That girl who knows how to look at other people’s eyes always thinks of others when doing things. Her life is really tiring.

That girl who knows how to look at other people’s eyes and always thinks of others when doing things is so tiring

This is an article I wrote on a whim occasionally.

Because that guy Yanzi complained to me again that getting along with her colleagues was too troublesome. Now whenever she mentions going to work, she gets dizzy, her legs feel weak, and she feels a lot of reluctance.

Yanzi can’t blame anyone else for this situation, she brought it upon herself!

Yanzi is actually a very good person. Perhaps because she lives in a reorganized family, she has learned to live her life by looking at others since she was a child.

Her excellent qualities were fully exposed after I spent less than a week with her.

If a few girls in the dormitory talk about a topic that embarrasses a girl, she will immediately change the topic; the girl in the dormitory will pretend to have a stomach ache whenever it is time for her to clean. , at this time Yanzi became the best helper; when it was hot and he didn’t want to go out to buy food, Yanzi would help bring it; if he couldn’t get up in the morning, Yanzi would help bring breakfast and occupy a seat.

In short, Yanzi is like a mother who is twenty or thirty years older than us, taking good care of the girls in the dormitory.

That girl who knows how to look at other people’s eyes and always thinks of others when doing things is really tiring

Logically speaking, such a girl should be very popular, right?

No!

Over time, the girls in the dormitory became accustomed to Yanzi's silent dedication. They regarded her as the silly big sister in "Silly Spring", and they would come and go with her at the drop of a hat, even if they were too little When things go wrong, Yanzi becomes restless. Even if she is not the culprit of the matter, she is afraid that the flames will burn her, so she hastily tries to put an end to the matter.

The same is true for people in the class and other dormitories. She will always stop any quarrels that are about to be filled with gunfire "just right", and even sacrifice her own rest time to help her classmates. It's her job.

The girls in the dormitory have forgotten that the silly eldest sister’s younger brothers and sisters come and go as soon as she calls. That’s because they are related by blood, but what about Yanzi? After leaving school, the most heartless people are just looking at each other as strangers whom they don’t recognize!

Yanzi seems to be unable to learn to refuse. She is used to doing things by looking at other people’s eyes. She doesn’t know that if she wants to get along with others, she must first learn to be herself!

That girl who knows how to look at other people’s eyes always thinks about others, and her life is really tiring

Yanzi’s eyes were a little confused, and she said: “Under the same roof, isn’t it? Do you need someone to accommodate you? Otherwise, how will you live your life without looking up?"

I don't know where her old-fashioned temperament comes from. I always feel that she is humble. There is an unknown pain in the bones, as well as the helplessness of hating iron for not being able to become steel.

But her situation soon changed for the better, and the turning point was the boyfriend she met in the club.

The news that Yanzi was dating a boyfriend soon spread to our dormitory. Yes, it was not Yanzi who told us, but someone in the club.

A few of us sat around Yanzi and asked her jokingly when she started and how far the two of us had developed.

Yanzi kept explaining to us hesitantly that it was not that she didn’t want to tell us, but that she just wanted to wait until the time was right before telling us.

You see, Yanzi deviated from the topic again. We didn't blame her for not telling me, but she always thought that we would be angry about this matter.

Later, Yanzi became busy. Every day I came back when the lights were about to turn off in the dormitory. When I came back, I would simply wash up and then go to bed. There were very few opportunities for us to have a lying talk.

But there were obviously more smiles on Yanzi’s face. Although she loved to laugh before, her almost "warm" smile was not as bright as her smile back then. I knew she was really happy.

Maybe it was because I had a boyfriend that I felt I had someone closer to my heart.

Yanzi’s relationship lasted for a year and a half before the man unilaterally broke up with her.

Yanzi cried like a child. It was already half past ten in the evening, and he was still sitting alone in the big playground, drinking canned beer and talking to himself.

"She said that I was too considerate to him, that I was like his mother, asking for help, treating him like a child..."

"As a girlfriend , Isn’t it right for my future wife to do this?”

“This is how my mother treats my stepfather!”

“How can this kind of love make him feel suffocated? ?”

…

I held Yanzi and didn’t know how to comfort her.

That girl who knows how to look at other people’s eyes and always thinks of others when doing things is so tiring

But Yanzi’s recovery is very fast, and soon she is resurrected with full blood and devoted into a new life. Because, Yanzi soon started his second and third love.

When the last relationship ended, the sadness of the first time was no longer in Yanzi’s eyes. She didn’t drink or cry, she just said: “It turns out that everyone is different! ”

When I graduated, the only person in the class who wanted to take a photo was Yanzi. That day, Yanzi was like a flattered lone goose, surrounded by classmates who were vying for the first place, taking photos with her, hugging her, and blessing her. Yanzi is also the only one so far. As long as he says something in the class group, several people will immediately echo behind him. Even the monitor can't do it. Even if the monitor wants to hold a class party, he has to inform the group through Yanzi. .

This girl spent four years of non-stop work in exchange for the respect, trust and non-rejection of the whole class.

So, when Yanzi always complains that she has trouble getting along with her colleagues, I know that this silly girl has started her school days again. The only difference is that one goes to work and the other goes to school.

Yanzi and I live in the same city because we are both from the same province and we found jobs together.

I said if you find it troublesome, then just find another job. Anyway, you have just graduated and there are plenty of opportunities.

Yanzi covered her mouth and smiled and said: "No, our director is planning to let me be his assistant now. Sister Zhang has been working for seven or eight years and is still just a clerk. I can't give up this great opportunity!"

You see, this girl, although her family situation did not bring her a good environment to grow up, her cautious personality has allowed her to usher in more opportunities that others have been unable to get for several years.