What is a partner? How is the partner culture formed?

First of all, we need to know what a partner culture is.

Partnership culture is a new kind of social relationship, which refers to the relationship in which people regularly engage in certain activities together. Friendship is everywhere in life. After all, anything can be built. 00, a partner is something that an individual cannot or does not want to do alone. Find a stranger to do it together, return to their respective lives after cooperation, and partner again next time because of something. On social platforms, the post-00 generation describes the importance of a partner like this: "You can live without love, but you can't live without a partner". The existence of partnership not only fills the young people's need for companionship at some moments, but also goes hand in hand with intimacy and may turn into intimacy.

Why is it popular among young people?

1. Atomization and defamiliarization in modern society lead to people's lack of enthusiasm and energy to manage intimate relationships, and the relationship with "neighbors" is becoming more and more indifferent and fragile? . Partner culture provides realistic contact with strangers, is an active choice based on the same needs, and has a certain sense of tacit boundary.

Second, the development of the Internet has given more young people a platform and channels to find partners. On the social platform, young people can quickly find like-minded partners according to their own interests and needs, whether it is eating, traveling, watching exhibitions, playing cards, etc. , you can post on the internet or join the group? .

Third, the changes in young people's social needs and consumption concepts lead them to be more inclined to simplify and purify interpersonal relationships, while meeting social needs, diluting the time and emotional costs they need to pay. Partner culture is a kind of "fast food friendship". You don't have to bear too many responsibilities and obligations, and you can find a suitable partner anytime and anywhere.

The essence of partner culture is short-term communication based on the same needs, which is shallower than friends and more important than colleagues or classmates. It is a social way to adapt to the changes of modern society, and it is also a brave attempt by young people to find their own "neighborhood".

What are the advantages and disadvantages of establishing a partner culture?

I think the partner culture has the following advantages and disadvantages:

Advantages:

1 can meet the needs of young people for companionship at certain moments, so that they will not feel lonely and bored.

It can expand the social circle of young people, meet different people and increase the diversity and fun of life.

It can save young people's time and money, and reduce consumption cost and waiting time by carpooling and accommodation.

It can promote teenagers' personal growth, learn new knowledge and skills and broaden their horizons and thinking by communicating with different partners.

Disadvantages:

1 It may lead to young people's neglect and indifference to intimate relationships, lack of true friendship and love, and loss of deep emotional communication and support.

It may lead to young people's excessive dependence and consumption on their partners, regard their partners as tools or commodities, ignore their personality and feelings, and lack respect and trust.

It may lead to some risks and dangers for young people. Because the partner is a stranger, there may be bad behaviors such as deception, fraud, theft and violence, which will bring losses or injuries to themselves.

It may lead to young people's alienation and indifference to society, because partners are short-term contacts, without continuity and stability, and it is difficult to form a sense of social responsibility and belonging.

Common types of partners are as follows:

Dining partner: refers to a partner who eats with strangers. You can spell tables, vegetables and orders, saving time and money and increasing the fun of eating.

Travel partner: refers to a partner who travels with strangers, who can strive for accommodation, transportation and itinerary, reduce travel costs and risks, and expand the tourism circle.

Exhibition partners: refers to the partners who watch exhibitions with strangers, who can share their experiences and feelings, take photos with each other and recommend other exhibitions.

Card friends: refers to the partners who play cards with strangers, who can find like-minded card friends and improve their card skills and level.

Game partner: refers to the partner who plays games with strangers, who can form a team, cooperate and communicate, learn from each other and compete.

Sports partner: refers to the partners who exercise with strangers, who can encourage, supervise and guide each other, and can also increase the motivation and effect of sports.

Photography partner: refers to the partner who takes photos with strangers, who can take photos, comment and communicate with each other, and also learn photography skills and methods.

In addition to the above categories, there are many other types of partners, such as book partners, gossip partners, chat partners and so on. In short, as long as there are similar needs or interests, it is possible to find a suitable partner.

So how to establish a good partnership? What are the hidden rules in the relationship?

First, we should find suitable partner platforms and channels, choose social platforms with credibility and security according to our own needs and interests, publish or browse related partner posts, pay attention to screening and verifying partner information, and avoid encountering bad or false partners.

Second, respect and trust partners, establish good communication and cooperation, clarify the expectations and goals of both parties, discuss specific details such as time, place, content and cost, try to be fair, reasonable and transparent, and avoid unnecessary disputes or misunderstandings.

Third, we should keep a proper distance and boundary, don't rely too much on or consume our partners, don't interfere in their private space and life, respect their personality and choices, and don't force or impose their opinions or feelings.

Fourth, we should have a positive and open mind, enjoy the fun and gains brought by our partners, and be willing to share our own experiences and feelings, maintain a friendly and polite attitude with our partners, encourage, support and learn from each other, and give each other feedback, evaluation and improvement.

In short, establishing a good partnership requires both parties to have the same needs or interests, as well as good social skills and literacy. Only in this way can partnership become a social way of mutual benefit and common growth.