Because I love you, I have to leave you-reading The Bridges of Madison County.

"I walked to you, you have walked to me for a long time. Although no one knew each other's existence before we met, there was an unconscious doomed fate singing softly in our unconscious ... just like two lonely geese flying over the vast grassland under the call of divine power, how many years and generations, we have been walking towards each other. " ? Robert Kincaid

Francesca, 67, repeated the birthday ceremony for the ninth time in late autumn and read Robert's letter. Through the long river of memory, she clearly saw Robert, a leopard in her eyes, riding a comet tail down from an alien and landing in her alley. ...

Twenty-two years ago, on a hot summer night, Robert Kincaid walked up to Francesca and asked how to get to the Roseman Bridge. He didn't expect this to be the love of his life.

From then on, he spent the rest of his life with four days of unforgettable love. In order to respect Francesca's choice, he kept running on the road and working in a foreign country, resisting the temptation to call Francesca at any time and go back to take her away, fulfilling her love and his love.

He took the little note she wrote with him, which was the only thing he owned her and the only evidence that he owned her instead of dreaming. Countless times, I feel her breath, her gentleness, and the reluctance between the lines.

Looking at the blurred figure on the film, I spent one long night of lovesickness after another; He carved her name on the round pendant of the necklace and kept it close to his body, which was the only way for him to be alone with her.

He grew up without parents, relatives and relatives. Before he died, he left his camera to Francesca, hoping it wouldn't cause any trouble. He knew that she would be happy to receive his camera. He scattered his ashes on the Roseman Bridge, so he will never be with her for the rest of his life. After death, he will return to her side and accompany her silently. ...

I read a letter from Robert Kincaid to Francesca with tears in my eyes, a letter given to her after his death, and a letter full of eternal love for her.

Francesca, a peasant woman from abroad, lives in rural Iowa. Her husband Richard is kind, steady, rigid, heartless and boring. He doesn't like her going out, so he quit his job as a teacher and took care of the children at home, leading a quiet life in a trivial life. In this simple country, there is no poetry, no music, no romance and no passion. In the evening, she always reads in the kitchen alone and communicates in words.

When Robert, who claimed to be the last cowboy, came to her, her heart was no longer calm, and she felt something beating inside her. She followed Robert to watch him shoot the Rossman Bridge. He gave her a bunch of wild chrysanthemums to thank her for being a guide. She received the first bouquet of flowers in her life, and she held them tightly in her arms like a girl.

She can smoke in front of him, wear her favorite clothes and cook her favorite dishes; Dance with him, talk about poetry, music and distance, be yourself ... she fell madly in love with him involuntarily.

Happy days are always so short, not to mention four days. Soon she will face a difficult choice: whether to stay with Robert for her own happiness and love, or to continue to be responsible for her family? Finally, she chose the latter. Although she thinks about Robert all the time and wanders away with the idea of calling him and writing to him every day, she knows that as long as she writes to him herself, he will come and take her away. But she has been suppressing her thoughts, never making a phone call or writing a letter, burying this love deeply in her heart, silently collecting news about Robert, looking at his aging face and thinking of him.

After her husband died, she tried to call Robert, but she couldn't find him. She refused the children's request to live with her and stayed alone in Iowa, a place where she remembered all about him.

After receiving Robert's relics, she knew that his ashes were scattered on Roseman Bridge, and she also scattered her own ashes on Roseman Bridge. She can't live with me or grow on the earth with me. Two branches of a tree ... She gave her life to her family and only gave the rest of her body to her beloved Robert. This is the only thing she can repay him. Because he is an understanding person, he loves Francesca and her children in his own unique way.

The Bridges of Madison County, written by American novelist robert james waller, tells the story that Robert Kincaid, a photographer from National Geographic magazine, came to Francesca's village to photograph the Bridges of Iowa, and met and fell in love with her. In the face of this belated love, Francesca finally chose to be responsible for her family, while Robert chose to fulfill her. Four days together brought a touching story that she never forgot about each other for half her life.

Reading The Bridges of Madison County, I felt a kind of heartache and moved, for the unforgettable love between Robert and Francesca, for Francesca to sacrifice her love for her own responsibility, for Robert's fulfillment and his persistence.

In addition to my heartache, I remembered Ma Rong, the heroine of Wang's divorce storm.

On Christmas Day, Ma Rong, who had been missing for one year, voiced again, saying that the reason why he didn't defend his dignity for the first time was to reduce the influence on his children and to have a clear conscience about his family's ten-year contribution.

Hope Wang: "As a father, can you think about whether your words and deeds will harm your child's physical and mental health and growth?" ? And I am ready to face the eyes of my children when they grow up! "

If Ma Rong didn't marry Wang because of love, then her original intention of marrying Wang is questionable. Regardless of the purpose of Ma Rong's marriage to Wang for the time being, has she considered that her words and deeds will do harm to her children's physical and mental health and growth? Is she ready to face the eyes of the children when they grow up?

Ma Rong always knew that Wang was not an ordinary citizen, but a star. In contemporary times, it is difficult for stars not to be concerned, and gossip about stars is the most talked about thing after a meal. She said that the change of a family should not be a social topic, so you Ma Rong didn't do anything to change the family. Can this social topic find you?

To say the least, she cheated for true love. Then, for the sake of the child's physical and mental health and not hurting the child's growth, can she learn from Francesca and give up her love for her family? Can Song Zhe, like Robert, stay away from Ma Rong for love and fulfill Ma Rong's responsibility of protecting children and family? No, Ma Rong didn't, and neither did Song Zhe!

Looking at The Bridges of Madison County, I am even more impressed by Robert and Francesca's unforgettable love and moved by their rational restraint.

Because I love you, I must leave you and fulfill you!

May all the right people meet at the right time, and may all lovers get married!