The mother wrote a letter to her son who graduated from college.

Letters have a long history and are widely used in traditional culture. So, how do you write to your son who graduated from college? Below I have compiled a demonstration letter from my mother to my son who graduated from college for your reference!

Mother wrote a letter to her son who graduated from college;

It's like you walked out of college before I recovered.

Four years ago, I encouraged you to go out of Shenyang to study abroad, in order to exercise you. When I learned that you were going to study in Harbin, my heart was filled with sadness. I remember that no matter where I was at that time, no matter what I was doing, as long as I thought that you were leaving home alone to study abroad, my eyes could not help but burst into tears.

I remember when you applied for college, your parents didn't trust you to send you to Harbin. When mom and dad return to Shenyang three days later, you don't want to get up in the hotel bed. I know you don't want your parents to leave. Although you didn't cry in front of us, mom knows your heart is crying. Do you know how sad mom was at that moment? Mom doesn't want you to see me. I went out, tears kept flowing like broken beads at the door. . . Why did I leave you alone in that strange city? But after all, you have grown up. It's time to go out and exercise. Of course, I am worried that you will leave home for the first time, go to other places to study, eat and live in school, and start a real collective life. I'm afraid you can't adapt to the new environment and take care of yourself. College life is not as strict as middle school is full of teachers. I'm worried that you will become sloppy and neglect your studies until that year. With Tenuto? When a healthy and sunny big boy came back, you told us that you joined the student union and the school photography club, and we knew that you were great and could adapt to the new environment quickly.

Son, after four years in college, the journey of life is only a short one. You know, college students nowadays are not talents at all in society, let alone any achievements. In a sense, a college diploma is just a stepping stone to employment. Employment is the beginning of society and a new starting point of life journey. Now you are about to go to society, to the workplace and to the training ground of life. Here, my mother sincerely communicates with you as follows. I hope so.

1, everyone's success is not accidental but inevitable, which contains a lot of bitterness and sweat, so don't expect others, be confident, because I can, so I can. This is the first sentence I told you.

2. The second thing I want to tell you is to find out your career orientation and see what you are suitable for. When you make a choice in life, you should know what you like to do and what you can do. You can go out quickly in a suitable industry, but in an unsuitable industry, although you work hard and can make achievements, you are much slower, so you must try as soon as possible to see what kind of job you are suitable for. Although opportunity is providence, it also belongs to those who are prepared.

3. The third sentence: You should have a good attitude. Do what you can, change what you can, and don't change what you can't. Now that you have graduated, try it and don't let yourself regret it.

4. Beginners will inevitably make mistakes. Simply put, it is better to make mistakes as soon as possible, make mistakes as soon as possible, try and correct mistakes boldly. I can understand and even support your continuous job-hopping in the first three years, and I hope you will try to make all your career mistakes within three years.

5. Be kind to your lover and future spouse. In this country and era, it is more difficult for women to survive than men. You have an obligation to build your spiritual home. Believe me, no matter who she is, I will treat her as my daughter.

Mom, that's the same sentence. I won't put pressure on you. I want to go my own way, and the journey of life will not be smooth sailing. But I hope you are a swift horse, your Bole is your parents, your Bole is your friend and your Bole is your boss. No matter how far you go and how high you fly, don't forget Bole's kindness to you, and respect them as you respect your parents. This is the principle of being a man.

To my son:

Bon voyage!

Love your mother.

XX，XX，XX，XX

The mother wrote a letter to her son who graduated from college.

Have fun in Chengdu recently! Tomorrow is your birthday. Mom and Dad wish you a happy birthday!

I think this birthday should be a turning point in your life. You graduate from college this month and start a new life-work next month. What's the old saying? Step on the job? At this time, my mother has a lot to say to you, and you are not at home, so I want to write you something that my mother has been wanting to say for so many years, which I think is very important. It's my mother's heart, my mother's feelings over the years. I believe it will help you. It's probably a little long. I hope you don't get angry.

1, love yourself

Son, loving yourself is the most important thing in this world, and loving yourself is the cornerstone of your happiness in life. To love yourself is to completely accept yourself in your heart, not only your own strengths and possessions, but also your own shortcomings and deficiencies. Because, my mother believes that people who fully accept themselves will not deliberately publicize and show off their advantages, nor will they deliberately cover up and shelter their shortcomings. Neither jealous of others' possession, nor sad for their own lack; Will not be carried away by temporary achievements, because they still have shortcomings; I won't be overwhelmed by temporary setbacks, because I still have many advantages.

Everyone needs to be accepted and valued by others. A person who completely accepts himself is also easy to accept and value others. People don't accept others, mainly because others have such shortcomings. People can accept their own shortcomings in one way or another, and people will tolerate other people's shortcomings. When you accept and value others, you will be accepted and valued by others.

