Happiness sharing is wrong and people become ostentatious.

Do you have a sense of loss that you can't find anyone to share your happiness and mood with through the list?

Have you ever sent a circle of friends for happy things and unhappy things, but gradually you don't like to record your life in the circle of friends? So the circle of friends opened, closed and opened?

Do you dislike chatting? Whether you are happy or unhappy, you don't like to express yourself with others? And comfort myself that it's called maturity.

Actually, you weren't like this before. You used to be good at communication, mingled with your friends, and became familiar with everyone. The Jianghu people called you a "social expert", as if the whole world were your friends, and they could talk to each other. You used to publish and record every happy and unhappy thing. However, now it has been deleted and deleted, wrapping itself as a hedgehog far from harm. When someone asks you what's wrong, you say it's nothing, but recently you understand a sentence: sharing happiness with the wrong person becomes ostentation, and sharing sadness with the wrong person becomes melodramatic.

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Xiao A, a friend, is a lovely and straight-tempered girl, which is particularly attractive. Finally, Xiao A lived up to expectations and found a handsome prince charming who loved her super much. Both of them are super-matched in terms of face value and temperament. Since they were together, the ticket circle has been issued for several weeks to celebrate. Either where to eat today, or where to watch movies and play tomorrow. The beautiful food and the beautiful photo of two people are really envious of others. At the beginning, we all gave them special wishes, and even said "show your pregnancy quickly", "caught off guard, a handful of dog food" and so on. The two of them are also madly in love, so they happily accept it and enjoy various shows every day. What "Good morning, what?" "Good night" ... Various shows and selfies. So after a long time, we got into the habit of ordering a compliment every time we saw it, and then lined up "dog food has been brought, so full."

But I haven't seen Xiao A sprinkle dog food recently. I'm very uneasy to open her circle of friends and find that all the shows of love have been deleted. I was so frightened that I thought they had broken up, so I secretly wrote to Xiao A: "What's the matter with you recently? Why don't you sprinkle dog food?"

"Nothing, I'm fine with the male ticket, but I feel sorry for you and shouldn't always show off in front of you."

"wow, I finally realized! Finally know how to care for our single dog! " I joked.

"Do you even think so?" It took a long time to receive this reply. With a pouting expression.

"I ... didn't mean that." I was a little helpless.

"Before someone couldn't stand it, they commented on the show below. It's not that they don't have a boyfriend. It's great to have a boyfriend. It's really hypocritical to have never seen the world before, and it's still happening every day, polluting my circle of friends!" Xiao A said sadly, I am helpless, and I don't know how to comfort her. Just tell her to live her life well, and don't care about other people's eyes. People who know you naturally understand your happiness.

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Actually, when I was comforting her, I suddenly thought of myself. I'm tone deaf, but I like singing very much. I sing occasionally on national K songs, and then I teach myself to record small videos in ukulele and send them to the space. But one day when I was picking up Creary to play, my roommate couldn't stand it, saying it was too ugly, and you kept playing it, and it was sent to the space, like showing off your talents. It was a good work.

I was so angry that I cried. No matter how much they tried to persuade me to apologize, I couldn't help it, because I felt that a very happy thing was described as "doing" by them, and I really couldn't stand it. Although our roommate relationship is very good, it is the people you care about who say this about you that make you feel angry and sad, so I swear that I will never send videos in space again or play Creary when they are in the dormitory. Only when they are not in the dormitory do I take out my Xiao You and practice alone. As soon as I hear that they are back, I will immediately put it away and stop singing and playing. I used to like singing when I was unhappy, because I think only music can save me from loneliness, and there will always be a lyric and a melody that will get me out of trouble. Therefore, when I learned a song, it was a very happy thing, and I thought all the sadness was gone. However, when I shared this happiness, some people thought I was putting on a show ... < P > One day later, a friend asked me why I didn't play and sing a video, and I said wryly, "No time!"

A few days ago, I accidentally brushed a secret when I was brushing the space dynamics: "What's the big deal about being admitted to Shanghai XXX University? What's there to show off?". I thought for a moment, right, now it's time to issue the annual college admission notice, but there will be such a secret full of jealousy and fireworks in my space. I really regret that I have such a friend. So, I turned off the function of checking secrets in space dynamics, and then I rarely visited the space. I only went to a few friends' spaces to see their recent living conditions, and I didn't brush others. Because I gradually found out that I have many friends who have never spoken but are just "like friends". We have never had a heart to heart, and we don't know the three views and discord at all, but they exist silently in each other's lists. What a terrible thing.

This secret suddenly reminds me of a long time ago. Several of my junior high school classmates were particularly outstanding. When I got in touch after the college entrance examination, I learned that several of them were admitted to Qingbei. I was particularly happy to show off with my friends. Look, my junior high school classmates were admitted to Tsinghua Peking University! As a result, there were few replies, and some people laughed at me: What a big deal, as for making a fuss? It's not like you passed the exam. Aren't you still an ordinary undergraduate? They didn't remember you until they were successful in official career ...

I was suddenly speechless, and suddenly realized how valuable friends with the same views are. At least you won't attract cynicism when sharing happiness. Yes, I'm not as good as them, just an ordinary undergraduate, but that's my good friend in junior high school. Can't I be happy for them? They also invite me to dinner in turn, and they will humbly ask me for advice when they encounter knowledge beyond their study field, instead of "looking down on me" as others say. Perhaps, this is also a necessary quality for them to be admitted to a prestigious school.

There is a school girl who likes traveling very much and has been to many places. Some people praise her, others envy her, and others say that she shows off her wealth. In fact, people who really know her will know that this is all pocket money earned by her part-time job.

There is a senior who likes taking pictures very much, and he is very good at drawing pictures. I also pestered him to learn from his teacher. Someone asked him to take photos, someone asked him to open a studio, and some people said that he was stealing pictures of Weibo's big photo shop. However, no one knows that his eyes are red and swollen every day from p to midnight. He studied PS for three or four years, saved money to buy a SLR, and opened his own studio.

Someone once said: You can't hold back liking and catching a cold. But I think there is also "happiness". When you are happy, you will laugh happily, think about sharing it with others and convey this happiness to more people. However, what we don't know is that not everyone is willing to accept your happiness.

You can close your eyes for things you don't want to see, hold your breath for things you don't want to smell, and shut up for things you don't want to say, but you can't shut your ears for things you don't want to hear. So when you share happiness, some people are listening attentively, and they are happy with you after listening, while others are not interested and have no choice but to listen, and then they don't know what you are happy about.

Happiness will only be amplified if it is shared with the right person. On the contrary, if it is shared with people with different views, it will be rejected and become a show.

I hope everyone understands your happiness and your sadness. I hope there is no ostentation and melodrama in your life, and all your stories have audiences who understand you!