Matters needing attention in wedding

A wedding is the best moment in a couple's life. A good wedding depends on the cooperation between the couple and the wedding service team. Only by paying attention to the details of the wedding ceremony can we realize our dreams and have a beautiful wedding. Matters needing attention in wedding

1. Within three minutes before the wedding, a special person should be responsible for guarding the gate of the banquet hall. The ceremony began, and in the music of the wedding March, the couple were entering the venue. At this time, if there are late guests, someone should stop them, inform the newcomers that they are entering the venue, and let them wait for a while before entering. 2. Before the wedding, the mobile phone of the bride and groom should be turned off or kept by a special person. Imagine that the couple have stepped onto the stage and are having a ceremony, such as pouring champagne, when the mobile phone in the groom's pocket rings. Is there a connection or not? Moreover, it is easy for newcomers to feel anxious to answer the phone too much before the discussion begins, so it is the best way to answer it by someone else. Generally, people who ask the address of a hotel let their friends handle it and answer it in person if necessary. 3. If the newlyweds choose the wedding March when they enter, they should choose Wagner's version. Mendelssohn's wedding March is suitable for the newlyweds to leave. 4, the bride should not mention too much when using a mobile wedding dress, and it is not elegant to expose shoes. 5, wedding ceremony When the bride enters the venue, in order to prevent stepping on the wedding dress, she should kick forward with her toes; The groom's feet should stick to the ground. 6. Newcomers enter the arena with slow pace and eyes in front. Many brides are afraid to step on the wedding dress, so they walk carefully, even staring at the ground all the time, afraid to step on the wedding dress. In fact, just slow down when you enter the venue, kick it out with your toes and gently lift the wedding dress with your hands. Of course, the groom's pace should also be slow. If the groom strides forward, then the cautious bride will not keep pace and accidentally step on the wedding dress. 7. After the wedding, the couple stepped onto the stage and stood quietly. Don't look around. Some newcomers are standing on the stage, their eyes don't know where to look. In fact, you just need to move on. Of course, you are not required to stare at a point all the time, which is too rigid. Be natural, as long as you don't look around. 8. The groom should hold the bride's hand after the couple steps onto the stage. When the witness walks onto the stage, he should shake hands with the couple, congratulate them and then make a speech. 10, wedding ceremony When the witness speaks, the couple should listen carefully and don't whisper to each other. The witness is the distinguished guest you invited. The couple should listen carefully when the witness speaks. If the witness is giving a wedding speech and there is a couple whispering on the other side, it is too disrespectful to the witness! 165438+ If the bride wears gloves, she should take them off before the wedding. 13, after the bride put on the ring, the veil was lifted by the groom. Wedding details

1. For the convenience of sitting, a seating chart was put in front of the check-in desk of the wedding to facilitate the guests to find their seats. For those who need help, the usher will also take them to their seats. 2. Before the wedding ceremony, be sure to check the list of wedding supplies, and be sure to detect the sound in advance to ensure that all the equipment in the ceremony can work normally, and the sound can be heard by everyone present, not too harsh. Wedding ceremony microphone will make some brides and grooms feel uncomfortable, but it is very important. Because of it, the guests present can hear your wedding vows. Unless it is a very small wedding ceremony, you must use a microphone. Especially for beautifully decorated outdoor weddings, if the wind is just in the same direction as the guests' seats, no one can hear the oath read by the priest. If it is a small wedding attended by only family and close friends, just leave a few seats for the elders in advance. For large-scale weddings, it is necessary to prepare seat cards to reduce the time for guests to find seats. 6. Wedding Ceremony Traditionally, the bride's family sits on the left and the groom's family sits on the right. The closer the relationship, the more you sit in the front position. Elders and siblings sit in the first row on the left. If parents are divorced and want to sit separately, it depends on which side has a better relationship with their parents. If you have a good relationship with your father, you can let your father and current wife sit in the first row and your mother sit in the second row.