A person's life is a process of constantly improving himself. Only by completely accepting yourself can we constantly improve ourselves and improve ourselves. People who fully accept themselves are practical, confident, know their own value, know how to cherish themselves, cherish themselves, protect themselves, and be considerate, caring and forgiving.

Accept yourself completely, and you can also accept that the world is not perfect, the world is not always warm, and the road of life is not always smooth.

2. reliable

Son, I remember when you were over nine years old, your mother had a particularly strong feeling that responsibility was too important for a man, so from then on, your mother often told you to be responsible. When you sleep at night, you should remind your mother to turn off the gas and close the doors and windows. At that time, you did very well. My mother still remembers that you would remind her as soon as you went to bed at night. It is still sweet to think of it now, as if you were standing in front of your mother at that time.

Mom also told you, don't promise anyone casually. Once you promise, you have to fulfill it. If you really can't fulfill it, you must give others a reason or reply.

Now that you are about to work, my mother wants to remind you that no matter what happens, as long as it is related to you, you should bravely shoulder your part of the responsibility and don't make excuses to shirk it. Only by taking up your share of responsibility can you not complain and treat everything correctly. Take on your responsibilities, you will have the initiative, and you will be able to better solve the difficulties and problems you encounter. Take your share of responsibility, and you can learn from ups and downs and accumulate experience. In the future, you will be able to shoulder greater responsibilities in life. A person who dares to take responsibility is also a trustworthy person, an honest person, a self-respecting person and an upright person. Of course, my mother also wants to tell you that when taking responsibility at work, you must also pay attention to methods, don't think about what is what, and know that methods are very important.

3. Good health

Son, health is the capital of life. Only when you are healthy can you experience and enjoy life better. Of course, having a good figure is not an overnight thing, but the result of continuous efforts. Your health is generally affected by diet, nutrition, physical exercise and mental health.

In diet, don't be partial to food, eat more fruits and vegetables, especially mushrooms and fungi that you don't like at ordinary times, in order to change your internal environment.

In terms of physical exercise, you'd better make a long-term plan and stick to physical exercise for many years, especially after work, and arrange to walk in front of the computer for one hour to make your muscles stronger and your back more straight, so that you will be more energetic and handsome.

Maintaining mental health is the result of continuous study and hard work. Mental health will directly affect physical health, and many physical diseases are directly derived from unhealthy mental state. Pessimistic and negative information will make people feel worse. Being in a bad mood will make people's immunity decline, people are easy to get sick, people are easy to get into bad habits and hobbies, which is very harmful to people's health. So you should get rid of bad information in time and keep healthy body and mind.

4. girlfriend

You are old enough to talk about your girlfriend, so this problem is what you are facing at present. I don't want to have any rules in finding a girlfriend. I just want to put forward some views for your reference.

There are great differences between people, and everyone has his own values. To put it bluntly, it is what people value most, or what they want most. Some people just want money, as long as they can have money, no matter what means; Some people just want to be famous and do whatever they want. People have different personalities, some are quiet and some are active. Because everyone grew up in different families, influenced by their own family background and living environment, everyone's way of thinking and behavior is different, so everyone's way of being, speaking and doing things will be different. Mother thinks that girls who grow up in warm families are more loving and kind; Daughters born in violent families have deep hatred. In addition to the physiological differences between men and women, men and women are also different in emotional regulation and rational thinking. Generally speaking, men tend to be rational and women tend to be emotional.

These differences between people are the source of contradictions. The more differences, the more contradictions; The greater the difference, the greater the contradiction. Contradiction is the main factor that causes unhappy love. In order to have a harmonious and happy love, the less the difference between men and women, the better. Find a girlfriend with the same personality, the same life values, similar education level and similar family background, and your love road will be less bumpy and more happy.

My mother always wants to express an opinion these days, but she has never found a suitable way. When I watched If You Are the One yesterday, a guest said it was accurate. He said that his father told him that no one should be nice to you except his family, and you should cherish it. This is the case with girlfriends, and so is it with friends.

Step 5 work

Because all this is passive, but I don't think it's important. You'll get to know it after you join the company. Of course, if you are interested in a job, you can easily do it well, have fun at work, get satisfactory results at work, and you will also get a sense of success and satisfaction. If you are not satisfied with your job, you must also find out what you like from your job. Pay attention here and ignore what you don't like at work. Gradually, you will like your job better, but don't give up your choice casually.

In addition, you have just come out of college and have no qualifications and experience in society, so you should first listen and think more, and remember the following aspects:

Professionals:

No one will treat you as a newcomer as soon as you take up your post after training, so you have to do it one by one, so first of all, you should change your students' mentality as soon as possible and turn to professionals in all aspects. Secondly, don't just memorize what others have taught you. You'd better take a pen and make a record, and let others teach you as much as possible, and finish it independently. Third, at work, you should constantly sum up, constantly explore and constantly correct yourself. First of all, you should be familiar with your own business, and then you should observe and learn more about other businesses, which will help your development and progress.

