Speak well - Gratitude Diary 2019.8.4

Daily Reading | Dictionary (Matsuura Yataro)

? A few days ago, I met a woman who chose words very well. She is a young photographer with amazingly beautiful words.

What she said was the so-called respect, but there was nothing wrong with being overly attentive and being disrespectful, and her way of speaking was very clever. I was shocked, but then I thought about it and guessed it was probably because I was older and her work partner when we first met.

? Later, I met her several times, and she spoke exactly the same way as when we first met. Whether it was an elder like me, a work-study student much younger than her, a ramen shop clerk, or a child, no matter who she faced, she always spoke in the same appropriate manner. I was deeply moved and asked her: "You always speak so politely, do you pay special attention to it?" As a result, she told me that her teacher taught her not only to use words, but also to maintain the same attitude no matter who she is dealing with. manner.

We don’t mean to speak in a rude manner, but we often fail to do so without even realizing it, making our words careless. However, as long as you think that the purpose of choosing words is not out of etiquette, but out of mentality, the way you speak will definitely change. The meaning of the choice of words lies in the mentality that a person holds to face the world. No matter what the other person's status is, treat them with the same attitude.

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Language belongs to time, silence belongs to eternity. "It's a pity that this wonderful idea must be explained in words. A kind word is warm, but a bad word is hurtful. Verbal violence is an invisible knife that hurts people. So we must speak well and treat everyone kindly.

Words are sharp weapons, so be careful when speaking. Don’t spread rumors or spread rumors. If you talk about others behind their backs, others will talk about you behind their backs.

The greatest accomplishment of a person is to know others. Don't judge others. Talk less if you don't understand others. Be a listener. Listen carefully to show respect and care. Only by speaking well can you win the audience. Win friends. Sometimes speaking, it is just a move of lips and tongue, sometimes it is for expression, but it is also an art.

A person must be able to listen carefully.

Under the principle of fairness, if one person can speak happily, another person must listen attentively. The philosopher Santayana said: "Eloquence is the art of democracy; the art of eloquent conversation belongs to the aristocracy. "The nobles he refers to are not rich people, but interesting people.

Discovering the truth in one's heart requires strength of character. Only the brave dare to face themselves alone, and only the wise can keep themselves company.< /p>

? I went downstairs to enjoy the cool night and met my aunt who had not returned to work for many years. The couple traveled between Shanghai and Shenzhen to take care of the housework for their two children. Now that their grandchildren are older, they have come back to take care of their children. When you calm down and listen to the elders describing their family affairs, you will gain a lot of insights into life. The connection between listening and speaking is also connected with politeness and respect.

Be grateful and happy to accept the commission from an elder, and treat them with respect. Although they finally chose to give up, we are here to help.

We are grateful for the calls we received from our sisters. Although we don’t contact them often, our trust and love are always there. In my heart.

? It is the most gratifying thing to be grateful that my daughter is praised as polite and sensible by others. I am grateful for reading and resting, and talking to the author. I am grateful for my good mood on the weekend.