7. For a large wedding ceremony, all the problems can be solved with a seat card. Write the guest's name on each seat card and put it on the seat or back of the chair. The design of the seat card must be eye-catching You can write the guest's name by hand to show your respect for the guest. 8. If the wedding time is short, you can prepare some alcoholic drinks for the guests. Otherwise, it would be bad for someone to make jokes because of drunkenness in the middle of the wedding. 9. If you think that the vertical microphone will affect the beauty of the photo, you can choose the collar-clip microphone. There is no problem for the groom and the priest to use the collar-clip microphone, but it is a challenge for the bride's dress. If you can't hide, you have to set up a microphone in front of the bride! 10. You can set up a bar near the ceremony venue. When the guests arrive at the ceremony, the waiter can provide them with non-alcoholic cold drinks and decorate them with fresh mint and lemon to make them more eye-catching. 1 1. Wedding rehearsal is recommended for photographers and cameramen. On the one hand, the photographer can choose the shooting position in advance. On the other hand, it also stipulates the location where photos can be taken, otherwise the photographer's photos will affect the order of the wedding ceremony. 12. The number of people attending the rehearsal includes: the groom, the bride, the best man, the bridesmaid, the groom's father, the priest, flower girl and Jietong. 13. The rehearsal of the wedding ceremony is usually on the wedding day or the night before, followed by the rehearsal dinner. 14. Unless your wedding is only 5 minutes, you should arrange a rehearsal. Remember that everyone who walks the red carpet must attend the rehearsal. 15. Determine the location of the ceremony platform and passage. When everyone arrives at the ceremony site, first tell them the location of the altar or ceremony platform, and the location of the red carpet should be marked with ribbons or other colored things so that people attending the rehearsal can see it clearly. 16. Wedding rehearsal time. Depending on the complexity of the ceremony, you can rehearse 2-3 times or even more until everyone can play their roles well, especially Hua Tong and Jie Tong, who are very young. 17. Make clear the order and location of everyone's admission. Usually the groom stands at the ceremony table and waits, and then the best man and the bridesmaid come out. The best man stands in front of the groom's right and the bridesmaid stands in front of the bride's left. When the best man and maid of honor came to the stage, Jietong appeared. When Jietong walked into the middle of the aisle, flower girl scattered petals on the carpet, and then the bride walked across the red carpet accompanied by her father. Be sure to play music when entering or leaving. 18. After the rehearsal, tell everyone the exact time and place to arrive at the wedding. 19. Before the wedding ceremony, the groom's mobile phone should be turned off or kept by a special person. Imagine that the couple have stepped onto the stage and are having a ceremony, such as pouring champagne, when the mobile phone in the groom's pocket rings. Is there a connection or not? So in order to avoid this embarrassment, the groom turned off his mobile phone or gave it to someone else for safekeeping before the ceremony began. 20. Within three minutes before the wedding, someone should guard the door of the banquet hall. The ceremony began, and the couple entered the venue with the music of the wedding March. At this time, if there are late guests, someone should stop them, inform the newcomers that they are entering the venue, and let them wait for a while before entering. 2 1. If the newlyweds choose the wedding March when they enter, they should choose Wagner's version, and Mendelssohn's wedding March is suitable for the newlyweds to leave; 22. Flower children should not lead the way and sprinkle petals in front of newcomers; It's good to find two little flower children to lead the way and scatter petals when entering the arena, but have you ever thought that children's coordination between hands and feet is not very good, and it often happens that little flower children don't leave after scattering petals, and they don't even scatter when they leave? Therefore, it is not a good idea to suggest that flower girl should not scatter petals and let them lead the way in front of couples holding fairy wand hand in hand. ! 23. After the couple comes to power, the groom should hold the bride's hand; I often see the groom standing on the stage with his hands behind his back. In fact, at this time, two people hand in hand, so that all the guests can witness your happiness and sweetness. What a romantic thing! ! ! 24. Don't look around when a new person takes the stage. Some newcomers are standing on the stage, their eyes don't know where to look. In fact, you just need to move on. Of course, you are not required to stare at a point all the time, which is too rigid. Be natural, as long as you don't look around. 25. In order to prevent the bride from stepping on the wedding dress when entering the venue, she should kick forward with her toes; 26. The bride should not ask too much when using a portable wedding dress, and it is not elegant to show her shoes; 27. When newcomers enter the stadium, they should slow down and keep their eyes on the front; Many brides are afraid to step on the wedding dress, so they walk carefully, even staring at the ground all the time, afraid to step on the wedding dress. In fact, just slow down when you enter the venue, kick it out with your toes and gently lift the wedding dress with your hands. Of course, the groom's pace should also be slow. If the groom strides forward, then the cautious bride will not keep pace and accidentally step on the wedding dress. 