The mother-in-law bullied her daughter-in-law and made her son angry. Men break off their mother-child relationship, right?

As the saying goes: "Good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil; It's not that you don't report it, it's not the time. " Actually, this sentence is very realistic. No matter what kind of interpersonal relationship, after all, people's patience is limited. For family relationships, there must be villains at the moment when the relationship is destroyed.

In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to deal with in a family. After all, "I haven't seen my mother-in-law for ten years, and I haven't seen my wife for ten years." But when the mother-in-law was unfriendly to her daughter-in-law from the beginning, she always acted like a demon and annoyed her son at the same time. It is conceivable that my mother-in-law is old and has a miserable life.

My colleague Min Min told me her personal experience, and she hoped that the girl who saw her story would know more about her parents when choosing a husband in the future.

This year marks the tenth anniversary of Min Min's marriage to her husband. They have experienced many ups and downs. It's really not easy for them to come all the way. In the year when they met her husband in Min Min, Min Min's parents divorced. She went to other places to find friends and met her husband there. At that time, he had been divorced for three years, because his ex-wife betrayed his marriage before he was laid off, and they talked about love for nearly a year. Min Min thinks her husband is a very good husband.

But when Min Min first met her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law gave her a duel. Her mother-in-law doesn't like that Min Min's parents are farmers and have no pension, and she doesn't like Min Min and Min Min who don't work in public institutions. But at that time, her husband told her that she wouldn't live with her mother in the future, so Min Min didn't take it to heart and thought that it was enough for two people to love each other.

But just as Min Min was about to give birth, her mother-in-law made it clear that she told Min Min not to take care of the confinement and would not help Min Min with the baby. She said directly: "Who is responsible for the children? I am not responsible! "

After that, Min Min's mother helped her take care of her for the second month, and Min Min took care of her children for three years. In these three years, Min Min has been supporting her husband to start a business, but when the factory has improved, her mother-in-law still dislikes her not working in a public institution, and she will drive Min Min's mother away anyway, leaving Min Min to take care of the children alone.

Because it was only the initial stage of Min Min's husband's career, Min Min held back, feeling that everything was at home and didn't want her husband to be in a dilemma. But her mother-in-law doesn't think so. She always makes things difficult. Min Min always goes looking for trouble to find fault with Min Min's house every day, accusing Min Min of being lazy and making her house a mess. But Min Min thought, there is a three-year-old boy at home who is naughty all day. How can he be neat?

When the child was ill, her mother-in-law blamed Min Min for not having a job and not taking good care of the child. She always said that Min Min ate and drank for nothing at home every day, and her son worked hard to make money every day, but he raised such a lazy woman. At some point, she began to dislike that Min Min's parents were farmers, and said that Min Min's family had climbed into her cadre family.

When her mother-in-law talked about Min Min's parents' divorce, Min Min couldn't stand it any longer. She quarreled with her mother-in-law directly and said, "Get out of my house!"

In the year after that, Min Min had no contact with her mother-in-law, and the child was always brought up by Min Min. Because Min Min took care of the children full-time, her husband's factory was neglected in management, and the financial crisis struck again, which made the factory lose 6.5438+million in one and a half years.

In this way, their family grew from a small family to a debt of 10 million. The husband's psychological endurance is very poor. After that, I stayed at home for half a year and drank wine every day to drown my sorrows. But even in this case, her mother-in-law came to Min Min's house to make trouble. She always accused Min Min of not managing the company well, and Min Min made her son lose money, saying that Min Min should not take care of the children full-time. She also accused Min Min of saying, "You don't take care of my son's factory, but you have to take care of the children full-time. Is it all right now? Is the factory closed? Now I'm in debt100000, all because of you lazy bitch! "

That day, Min Min's husband has been quietly listening in the room. Finally, he couldn't bear it. He opened the door and scolded his mother directly and said, "Mom! Are you in enough trouble? Min Min has endured for many years for the harmony of our family, so you have been bullying my wife. Who do you think will take care of the children? At that time, the children's grandmother came, but you tried to get rid of her all day. The children's grandmother left, and Min Min took care of the children herself. You hated her for not having a job. Isn't taking care of children a job?

You should know that his children are more tired than going to work. What have you done for our family? How dare you accuse Min Min at this time? Everything in the factory is my responsibility, not Min Min's. You go, you are not welcome in our family. Get out! If you bully Min Min again, I'll disown you directly! "

In this way, in the next five years, Min Min started her own WeChat business, propped up their small family, and her husband's career began to improve. At this time, her mother-in-law began to show goodwill, hoping that the Min Min family could take her in and provide for her old age.

After knowing her mother-in-law's mind, Min Min resolutely opposed it and clearly said to her husband: "If you let your mother live in our house, I will move out and we will divorce!"

Her husband's attitude towards Min Min was so firm, while her mother-in-law hanged herself when she cried, ran away from home and pretended to be ill. Min Min turns a blind eye to all this, and she will not be soft-hearted. Because whenever she thinks of her injuries and grievances, she feels that her mother-in-law's experiences are nothing at all. Min Min feels that all this is now due to her mother-in-law. She won't be soft-hearted or care about her mother-in-law.

Many people are talking about how to be so mean to their mother-in-law, but in fact, in real life, there are not a few such mothers-in-law, and they are full of self-righteous superiority. They always think their daughter-in-law is the tallest. This kind of thinking not only does not respect the daughter-in-law, but also does not care about the feelings of the son. What some mothers-in-law do is completely forget what a posterior approach is, and only think that they are qualified to rely on their old age to sell their old age. When she is old, her son and daughter-in-law will of course provide for the elderly themselves, but in fact, this behavior of her mother-in-law is bound to pay off.

So be kind to your son and daughter-in-law while you can still walk. After all, when you can't walk any further, your son and daughter-in-law won't come to look after you, and you will regret crying.