the time. Now I have a boyfriend and am planning to get married next year. I wish each other happiness. ”

Yes, if you really like someone, you will still want to have them if you look at them again.

But we can never go back.

In "Old Friend in Mountains and Rivers", Jia Zhangke said: "Everyone can only accompany you for a certain distance, and sooner or later we must be separated."

In "Big Fish and Begonia", Qiu Shou Chun went to the human world, "I can't send you off for the last journey. I will turn into the wind and rain in the world and stay with you forever."

The scene when Bailong bids farewell to Xiaoqian in "Spirited Away" , I will never forget: "Don't look back."

Isn't that what life is like?

We meet one day, and we will leave one day.

It’s just that it’s not easy to forget.

We can only comfort ourselves by saying that although time has taken away a lot, it will definitely be better after settling.

Just like a boy said:

"My girlfriend was teased by someone whistling at a barbecue restaurant. If I were young, I would pick up a stool and beat him. If I were over this age, I would Just work hard to make money and take her to eat in high-end restaurants. There are no gangsters there."

Maybe this is called: living and knowing how to get along with the world.

I really like a passage written by Rabindranath Tagore:

"One night I burned all my memories, and from then on my dreams became transparent; one morning I threw away all my memories. Yesterday, my steps have been light since then.”

That’s probably it, saying goodbye is for the next time we meet.

03.

A few days ago, the mangosteen was coming, and someone posted on WeChat: This city is very windy, and lonely people always go home late.

I think she is very lonely, and she has to rely on the wind to even talk.

Maybe it was because she was scolded by her boss, maybe she worked overtime until late at night, and when she walked out of the dark office building, the sound of the strong wind frightened her, maybe it was because no one could come to take her home... .

None of the thousands of lights were lit for her.

Does she look like us at a certain moment?

No one is lonely, and no one does not need the light waiting for him to go home.

Fortunately, although loneliness comes slowly, it goes quickly.

Just like we need hunger to tell ourselves that it’s time to eat.

Loneliness tells you that you probably need someone.

That’s why we are inevitably lonely, right?

"I finally understand why I want to take photography. The meaning of photography to me is to make me move closer and closer to you... Such a clear thing happens once in a lifetime."

Yes, living is so hard, so tiring, and so lonely.

However, we are slowly moving towards Consummation.

If you love him, let him know, if you miss him, say I miss you, if you want to hug him, then don't be afraid.

If you can hold it tightly, don’t let go; if you can hug it, don’t pull it.

Who wants to wander in the wind if there is someone to accompany him?

Finally, Brother Kai hopes that you in front of the screen must be happy.

No matter who you are with, no matter when, no matter where you are, whether you can see the sky or not, you can hear the sea.

After the flowers fade, they will eventually bloom, but you are still a young man.

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