28. When the witness walks onto the stage, he should shake hands with the couple, congratulate them and then make a speech; 29. The marriage words and wedding wishes of the witness should be carefully prepared. Don't start with a handsome groom and a beautiful bride. There is a wedding word circulating on the Internet, "The groom is handsome, mature and steady, and he is a talented young man; The bride has the inner beauty of oriental women, is gentle, considerate and considerate, and is a lovely girl. I can't say that wedding words are bad, but too many people use them. Moreover, such wedding words are not suitable for every couple. I think the wedding speech should be carefully prepared, and it is most important to send sincere wishes. 30. In the kissing session, the master of ceremonies should not be too vulgar and should not ask the groom to kiss the bride again and again; 3 1. A formal kiss is enough at the wedding, and the master of ceremonies should not ask the groom to kiss the bride again and again. When the couple are kissing, the emcee should not talk too much on one side. At such a sacred moment, what the newcomers should hear is the spontaneous applause of the guests. When couples kiss, the countdown to 5432 1 is even more undesirable. 32. Inform the witness in advance that the microphone handed over by the MC or supervisor has been turned on; Many witnesses who walked onto the stage held microphones. The first thing they did was to turn the microphone on and off. Some witnesses even blew into the microphone twice to check whether the microphone was turned on. In fact, there is no need to do this. Just inform the witness in advance that the microphone turned in has been turned on. Of course, the MC or producer should also pay attention to this small detail to ensure that the handed microphone has been turned on. 33. When the witness speaks, the husband and wife should listen carefully and don't whisper to each other; The witness is the distinguished guest you invited. The couple should listen carefully when the witness speaks. If the witness is giving a wedding speech and there is a couple whispering on the other side, it is too disrespectful to the witness! 34. When couples exchange rings, bridesmaids should avoid appearing in the camera; When the groom takes the ring off the ring pillow, the bridesmaid will take the bride's bouquet and quickly put it aside. After the groom put it on the bride, the bridesmaid came over and asked the bride to take the ring off the ring pillow. 35. When exchanging rings, move slowly, and the ring should gently slide into the ring finger; This is a beautiful moment to exchange rings. Newcomers should move slowly when exchanging rings. While putting it on, you can put it on silently for a few seconds. Don't try to do it like a task. 36. The engagement diamond ring of the wedding ceremony should be worn on the middle finger of the left hand; The engagement diamond ring bought by the couple may be much more expensive than the wedding ring, but it can't be worn on the ring finger of the left hand instead of the wedding ring because of its high price. A diamond ring can be worn by the groom on the middle finger of his left hand when he marries the bride during the day. In western tradition, wearing a ring on the left ring finger represents marriage, and wearing a ring on the middle finger represents engagement. 37. In order to remove the ring from the ring pillow, you can prepare two pins for men's shirts and insert them into the ring pillow. Just put on the ring; Many wedding companies provide ring pillows, which are tied with ropes on the ring pillows. If you prepare two pins for men's shirts and insert them on the ring pillow, wouldn't it be more convenient for newcomers to take the ring directly on it?

38. In the kissing session, couples should be generous, don't be embarrassed, sorry; Kissing in front of many relatives and friends may be the only experience in your life. Since it's only this once, why not be generous and fully enjoy this high-profile sacred moment? ! 39. The wedding ring should be worn on the ring finger of the other person's left hand; 40. If the bride wears gloves, she should try on her wedding ring during the rehearsal to see if she can put it on. If she can't, she should take off her gloves before the ceremony. 4 1. The bride's veil was unveiled by the groom after wearing the ring; 42. When exchanging rings, the back of the couple's left hand should face the camera; Everyone hopes that the sacred moment of exchanging rings can be recorded by the camera, but after reading many posts of newcomers on the fence, it is found that many newcomers exchange rings with their hands flat, so it is difficult to see the existence of rings. If this photo is not an exchange of rings, some people may think that the couple are just holding hands with each other. It's no use looking for a senior photographer if the newcomer has a bad angle. 43. Witnesses' speeches and parents' speeches should be together with the manuscript; All speeches on formal occasions should use manuscripts. This shows that you have been carefully prepared and that you attach importance to your speech. 44. It is best for the witness and parents of both parties to wear formal clothes to attend. Men wear suits and ties, and women wear suits; If you choose to get married in autumn and winter, the witness and both parents will generally dress up to attend. But if you choose to get married in the hot season, many parents and witnesses don't pay much attention to clothes. In my opinion, couples who choose to get married in hot season should at least advise their fathers and witnesses (men) to wear shirts and ties. If they wear T-shirts, they look too casual. 