After spending 200 thousand, the pregnant wife whose husband gave up pneumonia was reprimanded. What do you think of this?

On Weng Qiuqiu's death certificate, the cause of death reads: "Severe pneumonia, respiratory failure, septic shock".

She was less than 32 when she died and just found out she was pregnant.

The disease is coming.

It took her only 12 days from headache, cough, dyspnea, complete white lung to final death.

In just 12 days, this fresh life has quietly fallen, and even the children who have never seen this world have gone to heaven.

Everything seems to be in order. This is some general information given by her husband Chen Yong (a pseudonym):

"On June 7th, 65438 10, my wife went to the vegetable market to buy fish heads, chickens and vegetables. When she got home, she made a hot pot and the family had dinner together. She ate a lot. " "No.8, my wife said she was not feeling well. On October 9th, 65438/KLOC-0, she stayed at home with her five-year-old daughter. Noon. She sent me a message saying that I had a cold and asked me to take some cold medicine back after work and buy a box of pregnancy tests. She suspects that she is pregnant. " "65438+ 10/0 At three o'clock in the morning, she suddenly woke me up and said that I was unwell, had a headache and had a sore throat. Her fever is over 38 degrees. That night, we rode an electric car and took our daughter to the hospital. "

After many transfers, Weng was finally transferred to a top three hospital in Wuhan.

At first, Weng Qiuqiu was sent to the fever department, and was transferred to the emergency room for rescue at 1: 00 a.m. on June+10/October 65438+20201October, and soon entered the intensive care unit.

Then, goodbye.

It was her husband who gave up treatment.

After spending 200,000 yuan on borrowed medical expenses, Weng's condition did not improve, and her husband Chen Yong (pseudonym) finally signed a consent form to give up treatment.

An hour later, at 13: 46, Weng Qiuqiu passed away.

That evening, her body was sent to funeral home cremation.

The departure of life is sometimes unexpected, just like the fallen leaves in autumn, which are blown to the ground by the wind alone.

Weng Qiuqiu's departure caused an uproar on the Internet. Some people began to "crusade" against their husbands and should not give up their wives who have relied on him for many years.

But some people say that people who say they should not give up are "why not eat minced meat"?

If there is another choice, as a husband, is he really willing?

That's not true.

Actually, the most painful person is actually him.

All beings are suffering, and everything is helpless.

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They have been married for seven years, and there has been no savings at home, no house or car, except for an old house owned by their parents in their hometown.

Half a year ago, they came to Huanggang City from Qichun County, invested 30,000 yuan, and partnered with others to open a door and window shop.

When they opened it, both of them were full of expectation.

His wife works as a salesman in a door and window shop and has been losing money since she opened.

Excluding various expenses, we have been unable to make ends meet every month for six months.

He rented a hotel near the hospital while taking care of his wife.

In order to save money, I didn't want to turn on the air conditioner at first, so the charge would be 20 yuan less.

After his wife was hospitalized, he thought about how to raise money every day and almost borrowed all his relatives.

"I was scared at the time and just wanted to get rid of drugs and save my wife's life."

He called the mayor's hotline, the governor's hotline and many media calls. During this period, he also raised money from the society and raised more than 40,000 yuan, but it was not enough.

The gap is too big. Three days before entering the hospital, 50,000 to 60,000 a day, and then more than 20,000 a day.

At noon on June 265438+1October 2 1, I really couldn't borrow any money, and my wife's condition didn't get better. This is really frustrating. After consulting with my father-in-law, I signed a consent form to give up treatment.

"She is pregnant and her resistance has dropped. The doctor told me that my wife's hands were all purple, and then her feet were all purple and necrotic, and her condition deteriorated rapidly. After my wife entered the intensive care unit, I never saw her again until she became an urn. "

The day after he gave up, the policy changed, and the state provided free treatment for COVID-19 patients.

I have to say, this is really providence.

Chen Yong later learned that there was an old man in the hospital, whose condition was as serious as his wife's, and he had gradually improved after treatment.

This made him feel guilty. His parents-in-law didn't blame him, but he still couldn't forgive himself and felt unable to face his eldest daughter.

As the saying goes, you get what you pay for.

Facing the expensive treatment fee, the man who never bowed to life still bowed his head.

200,000 is really an astronomical figure for many ordinary rural families.

In the face of poverty, it is an extravagant hope to live this life safely.

Sadly, it could have been.

Zhang Wentian said: The ideal of life is for the ideal life.

And many people, in fact, expect a simple ideal life: eat enough and wear warm clothes.

In February last year, the National Bureau of Statistics released a report showing that at the end of 20 18, there were1660,000 rural poor people nationwide, a decrease of13,860,000 compared with the end of last year.

The requirement of getting rid of poverty is that the income will reach about 4000 yuan in 2020.

This is the per capita annual income.

It is such a reality that when many people are worried about high housing prices, some people are worried that heavy rain will soak their adobe houses.

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In the film How to Go Home, the director used a lot of hand-held cameras to present the childhood of Lebanese children as truly as possible.

Although this is a fictional drama, the reality and society presented in the film are all derived from reality, even too real to bear to look directly at.

To what extent can the poverty of life drive a person?

In the lens of How to Be Home, you can really feel the sense of helplessness from the depths of your soul.

12-year-old boy Zan took his biological parents to court.

He said, "I want to sue my parents. They gave birth to me. "

He accused his parents of giving him life, but he was unable to raise and educate his children, but he kept giving birth. The family was crowded in a leaky house and could not eat.

Because of poverty, Zan told her sister Saha not to be found out by her parents after learning that she had her period.

Once parents know that their daughter is physically mature, the only fate of her sister is to be sold.

But in order to solve the accommodation problem, my sister was finally forced to be sold to a vendor as a wife.

At the end of the film, the photographer said to Zan, "This is a passport certificate, not a death certificate. Smile. "

Zhou wrote a passage in Niu Niu: The first cry of life is not mixed with a trace of sadness, because the world from which life comes is not sad, and sadness is the product of our world. "

Reality sometimes runs counter to ideals and is divided into various purposes and forms.

Some beauty is always found in comparison.

People who keep going up in every adversity are strong in life, and praise is just a microcosm. Fortunately, the final outcome of Zan is hopeful, which is enough.

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The movie "Desire for Survival" said: There is only one disease in the world, and that is poverty.

Selling generic drugs, Lu committed suicide and went to the ballroom to dance. They are all poor.

Because I am poor, I try my best to find a new way out for my life.

Because you are poor, you should work hard to make money.

Because you are poor, everything is unreasonable.

During Spring Festival travel rush in 20 17, migrant worker Xing stayed on the train for more than 40 hours to go home.

When the conductor asked him what he had for lunch, he said, "I finished eating instant noodles in the car. It's okay. Anyway, I don't have to eat when I don't work at night. "

Because I am poor, I don't pay so much attention.

Some diseases can't be cured no matter how much money, while others can only survive by money.

Sometimes, matter can be an obstacle to death.

Although cruel, many people are experiencing such a choice.

In Jiaozuo, Henan, Mou Wei, a 48-year-old hospitalized patient, left quietly and later died of suicide.

According to my son, my father was diagnosed with coronary heart disease and needed more than 65,438+10,000 yuan, for fear of causing trouble to his family.

Ironically, life sometimes needs to give way to poverty.

After all, life is not always full of hope, but each of us should still be full of hope and live in this world with deep affection.

Not everyone can wait until spring blooms, but spring will always come. We must believe that the future will get better and better.