Not afraid of suffering:

You're still young, so there's nothing wrong with doing more. Just sleep and get tired. Therefore, we must think more and do more at work, and don't be afraid to do more. You know, to refuse a job is to refuse an opportunity.

Learn to communicate:

Son, communication is very important in one's life. Learning to communicate is easier said than done. Many people will never communicate. Communication is an art, which requires skill and time. Doing well requires constant efforts. For you who usually don't talk much, communication is a difficult problem, but you can't avoid it.

When communicating, we should understand each other's psychology and understand that people's greatest need is to be understood and appreciated.

Communication is empathy, that is, looking at the problem from the perspective of others and understanding each other's feelings and feelings.

Understanding others certainly doesn't mean that you are forced to agree and accept those views. And admit that everyone insists.

The right to stick to one's own opinions. We can continue to discuss this issue in the future.

6. Please forgive me

Son, mother and father do our best to care for and cultivate you. We wish you a happy life. We are ordinary people, and our abilities and wisdom are limited. In the process of caring and educating you, we must have made many mistakes. We have a temper, and sometimes we are stubborn and rigid. There must be many places where we can't take care of you. Sometimes, we may hurt you emotionally when we insist on what we think is right. We ask you to forgive us. As long as you think we hurt you emotionally, it must be something we did wrong. We apologize to you.

7. Thank you

Son, mother is extremely grateful that you were born in our family, and even more grateful for your tolerance for mom and dad over the past few years. Thank you for being sensible. Mom's greatest luck and happiness in her life is having you. You have finished your mother's life, and you let her know that this trip to the world is too valuable. You have given me many times more than I can give you. My father and I sincerely thank you!

Love your mother.

XX，XX，XX，XX

The mother wrote a letter to her son who graduated from college.

Today, I am glad to receive your good news from afar. On the phone, you told your mother that you had successfully completed your graduation thesis defense and handed in a satisfactory answer sheet for your college career. Congratulations.

In the dead of night, my mother was full of thoughts, tossing and turning, and couldn't sleep for a long time. Look at my watch. It's two o'clock in the morning. I can't calm down for a long time. The past goes back and forth in that not too distant memory. Twenty-four years ago, you came into this world. As far as I can remember, it seems like yesterday that you were held in front of my mother by a nurse's aunt from the nursery, and you will graduate from college in a blink of an eye.

Time flies so fast that I have no time to think, wait and remember. You have grown up. I clearly remember that when your college admission notice came home four years ago, my mother's tears almost dried up, especially when you went to the southernmost city in the mainland to study, and my mother was going to collapse. Children travel thousands of miles, and their mothers are concerned. The straight-line distance between the school where you study and their mothers is about 4,000 kilometers, and their mothers' hearts are full of caring and missing for you. You know, since the day you were born, your mother has been taking care of you, accompanying you with babbling, restless and tired when you were sick, and bruised when you were toddler, so that you went to junior high school? Rebellious period? Mother shapes your healthy growth with loving maternal love.

In the four years of college life, you have accepted the test of the organization, matured and exercised. Through telephone communication, I went to see you at school, my classmates talked with me, and I got to know you. What makes my mother feel most gratified is that you seldom slack off in your studies. You are working hard to complete the study task in the university, and you are also serving as a student cadre and actively serving the students. Through my own efforts, I gloriously joined the China * * * Production Party. Go home in winter and summer vacation, help me do some housework, and help me improve some things at home. Whenever I have any troubles in my heart and happy things in my life, I will talk to you for the first time. I regard you as my son and my mother's confidant.

Tonight, my mother made an exception and drank a glass of old red wine to celebrate your academic success and the beginning of a new life. Mom hopes that your life will be like this cup of old red wine, with light sweetness, rich color and mellow fragrance. Now, you will start a new life, you will be exposed to new things, you will face different environments, you will make many new friends, you will have your own career, and your mother will tell you again:

Where to go after graduation is up to you. My father and I only give advice for reference, because you have grown up, your thinking is mature and your ideas are novel. We believe you will take care of it. In my opinion, a person should devote enough enthusiasm to his work in order to give full play to his talents. No matter how tired and bitter he is, he will have no regrets, enjoy the pain, achieve success and have a sense of accomplishment. So, mom and dad respect your choice.

You should face life with peace of mind and calm emotions, and calmly deal with all unknown difficulties and setbacks. We should stand higher, look farther, be optimistic and never be complacent. Life is short, and time is fleeting. You should be open-minded, healthy and try to be a person who is not humiliated or shocked. Secondly, be an honest person. No matter which job you step into in the future, serve the society and serve the motherland. You should be loyal to your career and treat your friends honestly, so as to win the trust and appreciation of everyone. In addition, health is particularly important to a person's quality of life. You can't ignore it. You should take care of yourself.

Be a man before you do anything. It is the principle and motto of mother's life. Today, my mother wrote this letter, together with these six Chinese characters, as a gift for you to embark on the road of life. * * * Encourage

mother

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