45. If the bride wants to enter with her father, then his father must wear a suit and tie; If you choose this way of admission, dad only wears a shirt, which is too informal. 46. It is best not to use white paper for wedding speeches and parents' speeches, but to print or copy them on red and pink paper; 47. Speeches such as wedding speeches and parents' speeches can be rolled up in advance and tied with red ribbons. When the witness speaks to his parents, the wedding will begin; 48. After the witness takes the stage, both husband and wife should move two steps aside and leave the middle position for the witness. Witnesses should face the guests, the newcomers, and the newcomers are in a figure of eight. After the witness is forbidden to step onto the stage, the new couple will not move, and the witness will stand directly in front of the new couple; (Of course, the actual location depends on the stage. ) 49. When the MC announces the invitation of the witness to the stage, the best man can go to the witness's desk and lead the witness to the stage; The witness is a VIP, which better reflects the new couple's respect for the witness. 50. Newcomers should prepare a VIP flower for the witness; 5 1. At the wedding, the couple should make eye contact; I talked about a lot of details before, all of which are technical. I think the wedding ceremony should pay more attention to the inner feelings of the couple at that time. Newcomers should express their happy and sweet feelings and make eye contact with each other. For example, when exchanging rings, the groom should first look at the bride affectionately and then put it on her. 52. It is recommended that you do not choose to use fireworks when entering the site; The colored paper of the guests' flowers easily sticks to the couple's hair, which is often mousse. Once stuck, it is not easy to shake off. Colorful hair doesn't look good. The colored paper of the guests' flowers is also easy to fall on the dining tables on both sides of the red carpet. I often see dust brought by guests' flowers in bone plates, cups and even cold dishes. 53. If the newlyweds insist on using gift flowers, the first thing they do when they step onto the stage is to tidy each other's clothes and brush colored paper from their hair and clothes. This will show your concern and consideration for each other. 54. Be sure to confirm who will open the champagne during the wedding rehearsal; If it wasn't made clear at that time, the groom thought it was opened by the hotel service staff, and the service staff thought that they didn't tell them that the groom opened it himself. Then when the MC announces the opening of champagne, there will be an embarrassing scene where no one takes champagne. 55. When performing the fluorescent champagne ceremony, the groom should fill the first glass first, and then the bride should pour it again; Both fluorescent liquids are transparent, but when they are fused, they become sky blue. When the groom poured the first cup, everyone saw only the transparent color, but when the bride poured the bottle of fluorescent liquid into the glass, the fluorescent liquid turned into color. The moral of this story is that with the bride's company, the groom's life becomes colorful. If two people pour at the same time, then the guests will think that the fluorescent liquid in the bottle is sky blue, and another beautiful meaning will be lost. 56. When performing the fluorescent champagne ceremony, the spotlight should not be in the champagne tower; The fluorescent champagne tower is bluer only in the dark. If the spotlight is turned on, the wedding will be greatly discounted. At this time, you can use the spotlight to hit the new person in the face. 57. How many fluorescent ice cubes should I buy? Now many newcomers buy fluorescent ice cubes and put them in champagne glasses. As soon as the champagne is poured, these fluorescent ice cubes glow sky blue. Fluorescent ice cubes are used to replace fluorescent liquids. So how much should I buy? How many glasses to buy depends on how many glasses are put in the champagne tower. If the Champagne Tower is built on the fourth floor, a * * * on the fourth floor means twenty cups, that is to buy at most twenty fluorescent ice cubes. If you build five floors, four floors and one * * * is thirty-five cups, that is to buy thirty-five fluorescent ice cubes at most. 58. If the groom opens the champagne himself at the wedding, the emcee or supervisor must give guidance in the rehearsal first. After all, many grooms are opening champagne for the first time. Champagne is not difficult to open, but if the groom has never opened it and may be nervous at that time, it may take a lot of effort to open it. The correct way to open champagne should be to tear off the gold wrapping paper wrapped in the outer layer of the bottle mouth in advance, hold down the cork with your right thumb, loosen the steel wire wrapped in champagne with your left hand, shake it up and down twice, and then push the plastic stopper with your right thumb, and the champagne will be opened. If it still won't open, twist it back and forth with your right thumb and forefinger, and then push the plug out. Champagne should be opened at the bottle mouth. If you are facing yourself, you will feel sorry for your suit. 60. When pouring champagne, the process of filling the first champagne glass must be slow; If the impact on the first glass of champagne tower is too great, then the glass will move forward, and as the center of gravity moves forward, there may be a scene of "close contact" with the ground. If the first glass is poured slowly, champagne will overflow from the edge of the first glass when the first glass is poured again. At this time, it is no problem to speed up and pour the remaining champagne quickly. 