The selfie in the circle of friends was praised. How to reply?

Being praised by others, how can we show our high emotional intelligence by answering? I have summarized the following five coping styles for reference only.

1, accept reply

If someone praises you, you don't know how to respond, at least accept and thank them for their affirmation. At this point, you can say "thank you for your compliment" and so on. Acceptance itself is a response to each other.

For example, the other party praises your beautiful photos.

You said: the photo is very beautiful, and the other party said: the main thing is the good scenery. It is better to set off people. Or mainly the photographer's skill.

When someone praises your nice clothes, you can say: Really? Do you like the color or style of your clothes? Really, you said that. I just found out that this is the case.

The other person praised you for your beautiful hairstyle, really? Now that you mention it, I have confidence to say it.

Step 2 answer modestly

If you are usually a low-key person, you can choose some modest words to respond to others' compliments.

For example, "No, you flatter me" and "I just did my job.

For example, if a leader or elder praises you, you can say: Thank you for your recognition. Such a good result is not due to your leaders. Thanks for the training of leaders.

Without your guidance. I wouldn't have done so well. I will learn more from you in the future.

If a colleague praises you, you can say that it's all due to everyone, or you flatter me, which is not the result of the joint efforts of the team.

Or: thank you, I'm just a little lucky this time. So I won the first place. This response gives people a sense of modesty.

3. Respond with counter-praise.

If you are eloquent, you might as well try to say something moderately complimentary at this time. For example, people praise your clothes for their beauty.

You can say, "This shirt you are wearing today is also very nice. I like it very much.

Or no matter how others praise you, you can reply directly to thank you.

Then by the way, boast that the other party is really good at talking! Your eloquence is not generally good! How did you practice your eloquence so well? I want to learn eloquence from you.

This common sentence pattern is a kind of entertainment.

People praise you for your talent, and you have a good eye. As the saying goes, there are always swift horses, but Bole is not always there. And you are the only one in my Bole.

You are so eloquent that you will have a bright future.

I like listening to this, but you can tell me more later.

Point.

Step 4 respond with ridicule

Or say happily: I like listening to this, and I can say more in the future.

Your mouth is like eating honey. When did it become so sweet?

For example, you are so beautiful, you can say that I am so happy to hear handsome guys praise me.

Yes, I can't stand next to a handsome guy without beauty!

If someone praises you for your excellent work, you can reply: please don't do this.

Someone is humorous: you reply: Hey, it's too difficult to be a saint. I still like to listen to these flattering words.

When someone praises you for your good looks, you can say: just so-so, third in the world.

Someone praised you for being handsome: You replied: How can you steal my lines?

Still too happy to be praised by beautiful women! I am so happy to be praised by handsome guys, thank you!

I really send Juck Zhang's commendation certificate.

Step 5 respond by changing the subject

If others praise you for your talent, but you know that you actually have only half a bucket of water, then the praise may not be intentional, so you don't have to detour on this topic. You can express your thoughts diplomatically and find another topic to talk about.

For example, colleagues praise your clothes for being particularly handsome.

You can say: thank you. Do you like it? I bought this dress from Wanda. Where can I take you to buy it? Are you going?

So you can lead the conversation to others,

Others boast that "you boast that your products are so good, you are red flowers and we are green leaves."

You can boast that "We are all green leaves" is the product of safflower.

As a newcomer to the company, customers boast that "your business is very sophisticated".

You can say, "Don't worry." Then place an order to buy our things.