Mr. Chua Lam’s selected replies on Weibo in 2022 (Cai Lam is the only one who is sober in the world)

Mr. Cai Lam’s answer is short and wise. The answer in () is my own understanding and purely based on my thinking.

1. Question: Sir, there is a girl who doesn’t like me and expresses her disagreement. She wants to have an affair with me, and I really like this girl. I feel so sad. What should I do?

Cai Lam replied: Let’s talk after the ambiguity. (Live in the present, only by doing it can you take the next step)

2. Question: Mr. Cai, how many hours are left, can you answer me, can I get rich? Mr. [doge], leader What should I do if I don’t like myself?

Cai Lan answered: Yes. afterlife. (If you have time to daydream, it’s better to use your time to work hard)

3. Question: Sir, what should you pay attention to when you go to your girlfriend’s house for the first time during the Chinese New Year?

Cai Lam answered: To please the potential future mother-in-law. (Relationships between people come first)

4. Question: Sir, in 21 years I found the direction of my life. I like photography and want to become a professional photographer, but I don’t know how. At the beginning, I had no money and no diploma. How should I start?

Cai Lam answered: Start by taking pictures with your mobile phone. (There is nothing that cannot be solved, as long as you are willing to think)

5. Question: Mr. Cai, how can you catch a beautiful woman in love?

Cai Lan answered: People who ask this question will eventually find the ugly one. (Before chasing beautiful women, have you ever thought about becoming a handsome guy?)

6. Question: Teacher Cai, why is it so difficult to be happy?

Cai Lam replied: It’s hard to do it, easy to do it. It’s your choice. (The road of life is made up of countless choices)

7. Question: Teacher, obviously we are very suitable and like each other very much, but because his grandma objects to me because I am too thin, his mother feels that I am too thin. It makes sense. A thin person cannot be prosperous. His mother was very supportive at first, but later she strongly opposed it. So as a girl, should I insist on being with him?

Cai Lam replied: What a good reason to eat fat. (There are many reasons from the outside world, but you also have to see if you have worked hard)

8. Question: Hello sir, I have a friend with a low emotional intelligence who will ruin the good mood of the day every time I meet her. What should I do with this kind of person?

Cai Lan replied: There are many of these people, and they are a force when they gather together. Try to avoid them as much as possible. (Sometimes escaping is not a derogatory meaning, but a choice to protect yourself)

9. Question: Sir, how can you become rich?

Cai Lam answered: The possibility is slightly lower than sudden death. (Be more sober, and you will still have a chance to get rich)

10. Question: Sir, how can I become a good speaker?

Cai Lan answered: Learn from people who chatter endlessly. (The way of learning can also be interesting, and imitation is also a kind of learning)

11. Question: Sir, how do you weigh the balance between unhappy work and making money? Survive first, and then put in extra effort in exchange for: Trouble comes from everyone. If you are not greedy, you will be fine. Can you make progress by playing mahjong first?

Cai Lan answered: Lose. (You try it. After you try it, you will definitely think of a way to win. Experience it yourself)

12. Question: Do you still want to try something if you know it won’t work?

Cai Lam replied: It is because of this that new things emerge. (Thinking has no results, only doing can see the future)

13. Question: I feel that my parents favor sons over daughters, which is very sad. Why should my children be treated differently?

Cai Lan replied: The Lord said: Forgive them, because they are ignorant. (The parents are also parents for the first time, and not every parent is a real parent. They can only tolerate and let go)

14. Question: How can people who are too sober in their hearts live well?

Cai Lam replied: It is better than being confused. (A confused person may not even think about how to live well)

15. Question: Sir, can you catch up with those who are more talented than you as long as you work hard enough?

Cai Lam answered: It is a beginning.

(Those who are talented have to work hard to look effortless)