6 1. Put on a coat for the bottle containing fluorescent liquid; At the ceremony of fluorescent champagne, I saw many new people holding two plastic bottles. In fact, when you go to the commodity market, don't you think it's nice to buy two small Tang suits on the bottle? 62. Newcomers should hold a cup in their right hand when toasting; If the couple holds the glass in their left hand and the glass in their right hand, it is impossible to carry out such a cup handing ceremony. When holding glasses, be uniform and hold them with your right hand. Of course, you can use your left hand. 63. If the couple want to propose a toast, a drink is also good. If the couple want to hold a toast, they just need to take a sip of wine. After the toast, raise a glass to all the guests. Cheers, everyone. 64. After the wedding ceremony, the bridesmaid or supervisor should take the glasses in the hands of the newlyweds in time; The couple held a toast ceremony in the center of the stage, and the ceremony table was next to it. So where do you put the glass after drinking? At this time, the supervisor or bridesmaid should come here in time and take the glass in the hands of the couple. Don't turn off all the lights in the banquet hall before the MC speaks. Candlelight ceremonies need to turn off the lights, but they should be turned off after the emcee gives a hint to the guests. For example, the master of ceremonies said, "The candlelight ceremony is about to begin. Please sit down. " . The staff who turn off the lights will turn off the lights after hearing this prompt. This also makes the guests psychologically prepared. Without the master of ceremonies, many guests will think that the hotel has no electricity. ! 66. Newcomers drive into the venue by candlelight, and the staff should lock the door at the door, so that the guests and hotel waiters who go out can wait for a while before entering the venue; 67. The wedding ceremony should be negotiated with the hotel, and the kitchen will suspend serving during the candlelight ceremony; When newlyweds send candle cups to each table, it will be a bit disappointing if the waiter serves at the same time; Secondly, when the waiter serves in the dark, the plate is very easy to get in close contact with the ground. 68. Candle cups on a candlelight car can be arranged in a heart shape; Putting the candle cups on the candlelight car into a heart shape not only looks good, but also means soul mate. 69. If the wedding ceremony chooses to put fluorescent ice cubes in the champagne glass, then the crimson "Wei Long" champagne cannot be used as champagne; Two kinds of champagne are usually used at weddings, one is "Wei Long". This champagne is deep red. If you put fluorescent ice cubes in a champagne glass and then pour crimson champagne into it, the color of champagne is crimson with a little blue shimmer. The color is not very nice; Another kind of champagne is Changyu's apple sparkling wine. This sparkling wine is golden yellow. If you put fluorescent ice cubes in a champagne glass and pour golden champagne, the color of champagne will become sky blue. So choose the golden "Changyu". 70. Newcomers should be prepared in advance for a glass of wine. You shouldn't take the top cup of the champagne tower after pouring champagne; The integrity coefficient of the champagne tower made of champagne cups is not high, and it is easy for newcomers to get the top cup, which is prone to the embarrassing scene of "close contact" between champagne cups and the ground. Isn't it a good choice to prepare two cokes in advance and put them behind the champagne tower? 7 1. Newcomers should walk to the center of the stage when toasting; The ceremonial platform where the champagne tower is placed is usually on the edge of the stage. After pouring the champagne, the newlyweds will walk to the center of the stage and then have a toast ceremony. 72. Candle cups on candlelight cars can also be placed as the initials of couples' surnames; I have seen this innovative arrangement, but it is a bit difficult. 73. It is not recommended for newcomers to light candles with lighting matches at each table; There are also many wedding companies that put candles on the candlesticks of each table and let the newlyweds light them at each table with lighting matches. I don't advise newcomers to light candles in this way. Because many guests will hide the candles in advance and remove the wick, when new people go to light candles, they will blow out the lighted matches again and again. If you spend too much time in the candlelight ceremony, it will affect the normal wedding. 74. Cold fireworks should not be placed on the table of wedding ceremony guests; Some newcomers want to give their guests a little surprise. They put cold fireworks on the candlestick of each table and light cold fireworks on each table during the candlelight ceremony. Cold fireworks are beautiful, but the flame from cold fireworks is likely to fall on the plate next to the candlestick. If there are cold fireworks on every table, the whole venue may have a choking smell of fireworks in addition to the joyful atmosphere. I think it is enough to put cold fireworks on the flower booths and candlesticks on both sides of the aisle. 75. In addition to sending guests candle cups at each table, you can also send fluorescent angels instead; Fluorescent angels can also be given as gifts to a guest at each table. Instead of a candle cup, it is also a gift for guests, killing two birds with one stone. However, the fluorescent angel seems a little expensive, 18 yuan each. 76. Candlelight cars are usually arranged with aprons around hotel dining cars. They should be sprinkled with petals or decorated with some roses. 77. When the couple pushes the candlelight car, it should be pushed by the groom, and the bride only needs to put her hand on it; If two people push hard, it is difficult to grasp the direction of the candlelight car.