Do you want to stay with the baby?

Whether to accompany children is a complicated matter. For a woman, giving birth is a trip to the gates of hell. Whether a prospective father should accompany a pregnant woman during childbirth is a complicated matter. Next, I will give you some information about whether to accompany the children.

Do you want to stay with the baby? 1 pregnant women are easily distracted during childbirth.

During childbirth, the parturient needs to pay high attention and obey the doctor's instructions in order to give birth quickly. However, when the family is around, if you see the crying or bad mood of the parturient, just say some encouraging words, such as "Come on", "Nothing will happen" and "Nothing will happen with us", it will easily distract the attention of the parturient. Maternal distraction can not cooperate with doctors well, prolong the labor process, and suffer more during childbirth.

There are also experimental studies that show that women who are accompanied by their husbands or other family members will appear weaker and have longer labor. The proportion of cesarean section is quite high. Moreover, after caesarean section, the probability of possible complications is much higher than that of natural delivery.

Family members may interfere with doctors.

When a woman gives birth to a child, the pain reaches its extreme, and it is estimated that the family members have never seen it. However, at this moment, family members can't help the mother share the pain, and they can't help deliver the baby instead of the doctor. They can only be anxious. If the mother has some critical situations, such as massive bleeding, the family members must be flustered and can't help asking the doctor about the mother. Although the family members do this out of concern for the mother, it also takes up the doctor's time to deal with the crisis and interrupts the doctor's mood to deal with the crisis, which is extremely unfavorable for saving the mother and the fetus.

It is the most ideal situation that the parturient gives birth, the family members take care of it and do not add chaos. Anything can happen when a woman gives birth to a child. If family members can't control their emotions well, or even have conflicts with doctors, both the mother and the fetus will be in danger.

Accompanying family members will increase the pressure on the parturient.

During childbirth, because of the pain, the parturient simply neglected other things and forgot her nervousness. She just wants to give birth to the baby as soon as possible and end the production. Family members are very nervous and anxious when they are waiting for the delivery. If you accompany the baby, it is easy to pass on the negative emotions of anxiety to the mother. When the parturient is anxious, it will hinder the release of oxytocin, and the difficulty of maternal delivery will also increase. Therefore, when a woman gives birth to a child, it is best for her family members not to go into the delivery room to accompany her, which has great potential risks and is related to the safety of the woman and the fetus.

Do you want to stay with the baby? 2 benefits of husband accompanying baby:

First, enhance the husband's sense of responsibility.

In the process of accompanying the baby, the prospective father can better understand the difficulty of a new life, better understand the hardships of his wife, and better take care of the baby after the baby is born.

Second, calm the mood of the parturient.

Having a husband around during childbirth can enhance the sense of security of the parturient, and can comfort and accompany the parturient when her mood collapses.

Third, it can detect the abnormality of parturient in time.

Feed your wife some water and chocolate at the right time to replenish energy. Seeing the hardships of pregnant women giving birth with your own eyes will make you feel more distressed and considerate of your wife in your later life.

Fourth, you can leave image data.

Nowadays, many couples want to record the baby's birth process, and the prospective father is the best photographer. From a small embryo in my mother's belly to the first cry, it is an extraordinary moment.

Fifth, enhance the affection between father and baby.

Many hospitals that support natural delivery will let dad cut the umbilical cord after the baby gives birth smoothly. A gesture full of ritual can not only increase the father's sense of responsibility for his children, but also enhance the friendship and interaction between parents and children.

Disadvantages of the husband accompanying the baby:

1, increase the psychological pressure of pregnant women.

I believe that many girls can't help feeling uncomfortable when they meet people close to them. Even if they are going to be mothers, they are still the same in essence. In the process of production, seeing your husband will also produce dependence, but at this time you can only rely on yourself. Their husbands accompany them, and there are too many uncertainties. Once the psychology of prospective fathers collapses first, it will have a great impact on expectant mothers. Therefore, many obstetricians do not recommend that husbands go in to accompany their babies.

2. It is not conducive to the harmony between husband and wife.

In the process of giving birth, the hesitation of the prospective father is a fatal blow to the mother, because women are very painful when giving birth, and their hearts are very fragile. If the prospective father is absent or absent at this time, the influence on the prospective mother will be lifelong, which is not conducive to the harmony between husband and wife.

3. It has an impact on the life of husband and wife in the future.

It is well known that the pictures of giving birth are violent and bloody, but most people have only heard of them and have never seen them with their own eyes. Therefore, many prospective fathers accompanying the baby were shocked to see such a big battle in the delivery room. Moreover, some prospective fathers are dizzy or have poor psychological endurance. When they see their wife lying on the operating table, her face is distorted or even incontinent, and her private parts are dripping with blood, she will really faint on the spot. Earlier, some media reported that a prospective father who accompanied the baby heard that the baby's head was coming out, so he couldn't help but take a look. As a result, he was scared to stop lifting for two years. Later, even after receiving psychotherapy, it failed to save this relationship.

When giving birth to a child, her husband has both advantages and disadvantages, so he decided to accompany him first. He can watch some documentaries at home first, but the prospective father had better not. Sometimes people's instinctive physiological reactions are hard to suppress. Discuss it between husband and wife first and decide according to the actual situation, which is good for both husband and wife and the baby.