Ma Yun's father, Ma Laifa, chose not to touch his son's light, and the family went about their business. What's he up to?

Family education plays a vital role in people's growth and development, and now psychological development begins to attach importance to the influence of family background. It is true that the harsh environment of family background may bring people a lifelong wound that cannot be healed; But the benefits of a good growth environment are endless.

0 1

Ma Yun, whom we are familiar with, is like this. People only pay attention to his brilliant career, but ignore the influence of family education behind him. Especially, Ma Laifa, Ma Yun's father, not only laid a good foundation in childhood education, but also chose not to touch the light of the son of the richest man after his son became famous. He devoted himself to developing his own field of work, and under his guidance, the family went their separate ways.

Although Ma Yun is now regarded as a legend, he was as naughty as us when he was a child, and he would choose to talk back to his parents during the rebellious period. When Ma Yun quarrels with his father, he often speaks some English. In traditional families, most people choose not to ask questions indiscriminately and directly blame their children.

02

The difference is that Ma Laifa discovered his son's interest and talent in English in this talk back, and gradually guided his children to learn English. This move had a profound impact on Ma Yun's later life. In addition, Ma Laifa has a harmonious relationship with his wife and has his own educational experience, which provides a harmonious environment for Ma Yun's growth, which is very important and cultivates his children's sound personality.

There is also a greater impact on the love of art. Although Ma Yun is not good at singing and dancing, he is full of love for art and life. We have also heard the songs sung by Ma Yun and Faye Wong, and he also participated in the TV series "Gong Shou Dao". This is a testimony of his dedication to art, and such a character cannot be separated from the influence and shaping of his family.

03

Ma Yun's father, Ma Laifa, is usually engaged in photography, and he also has his own views and success in opera. Although my mother is just an ordinary worker, she loves the art of pingtan, shares the same interests with her father and often talks about art and aesthetics. This may affect Ma Yun's persistence and love for art. From the above story, we can easily see that Ma Yun's parents are very open-minded. In Ma Yun's college entrance examination, employment and entrepreneurship have given great support and encouragement. Perhaps it is precisely because of the family's support and its own natural efforts that it coincides with the golden age of e-commerce economic development, and it has created a legend of a business empire.

When Ma Yun had a successful career, his parents didn't choose to rely on his son, but they didn't touch the light of the richest son. This is different from the traditional concept that people think that raising children to prevent old age, enjoying their old age and taking care of their grandchildren. They all have their own jobs and ideals, and the whole family is busy with their own careers, but they are also very harmonious and happy. Ma Laifa gave his son excellent artistic edification and correct road guidance when he was young, and at the same time gave him room for free growth without excessive constraints and forced imposition of his will. This kind of family education is undoubtedly successful and worth learning by every parent.

label

Compared with successful cases, there are also many unsuccessful family education. When children were young, they didn't get enough love from their parents or received incorrect family education, such as giving birth to a dutiful son under a stick. They may have low self-esteem and serious personality distortion, which has led to many tragedies. This is why people pay more and more attention to family of origin, hoping to help these children get out of the shadow of family of origin and embrace a new life. Psychotherapy is on the one hand, and the most crucial thing is the change of parents' educational concept. Children are the hope of the future, so it is imperative to pay attention to their growth.