What are the customs and rules of marriage in Zhengzhou?

Some dates and peanuts are put directly in the basin, and some are scattered on the bed on the wedding night ~ not necessarily ~

= = Don't you know these things? You should ask someone who knows nearby ~

You know, even if this kind of thing is very close, there is a difference between villages! There are no special rules!

I'll just say something I know!

Of course the man's family wants to buy a house! ! You don't have to ask the woman's family to buy dowry! Daily furniture, electrical appliances and so on! The day before the wedding, the bride can't go to the new house, she must stay at her parents' house! ! ! !

On the wedding day, the bride should get up early, do her hair and get dressed, and wait in the house before the groom comes to pick her up! The wedding must end before noon 12 o'clock on the wedding day! ! ! It's unlucky not to finish the wedding before twelve noon! ! !

The bride should get up early that day and wait for Sina to pick her up. At this time, she can't eat anything! You can't eat anything! You can only eat jiaozi! But I forgot to eat a few, but there are numbers, either singular or even. You can ask an old man who understands when you come back! The groom has come to pick him up. He will worship the bride's parents with the bride, then the parents will give out red envelopes, and then all the children who follow the bride to carry the basin, press the sedan chair and carry the shoes should be selected, which can be her parents' relatives, cousins and the like. What is in the basin is a symbol of good luck and good morality. You can ask people around you for details. I can't remember clearly. The bride should put on green shoes when she gets on the bus, so that she won't suffer indignities when she arrives at her mother-in-law's house. In other words, the children who carry shoes help the bride change shoes. Remember that if you put on your shoes, you can't touch the ground. Put your hand in the car! Then the car can drive away. The child pressing the sedan chair is a couple, sitting next to the bride and groom, that is, in the same car! During the bride's stay in her family, relatives and children who are in conflict with her family are not allowed. Of course, this is not a rule in every place. The bride can't go to the groom's house until she is picked up by the groom! I remember when my cousin got married and drove to the crossroads, she would throw a packet of biscuits wrapped in red cloth and a red envelope, which could be a dime or white ash. If passers-by find it, please be happy But my cousin and cousin are from the same city, and they are very close. You are so far away, forget it, there are too many intersections! After that, I went to my husband's house. At this time, the wedding is the main scene. The master of ceremonies presided over the worship of heaven and earth, and the man's parents gave red envelopes. What fun activities and couples biting apples! Then you can enter the bridal chamber, and your family can join in and play, and put some things prepared before, such as symbolic pots and boxes. Then it's almost time to set the banquet. The bride should change clothes, usually red cheongsam, and come out to toast the guests with the bride. Then you can be free and everyone can go their separate ways. If they are young people, such as the bride and groom's own friends and colleagues, they can go to the bridal chamber to play at night and then go home separately, so that the bride and groom can be alone after a hard day! After three days, the bride can go home and visit once!

There are many rules I didn't say, such as a hundred stitches on the bride's waist when she gets married! And how long satin, color and so on should the bride and groom wear. I said all Chinese, not western. The bride and groom all wear Hanfu, but they don't wear wedding clothes. Then the bride must never lift the veil when she goes out. When changing shoes, she can only lift them up a little to see clearly. You can't let everyone see that after the groom worships heaven and earth, the master of ceremonies can exchange tokens of love, earrings and rings, all of which are gold. Of course, diamond rings are popular now, and then the veil can be lifted! ! ! !

Many rules! ! I hope you can find someone to ask!

There are people in the middle of the road who want money to pay the toll! ! Can be in trouble!

After all, it is a once-in-a-lifetime event Let's make it lively and festive!